Good advice. Of course be wary of anyone asking for tons of money. I have NEVER been solicited for funds by Pagans. The most they might request is a few dollars for an event they want to hold and then they divide it amongst everyone and donations are optional. Any thing beyond that I would be suspicious of.

Also you should never feel forced or pressured into anything. Pagans generally have a rule against proselytizing. There are several reasons for this but primarily it is because they want people to come to them. This is a very important aspect of this spirituality itself. It is a very "seek and ye shall find" phenomena.

Lilith Ive done it in the past. I know I have mentioned it on another thread a while back but Im not digging it up again. I did it while I was in college and studying for my Bachelor of Science. I was EXTREMELY busy with course study, working and also I did some volunteer work. I had a tight schedule to say the least.

Did that mean that my physical needs would somehow magically vanish on their own?

Hardly.

The gentleman I had made this arrangement with worked and lived on a commercial fishing boat. Of course we had nothing in common. He was functionally illiterate. There was no way we would be compatible beyond a strictly physical relationship.

I had the ability to contact him when needed and he was forbidden from initiating any of our meetings. We met on the boat and I would stay with him there. No one ever knew or discovered.

This went on for months. No problems whatsoever and I found the sexual empowerment to be truly fulfilling.

You need to manage it correctly and take control from the word go.

Oh god, forget it. I just wait for them to refuse to pay for something which will happen sooner rather than later and try to root around for that clause somewhere amongst page 79 or so.

Okay are you the new Mirror Mirror?

A Sax by the way.

Older people fuss less also.

Its probably a combination of biological factors and environmental stimulus or pressures. There are MANY more men who want to become women than vice versa.

According to "Seinfeld" the rules are, but not limited to:

"no phone calls the day after"

"spending the night is optional"

"and no kissing"

Baby steps!

I tend to be the type of person who can at least have fun with anyone I go on a date with. If there is really some kind of an issue or I feel my safety is compromised in some manner, I will take my leave. I once had a guy yell at a waitress in a restaurant on our first date. I excused myself and made a b-line for the back exit and took a cab home. Crap like that is pretty rare though.

I just realized I entirely misinterpreted this thread. I apologize. I guess it never hurts to hear about 60 year old male virgins to make the rest of us not feel so bad.

Anyway, that needs to go on its own thread of biblical contradictions. Aren't we discussing evolution on this one or has that totally gone by the wayside?

That actually could have been a line from the novel "Tobacco Road." Very good!

Weman!

Right. One of these days...Pow right in the kisser!

I am annoyed with foolish people who make attempts at calling others on their foolishness as Lex pointed out.

What about a human?

Yeah I just switched over to Firefox and now it has that. Thanks. I usually manage without it since I write a lot.

Well I think reproductive biology has a helping hand there.

Oh I see what you mean. I have been using Explorer. Thanks.

Is there a spell check feature on this site?