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Topic: past relationships
misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:18 AM
Edited by misstina2 on Thu 03/05/09 11:20 AM
Do you inquire about a person's past relationship's?Does it have any impact on your willingness to date the person?

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:18 AM
Nope that's NUNA,

Nun my F#*$*%* bussiness laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink: flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:24 AM
I like to know how many times that they've been married.

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:25 AM

Nope that's NUNA,

Nun my F#*$*%* bussiness laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink: flowerforyou
lets hope none of your ladies has offed their men:tongue:

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:26 AM

I like to know how many times that they've been married.
a good question to askflowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:27 AM
Could care less

no photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:31 AM
I sure as heck do and YUP, it makes a difference, not in dating per se, but for a relationship of any value. Just like it's important to see how a man interacts with his family, I think it is important to know how they handled prior relationships and to ask what went awry, and what benefit came out of the process.

lovethelord's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:32 AM
sure it does... If they have just spent the last 7 years in prison for battery you would want to know...
or if they have lots of problems with girls stalking them it would tell you alot about the type of girls they attract....
Good question!flowerforyou

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:32 AM

Nope that's NUNA,

Nun my F#*$*%* bussiness laugh laugh laugh laugh :wink: flowerforyou

Wouldn't that be NOMFB:tongue:

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:33 AM

sure it does... If they have just spent the last 7 years in prison for battery you would want to know...
or if they have lots of problems with girls stalking them it would tell you alot about the type of girls they attract....
Good question!flowerforyou
glad you liked itflowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:36 AM

I sure as heck do and YUP, it makes a difference, not in dating per se, but for a relationship of any value. Just like it's important to see how a man interacts with his family, I think it is important to know how they handled prior relationships and to ask what went awry, and what benefit came out of the process.
I agree flowerforyouit is important to find out how they treated othersflowerforyou of course thats just hoping that they're honestflowerforyou

ProteinGirl's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:39 AM
I just ask IF they've been married if over 40

I don't want to know your history, my freak meter will tell me if you are a good person.

History is history for a reason.

I don't share mine. It would keep me in a place I really don't want to be!

downhomechik's photo
Thu 03/05/09 11:39 AM

I sure as heck do and YUP, it makes a difference, not in dating per se, but for a relationship of any value. Just like it's important to see how a man interacts with his family, I think it is important to know how they handled prior relationships and to ask what went awry, and what benefit came out of the process.


I agree. I want to understand the dynamic that is him. It isn't the girl I want to know about. I want to know how "he" handled it. It can tell you alot if he holds resentment or anger or can move on.

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:19 PM


I sure as heck do and YUP, it makes a difference, not in dating per se, but for a relationship of any value. Just like it's important to see how a man interacts with his family, I think it is important to know how they handled prior relationships and to ask what went awry, and what benefit came out of the process.


I agree. I want to understand the dynamic that is him. It isn't the girl I want to know about. I want to know how "he" handled it. It can tell you alot if he holds resentment or anger or can move on.
flowerforyou I agreeflowerforyou

prisoner's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:24 PM
:smile: nope,we are all INDIVIDUALS and we all have pasts be seeing you

no photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:26 PM
Things about past relationships usually come up at some point in a conversation. But, no, I don't make them tell me about all their past relationships.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:31 PM

:smile: nope,we are all INDIVIDUALS and we all have pasts be seeing you


waving be seeing youwaving

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:34 PM
I don't ask because I don't want to be asked! grumble

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:37 PM

I don't ask because I don't want to be asked! grumble

let the dead bury the dead.

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:41 PM

I don't ask because I don't want to be asked! grumble
if both people are ok with that I see no reason for it being an issueflowerforyou

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