I think time is a big issue on this topic. A friend of mine dated an ex
of mine about 15 years after I did. Knowing people change little over
the years I warned him. He married her and came home early one day and
found her in bed with a man and a woman. We had no problems because he
dated and married her. Hell this girl and I talked about our high school
days and her brother(a friend of mine who is no longer with us) alot of
the time.

Dating a friends sister also worked for me back then. But the friend
asked me to go out with her. This is the same girl mentioned above.

Dating a fresh ex or long term relationship ex could cause problems. So
each case has to be thought out and talked out.

PMS that is a different story. I would have blocked his ass. I had a
female come onto me in a simular way. But she gave her personal email
account and had the tell tale signs of a scammer.

But if I email you with a quick note that I like your profile please
check mine and see if you would be interested in emailing me for a
friendship. I expect a reply. Even a simple "No". I can understand time
issues as this is the busiest time of the year for me. I am staying gone
from 5:30am til 6-7pm nearly every night for the last 2 weeks. But I
have made a few short replies to the emails and skipped checking the
forums a few times.

Sorry for your loss. I lost a sister to a horse riding accident. Her
and I were very close(unlike the rest of my siblings). The suicide part
of your sister death may be an issue for many years. I know a close
friend who lost a brother that way. All I can say is time does help the
pain but never takes it away. You are in my prayers as well as the rest
of your family and friends.

I started putting a line in my emails to please reply with answer no
matter if it is yes or no or in between. It really improved the number
of replies. It does take time as some people are not on here very often
for some of the replies. I still get several no replies and it ticks me
off. It leave me questioning did they even get the email, did they not
like something about my profile or email. A simple reply with NO writen
in it is easy to do and I can handle the rejection as even I have told a
few NO and went on but they got a reply.

I would have to live with the woman 6 months or so before I would vote
for her. My ex had bad PMS about every 4-6 months. During this time she
would have pushed the button, LOL.

All joking aside, I doubt we will ever see a woman as pres. It has
nothing to do with me not wanting one as pres. It is still a mans world
in big business once you get to the top. And these business men give the
money to get the pres in office. I will say I would never vote for
Hillary. Give me a lady worth voting for and I will vote for her if she
is what I see as the best choice that year.

On a side note, I doubt I will see a black president in my life time as
well. There are to many people that think blacks are ignorant. I hate to
say it but many blacks up hold the stero types given just by talking.
The slang that blacks use makes them seem uneducated even if they are
college professors. I had 2 black college professors. One always talked
about the other because he refused to talk ENGLISH. This slang speaking
teacher was hard for me to learn from yet he was much higher than the
first in education. I am thought of as stupid by many because I speak
hillbilly and not english.

I have only seen a couple cover bands. One was OK the other sucked. It
is nothing against it not being the original artist but I feel they
should be able to play the song, LOL. The one that was OK lacked a stage
presence but played and sang well. I forgot who the OK cover band was
doing. The one that sucked was a Black Sabbath and the music was a bunch
of noise as they were not playing in time with each other. So bad they
left a long lasting impression, LOL.

I want a woman who is comfortable enough that when I say something
about another woman looking good she does not get up tight and jealous.
I never cheated on my ex wife yet she has slapped me for looking at a
hot car because she thought I was looking at the blonde behind the
wheel. Hell she was the one when we went to a concert who shouted " I
want to have your baby" to the lead singer. I look at all the beauty god
creatated. I still know who I am with and where home is.

A saying I heard many years ago seems so true. The person in the
relationship who accuses the other of having an affair is normally the
one having the affairs. I was accused by the ex because I looked at
other women and said things like she look fine. Yet she had 3 affairs on
me.

The ex and I did many mystery shoppers. Sonic, Captain Ds, Shoneys, and
a few others. Most only get you free food but a few paid you for your
time.

King, I would love to come across a shop with a big box full of those
patches. Not so lucky around here. I did find a few used ones on items
at yard sales which were cut off and put in storage. Maybe some day. I
remember all to well wearing my cowboy hat, western style black shirt,
blue jeans, and my blue jean jacket covered in those patches. Rocking
cowboy always here I guess.

Current car is a Ford Crown Vic PI(yep police car) white. Good gas
mileage for a large car and plenty of power.

Favorite was a 1970 Monte Carlo Gold on Gold special edition. I found
out a little to late what a gem I had. I purchased it from a guy who
worked for the dealer ship and got the car as a repo in 71 with a blown
engine. He kept the car in a garage but it was driven every day to work.
The seat had several rips from him getting into the car with screw
drivers in his pocket. A guy ran a stop sign and hit the front tire and
the pasenger door so hard it bent the A frame. It totalled his brand new
91 dodge ram pick up to the point it had to be hauled away on a wrecker.
I drove my car to the garage(couple miles away) and parked it. Then we
ran the numbers. My car was one of 100 gold on gold special editions and
actually one of 50 because 50 had power windows and 50 had cranks(mine).
I got every penny I paid for the car back and got to keep the car. I
fixed it to drive and drove it a few more years but never could find
parts for it. I sold it and about a month later found one that had been
wrecked in the rear for sale cheap. I called the guy I sold my car to
and told him where to find the parts as I wanted to see that thing of
beauty back on the streets looking slick.

