Sam .. have you thought about putting a litter tray filled with soil next to the kitty litter . There are sprays and deterrents such as pepper you can use .. but personally I wouldn’t do that to a young kitten . They grow quickly .. before you know it .. the wee one will be too large to get in your pots lol.

Make sure there are other distractions too … kittens are very active and curious . If all you have on the deck is plant pots .. that is where the attention will gravitate to .

NZ is a glow with auroras .. amidst the solar flares . Absolutely breathtaking skies wondering if Sir /other minglers have also been as fortunate to witness auroras this week .

maybe you should try a nut roll instead just kidding slim

Hello Annu .. your photos are stunning your writeup is a little sparse .. maybe add something interesting that you like .. what type of person you are attracted to . At 18 I was socialising in the real world .. but that was many years ago lol . Don’t rely just on social media .. take other opportunities to meet and have fun be safe and wary online

Farid .. I believe that is called “1st base” lol .. definitely counts as intimacy /foreplay

Are you any good at cleaning swimming pools ? best of luck

If Tom Hanks can have a coconut person .. Paul can have a baby pumpkin :-) .. welcome Paul

Were you looking for a hot mamma lol

Hey Tom.. if you select Full site .. you can access mail setting options from the menu that gives you control over what emails you receive .

To deactivate your account .. select that option from the settings menu .

If you change your mind and find you miss the site you can reactivate your account anytime . If you have a paid membership . You will need to cancel that . Email the site via the support option .

Anything that includes fighting is a turnoff .. suggest you find a new hobby .. purrrrr

Hi Jennifer .. what Julie said set your filters to minimise the intrusion .. block and delete . Mostly don’t let it colour your experience here . There are decent people and I am sure they will gravitate towards you . Be wary of other agendas and trust with caution until it is deserved . Mostly have fun

Welcome looks like you are having a feast .. hope you are going to share

Sure did .. but I worked a run of 12 hr shifts so I don’t feel guilty at all

Someone who is witty and knows how to make me laugh

oh Farid ..you really need to learn how to phrase questions without implying dishonesty i know it can be a difficult concept to grasp . For safety reasons I am not posting in a public forum who I work for .. I am sure you understand why that might be necessary , given I have not yet finished what I started . Are you related to Etsin ? he also questioned my validity . Given you are both strangers to me why would I exchange personal information as I have said .. those close to me know my professional qualifications and how I have been spending my time overseas . Perhaps get to know me better :-)

I am kinda enjoying being invisible and not having men drool (or whatever else they do when they view online dating pics )

The mind is our largest sex organ .. how your mind responds to and interprets pleasure is unique to you .

As long as that zone is not shark infested Australian waters

but would they orgasm at the sight of a handsome naked man shining the kitchen floor

That is a great question Victory I think like love , we are programmed to imagine married life as sublime happy perfection … Often the reality is very different. Life happens with all its ups and downs . Priorities, needs and desires change . When needs are unmet self actualisation is limited and happiness is unlikely . Marriage is not static and like any connection can become mundane and fragile . I think it is important to make a commitment to prioritise the connection (whether marriage or a relationship ) and remain passionate and interested in each other .

When it comes to excitement .. My senses adore extremes ..
desert heat /alpine snowflake kisses
Shy Innocent stares /lust filled gaze
Lazy sleep ins / adrenaline fuelled activity ..,
You get the picture .. just your average kiwi girl