I don't take a joke well.......so?.........lol

Ok...let me go into this topic a bit deeper.


It's (almost) universally accepted, that men makes first contact with the women..let it be a bar, on street or even on a dating site.

It's been on like this for thousands of years, perhaps cavemen were doing the same thing, I would suspect so. There are of course exception for whatever culture or tradition at certain points in the world, but it's a small percentage and really doesn't make an impact or alter the rest of the world on dating and making a relationship.

Men finds it "normal" not to get accepted, or at least they should, especially if there are more other men competing for the same woman.

So we get to the point, when a man tries to make a contact and gets thrown off and he moves on to find someone else or tries again and again until he is successful with the female and a relationship develops. It's the same in the animal world.

Then we come to when a woman is making a contact to the male, and that's - if you ask me - entirely different.

When a woman tries to make a contact, it is - correct me if i'm wrong- supposed to be a bit more meaningful, coming from the fact, that women has a bit of a different mindset than men and us men should take the woman's interest more seriously than women should with men.

This is really nothing complicated and not something outrageous and men who protest that we are equal with women, should take a deep breath and accept the fact, that we aren't equal, when we get asked about dating and relationships, because from the single fact, that a woman might have to bear a child and needing support for a lifetime is makes it a more serious decision for her than for a guy, you can't fight this...a mother is more important to a child than a father, although I'm not going into a debate about just how important a father is (very), because I can already feel the onslaught I might get from single moms who feel better of by themselves raising their child, than having a man around.

So..anyway.
I just think it is important to keep in mind - again, it's my opinion- that even just a small email coming from a woman to a man, is actually more meaningful - or at least I think so - than a man's e-mail going to a woman. Looks small and insignificant, but the difference is still there...and i can't believe I spent 20 minutes writing this.

Which once again begs the point I've brought up several times in the past: What makes meeting somebody for the first time from online any more risky than meeting somebody for the first time from the grocery store?




As one of the people I have met Keith, you know yourself meeting Dan was dangerous. Between him and Trace we were lucky there wasn't a sheep stampede!~

Just dial "M" for MURDER!!!