Something I have always wanted a caddy hearse from the early to mid
70's of course it has to be black or another 70-72 monte carlo. BTW I
used to drive a used van style ambulance. Alot of people would not ride
in it due to people dieing in it on the way to the hospital.

If I could get the stuff to replace it I would. Those band patches are
hard to get. It was something else lost to fire along with the original
release of Paranoid by Black Sabbath LP. Sometime you do not know what
you got until its gone.

Eating breakfast while on line. Today is a at home day cleaning seeds.
I am normally already on the road going to get seeds. So yes we work.
Just not the same hours as you, LOL.

My ex was the fragle rock fan. I was a smurf fan and had most of the
figures(not all of them made but all 101 smurfs) and a few of those
mushroom houses. I had about 300 pieces. These items were lost to our
house fire a few years back.

The music scene was very split for me. The POP music nearly all sucked.
The heavy metal side though really came to life in the 80s. What about
the music videos back then?

The clothes sucked. Anyone watch "The Wedding Singer" lately for it 80s
fashions and music. Try finding something that a red head looked good in
with all those bright colors. Our light colored skin reflect the color
of our clothes. I had a green shirt and every time I wore it I wouldf
get comments are you sick. I needed my earth tones and had a very hard
time finding cloths.

I had a blue jean jacket with several band patches put on it. That is
something I wish was still in style.

Your welcome from all of us.

Now my post. I took my ex back after finding out she had an affair
several years ago. Recently I found out there was a another before him.
But think the past is the past I did not make a big deal about it. Then
she goes and has a lesbian affair with a co worker. Moral is once a
cheater always a cheater. You did the right thing. The pain does ease up
and some say it goes away. My ex left in April. Most of us on here have
had this experience of some sort. This is how we can help each other as
a support group. A couple people from this board and I chat regularly
about other topics which we have in common. You have a problem and need
support throw it out. Someone here is bound to be of help or atleast a
kindred spirit for you to talk to.

LUCKY 13. Yep this is one of my favorite days. I already had a phone
call this morning with good news. I have alot of work handed to me
because my partner(ex mother in law) has to much to do. So more money
for me. But to her it was bad news as part of what she has to do is
costing her money.

Have a GREAT LUCKY Friday 13th.

It would be hard to impeach him. The process would disrupt to much of
capital hill. But doesn't the vice pres become pres when you impeach
one? I think we would still have a problem, LOL.

I vote for the person I think will do the best. I refused to vote for
pres this last time due to all that were running being not worthy.

Only bad thing Ronny did was allow the interest rates to get way to
high and kill the real estate market and large product business like
catapillar tractor were also effected. We need another pres who has
morals.

One of my pet peives about democrats is they try to raise minium wage.
It is a proven fact that raising the minium wage hurts the poor more
than it helps. All companies start increasing the prices of their goods
before the rate increase in wages and end up making more proffit while
the poor start paying more for the goods they get while still getting
the current wage. The middle class making more than minium wage is hurt
the worst. The have to pay more before the rate increase like the poor
but since they make more than minium wage alot of the time they do not
get a pay increase or a delaid increase in pay so that they get hurt the
most. A set minium wage is needed but raising it does not help ANYONE
except the RICH.

Well I truely love flowers. At one time I had over 100 varieties of
African Violets with several of most types. So with so many potted
flowers in my home I could never understand the ex wanting cut flowers
over the other gifts. At one point I had over 500 house plants. My
current count is 3 and 2 of them are in water rooting to be potted.

If I ever get a home of my own(purchased), I will plant a large amount
of flower beds. Iris, daylillies, asiatic lillies, and gladolias are
some of my favorites. I also want a nice koi pond.

Myndlash, I will remember that, LOL.

I play PS2 games sometimes but not in a while. I have GT 3 and love it.
Would like to play GT 4. I had nascar 2002 and enjoyed it back then(disc
got stolen). Games are normally old news before I ever get them. Motor
Mayhem is my favorite family game as it is 2 players and simple enough
for my 5 yo to play(but never win unless I let him).

I pogo. The ex and I had a joint screen name as a club pogo member and
our own screen names. I am honeyrobber on pogo. I am no longer a club
pogo member. Maybe setting a time for justsayhi people to meet up in a
game like slots so each person could play as much or little as they
wanted and have a real time chat is in order.

Clue and monoply are my favorite family board games. I suck at chess
but love playing it.

But this is not "GAMING" lol. Gaming is gambling like you do in
casinos. I am into roulette and Black Jack. I even play these type games
on the PS2.

Well my father has a nursery and has plenty of flowers during their
seasons. So I commonly brought flowers home. I agree they are pretty and
one of the reasons I am so into plants. One morning I woke up before the
ex which was very normal and drove to my dad's place in the early spring
when buttercups were blooming. I filled several large vases with all the
different types and brought them home. But she said that it is not the
same as me buying her flowers. But to me they are still not a gift. They
are just cut flowers to brighten the home. I can not get past the idea
that they die in a few days.

Well I like the close up picture better Kat. You can not see your face
in that pic. I do like seeing pics that actually express who you are as
it seems you love working and showing dogs. And yes I know I need a
new/better picture of me just been to busy lately.

Love the name as change though.