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Not all men are the same just like every women is not loyal and holding on to the relationship same way every man is not a cheater or dishonest in relationship.We should really avoid generalization.
As per my personal opinion relationship and love is a lot more than sex and love means loyalty and commitment and though sex is important i would never be with a girl just for the sake of sex there will be many other good things to our relationship and hence no need to spoil that because you can't have sex for some time. |
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If you hate war
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I think the question should be rephrased because i would easily do things i hate if the urgent need arises but there are certain things which are bigger than hate which i would never do because no need can be bigger then those things.
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If you hate war
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One more thing i would like to add is that here many people are saying that they would do it coz else someone else would do it and hence it would not make any difference.
To this i would like to say that friends in world there always would be one person or another to do any kind of **** things what separate you from that other person is ur choice of not doing particular things.If you are going to do something which you hate and resent that would clearly mean that you are for sale and money has bought you. As far as i am concern there are few things in my values and morals which are flexible and i can adjust to it if the need arises.But then there are certain things in my value that are extremely rigid such as i would never hurt an innocent and i would never make a compromise to it even if mine or my loved one life are at stake . Coz without food and money atleast one can die in peace but with guilt in mind no one can live in peace. |
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If you hate war
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Yes I would, the reason is because War is going to happen whether or not you work there, if you don't someone else will.....maybe someone who does like war(personally I don't know anyone that does, but many do see that sometimes it is necessary) So choice A, let someone else take the Job, they spend their 30/hr on guns/ammo/ or donating to their pro war causes. or choice B. You take the 30/hr, spend it on things that help war orphans, or donating to an anti-war cause. My point is, War is bad yes, but if you can take even a small percentage of that companies profit and use it for something good why not? War is just an example the main question which i think he is trying to ask is that would you compromise your ethics and values for money in a situation of poverty and hunger? I think I wouldn't "DIRECTLY" compromise my ethics, but I also understand I don't have a choice "indirectly" meaning if I hate war, I'm not going to sign up as a sniper, and actually go to war, but thinking that working in a plant, whether for munitions or not, I don't see as the same thing(but that's me), The reason is because where do you stop on the latter? Do you refuse to work for a clothing manufacture if part of their products make uniforms? Do you refuse to work for a packaging company because they happen to also package MRE's? Do you refuse to work for an oil company because some of their fuel goes to power "the machines of war?" Do you refuse to work Office Supply company that has government contracts to provide office supplies for military bases? I could go on and on, but you see my point, I think it is how you look at it, and life is what you make it(or don't make it) but if I was homeless and got offered a non-violent job I would take it. I got ur point but if we take this particular example of war then the question arises why would one hate war?only ans would be coz he don't like the death of hundred of innocent caused by war. In such case would you directly indulge in making bomb or munition which according to you would cause the deaths which you lament.It is not similar to other conditions you mentioned as they are not directly connected to deaths as making of ammunition and bombs.The very bomb you would make would be the cause of death of many. |
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If you hate war
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Yes I would, the reason is because War is going to happen whether or not you work there, if you don't someone else will.....maybe someone who does like war(personally I don't know anyone that does, but many do see that sometimes it is necessary) So choice A, let someone else take the Job, they spend their 30/hr on guns/ammo/ or donating to their pro war causes. or choice B. You take the 30/hr, spend it on things that help war orphans, or donating to an anti-war cause. My point is, War is bad yes, but if you can take even a small percentage of that companies profit and use it for something good why not? War is just an example the main question which i think he is trying to ask is that would you compromise your ethics and values for money in a situation of poverty and hunger? |
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Irresistible?
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I have recently been receiving a number of winks, comments, contacts from young women in foreign countries. Have I suddenly become irresistible to beautiful young women -- or is it more reasonable to conclude that scamming has increased? If they are from INDIA then rest assured it's a scam 99% female profile are fake and most of them would be boys pretending to be girls(don't know for what sick reason) |
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sunglasses
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Would you trust a stranger/anonymous first contact who is wearing sunglasses in his main photo? Personally it seems somehow subterranean to me and I don;t respond. You are reading too much into it.Generally many people think that they look more cool in sunglasses and so it is but natural that they would like to post their coolest pic in their main photo nothing else. |
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Your best icebreaker line
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I have used "I don't have any corny or witty come on lines so I would just like to say hello." Best way to approach 
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its a loaded question like asking if gun manufacturers are the real cuprits of gun murders and shootings,,,, no one makes people use guns the way they do, or at all most manufacturers are pretty aware though, that the guns will be used to take life,,,,, It is for the same gun that your country is protected and you can sit and write all this while relaxing in comfort. |
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Love is evil!
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I really wanna cry now but i hate it my tears wont fall! :( What happened 
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Your best icebreaker line
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did it hurt when you fell from heaven 
Good one  He would say No i was delivered to earth via my mother who is an angel.
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Topic:
Your best icebreaker line
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How would you approach a stranger you are attracted to and what would be that ultimate icebreaker line you would use
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Guns don't kill, the person behind the trigger is the real killer.
