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Thu 03/12/09 06:36 PM
Spongebob

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Thu 03/12/09 06:32 PM
Let's all send him mail ....:cry:

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Thu 03/12/09 06:29 PM
I gave up for a long time....I was even married & I gave up LOL. Even after dating I believe I was skeptical then

I met Craig.:heart:

The rest is history and pales in comparison.... blushing He's my Johny Cash.

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Wed 03/11/09 04:05 PM
That's an excellent idea. Craig & I got together to sing karaoke and sparks FLEW.....:heart: :heart:

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Wed 03/11/09 03:40 PM
I got the dress & the curves....hahaha

I got a red one too....

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Wed 03/11/09 03:15 PM
Crazy about Craig over here.... :heart: love

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Wed 03/11/09 08:54 AM
I went on 3. Three must be the charmer....

I gotta tell you that I am SO thankful for Mingle because:heart: Craig is the most amazing person I've ever met. That doesn't even begin to describe how perfectly we match.

I'm meeting family & relatives this weekend!!!! :heart:

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Wed 03/11/09 08:46 AM
Up until a month ago I would say never would remarry.... or even say "relationship" but that's before meeting Craig :heart: :heart:

That :heart: comes out of nowhere.


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Tue 03/10/09 12:15 PM
Sure you can love others without loving yourself but you will never be happy until you love yourself....

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Mon 03/09/09 01:33 PM
I believe its about being in the same emotional state at the same time --ready to give in a relationship, ready to accept...you want the same things out of it... willingness to communicate & having things in common.

I think we have the ability to love endless times so the soul mate thing is questionable but meeting someone who you mesh with so completely leads me to believe its more about finding the right personality to match our own...








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Mon 03/09/09 10:36 AM
My friend Tomahta.:banana:

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Mon 03/09/09 10:23 AM
Hey, that happened to me. Don't think I ever want to relive that kind of betrayal & violation of space.

Other than throwing stuff & alot of screaming & pushing, everyone survived.


He got stuck with a bi-polar s!ut. It all worked out.laugh

Plus I would've never met Craig :heart:

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Mon 03/09/09 10:18 AM
I love being 40-- I feel smarter, more attractive, settled and can stand a little closer to the line without being tempted to cross.


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Mon 03/09/09 10:16 AM
Mine can....laugh laugh

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Mon 03/09/09 10:15 AM
I hope you got a confirm or deny on this!!!

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Sun 03/08/09 05:31 PM
Trying to cram a size 11 foot into cinderella's glass slipper

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Fri 03/06/09 07:27 AM
LOL.... pr!cks....LOL:wink: That's funny.

As we age its a stop short, don't waste your time, turn in another direction sort of filtering system.

I actually like it. Sure it has its draw backs but then again, so do air bags....

laugh laugh

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Thu 03/05/09 11:39 AM

I sure as heck do and YUP, it makes a difference, not in dating per se, but for a relationship of any value. Just like it's important to see how a man interacts with his family, I think it is important to know how they handled prior relationships and to ask what went awry, and what benefit came out of the process.


I agree. I want to understand the dynamic that is him. It isn't the girl I want to know about. I want to know how "he" handled it. It can tell you alot if he holds resentment or anger or can move on.

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Thu 03/05/09 11:37 AM
The kiss is a warm up, a cool down, a work out all the while other stuff going on....it doesn't start or end...it just is.....

or 3 minutes.......laugh

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Thu 03/05/09 11:35 AM
I would expect him to let me handle it. devil If I need his help I'll just say, would you take care 'o that for me.....

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