Topic: e mailing people back
HopurntBipolr's photo
Fri 10/13/06 01:11 PM
Why is it you spend time looking at a profile then send that person
e-mail, and they can't take the time to e-mail you back with any type of
reply. People can be a little bit nicer if you ask me. Time spent on you
should be recognized.

stranger1's photo
Fri 10/13/06 01:18 PM
thats the nature of the beast

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Fri 10/13/06 01:33 PM
don't let it bother you. alot of people aren't on here all the time so
you have to be patient. i use to send out tons of em and if they didn't
reply then i delete and move on. some women get tons of mail a day and
it takes time.

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Fri 10/13/06 02:01 PM

I started putting a line in my emails to please reply with answer no
matter if it is yes or no or in between. It really improved the number
of replies. It does take time as some people are not on here very often
for some of the replies. I still get several no replies and it ticks me
off. It leave me questioning did they even get the email, did they not
like something about my profile or email. A simple reply with NO writen
in it is easy to do and I can handle the rejection as even I have told a
few NO and went on but they got a reply.

chismah's photo
Fri 10/13/06 02:23 PM
breeze...you have a mindset like me bra...rawk on ^_^

trying_to_fly's photo
Fri 10/13/06 02:50 PM
You know what, the same shit is happening to me too so don't worry about
it. I've been debating on even sending anymore out and even waste my
friggin time doing so!! I've sent a few and....have gotten none. I
guess some of em think they're too good for me or somethin. Oh well. I
know how I am and you should know how you are too. I know it's hard to
settle with but, let them be the ones who get hurt. If they're that
selfish....maybe they need a rude awakening.

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Fri 10/13/06 03:16 PM
it keeps things simple and fun don't it chisma.

just don't take it personal, there are alot of reasons that people don't
reply and yes it is rude but they are not intentionally dissin you by
not replyin, they just weren't thinking.

pms64's photo
Fri 10/13/06 05:29 PM
A man on here sent me an email saying he is a certified licker and
wanted to know if I was hairy or shaved. Now I'm sorry, but I refuse to
answer emails like that. To me there is no reason for comments like
those. So, I will admit I do not answer all of them, and if that makes
me a bad person, so be it. PMS64

gurlinneed's photo
Fri 10/13/06 05:47 PM
tell me more about urself

TiredOfBeingSingle's photo
Fri 10/13/06 05:49 PM
well ppl its the same on forums ppl only message what or who seems
appealing to them. not thinking about what the person on the other side
is going through

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Fri 10/13/06 10:02 PM

PMS that is a different story. I would have blocked his ass. I had a
female come onto me in a simular way. But she gave her personal email
account and had the tell tale signs of a scammer.

But if I email you with a quick note that I like your profile please
check mine and see if you would be interested in emailing me for a
friendship. I expect a reply. Even a simple "No". I can understand time
issues as this is the busiest time of the year for me. I am staying gone
from 5:30am til 6-7pm nearly every night for the last 2 weeks. But I
have made a few short replies to the emails and skipped checking the
forums a few times.