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whispering in my ear during any physical contact over the top,,,lol And what should one whisper  I have my guesses
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What if you don't have just one thing? I have things I've like about some girls that didn't work for others. Or I've had things I really liked because it made a certain girl unique. Like the way her eyes looked. Then state that one factor which generally turned you on in most of the cases.(I am sure ur mind and body would always react to some particular things in a particular way) |
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Edited by
alok99
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Thu 01/30/14 10:30 PM
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hi stop being hypocritical. in india most marriages are a kind of sociofinancial agreement. the women are mostly dependent on the men , though things are changing. like all marriages those in india also have their highs and lows. mostly women have to bear the lows becoz they have nowhere to go!!!!. western women are independent financially and socially. they do'nt take nonsense. wish it would be the same here. no point in going on with a relationship if it does'nt pleasure ypu!!!!!. the other thing is attitude to life. most indians get married, have kids, grow fat and lazy, start looking like something abnoxious and blame it on age. both men and women!and settle for what they have. lousy thinking! could write a book on the subject but suffice to say indian marriages stay on because indian minds are blocked soon after marriage I am not being a Hypocrite .And go through the whole thread i never claimed it's all perfect in india and if you think majority of couples over here are unhappy at the extent of ending their marriage then i think you have got very narrow attitude towards happiness.Further regarding gaining weight it is mostly coz indians by nature do not work on their physical appearance but it mostly depend on own personality not on marriage.Indians both men and women are quite hard working specially after marriage on this point i totally disagree with you you seem to be indian so do you think ur mother or father were lazy? in my case the hard work my mother and father and like many other put for their families and loved one is incredible and this i am not saying coz of my bias toward indians but coz this is something i have seen and felt all my life so do not call them lazy just coz they are not concerned about their physical appearance.You say they have blocked mind after marriage so what according to you is an open mind?go on looking for more hot chicks going on cheating "infidelity" if so then no one needs open mind.Marriage is not about i me myself it is all about"us" just understand it clearly "us" .Yes indian man and women make several compromises because they keep the welfare and happiness of their partner above themselves they are not selfish and self centered.If you have seen all my post i have always said if one goes through extreme such as violence then sur they must take divorce but not in petty matters coz they have gain weight.I am sure you love ur mother and father irrespective of how much weight they gain.You like western pattern of marriage good for you but then what is the need of marriage you get into a "live in relationship" and it would be interesting to see when ur wife leave you after few years just coz she has found someone wealthy or more attractive or u have gained few pounds or she has just got simply bored of you then she leaves you along with 2 young children to cater too if this is what you want then please go ahead. Marriage and love is lot more then physical appearance ,money,thrill and excitement .You seem to be to superficial and ur analysis of indian marriage remain superficial you see the reason of marriage as socio economic agreement but you miss the whole important part that is after marriage that is taking responsibility of marriage and family are ur mother and father unhappy with each other or are they just coping with marriage i am sure they are not. Now this was my last post i think we should end this topic right here coz people here have clearly missed the spirit of question it was to just throw light on the reason of increasing divorce rate in west "not east vs west" and i have got the ans and i have also put all my point of views and so from know on it would be just repeating the old tape which i do not want.For all those who have replied thanks as it has been interesting to know various point of view and some of the post were quiet awesome and bang on target. I have my own views just like others have their own if we do not agree we should agree to disagree. Apology to who so ever sentiment have been hurt unintentionally Marriage is keeping the "happiness" and "welfare" of ur partner and children above you. |
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sex.
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sex is time to turn on ur animal instinct
and let the devil rule
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love
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Because "love" is all about heart ,emotions and these are very soft and delicate part of every individuals and so tend to hurt even in case of a minor jerk or disturbance
 to them. 
and it will continue to be so because if it does not hurt then it is not "LOVE" |
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A Smile then i guess you would be turned on for most of ur life
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Edited by
alok99
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Thu 01/30/14 12:03 AM
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First let me clear something to you the purpose of this question was to shed light on the reasons of high rate of divorce in west.In no way it is meant to criticize or degrade western culture and to whom it may have hurt I APOLOGIZE it is not meant to do so.Now come to indian culture i am not saying it is perfect,flawless or even GREAT sure it has many flaws many problems just like everywhere and it would evolve with time.
Now here many people emphasize on personal freedom good one should always have his or her freedom but this does not mean one become self centered or selfish once a family you should act as one unit not different individuals.You should be able to find happiness in the happiness of ur partner isn't this a golden rule of love .It should not be about "me" but about "us" . Sure if there are "extreme" problem in marriage which has made living together impossible then i would be the first one to suggest to take divorce.But only in extreme cases not in case of minor issues.Marriage is a institution and just like any other it takes effort and adjustment from both side to make it work.It has it's good and difficult times but this is a rule of nature you should enjoy good time and withstand hard times "together" This is the whole point behind marriage. Now people say that woman have become more independent more freedom that's why but i am sure there would be a high number of divorce where men initiate divorce so we can't make this women centric . In the end i would like to say if you want to take divorce do take as it's ur life ur decision but do i like the thought of divorce? no I think before taking divorce everything which is possible to save the marriage should be done only then one should take such decision .With such high rate of divorce i am sure nobody want to say that all these couples faces "extreme" conditions which forces them to divorce .If divorce is so casual then why the hell marriage you can easily go for live in relationship . I would like to say with great "independence" comes great "responsibility" and marriage is all about "US' not "I,Me,Myself" . All of the above are my personal view you are free to agree or disagree again would repeat my intention is not to degrade any culture There are many "good" things in west which i wish we learn and implement from.And i am not claiming my "CULTURE" IS best it is riddled with many problems which we will overcome with time. Apologizes to anyone who is hurt as my intention is purely academical to through light on the reasons behind increase rate of divorce. And one last thing please don't make this sound as that all those who are married or are with the same person are due to fear of society or because they do not have the option as it is insulting to their"love and dedication" to each other.People do stay married because they want too not because of anything else . I for one do not believe in god but good deeds .I am quite modern and trust me there is no dearth of ladies but i strongly believe in the institution of marriage and once married i would remain loyal to my partner and my complete physical and emotional devotion to her and only her till end comes.(relations are not a gadget that once you get bored you move to the latest model)little understanding little adjustment will make the this trip known as life worth it . |
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