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Topic:
Vote: Looks vs Personality.
Edited by
cleve
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Fri 08/27/21 06:49 PM
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Both! Initially it's the way a man looks that attracts my attention, but it's his personality that will hold my attention. its amazing how many men and women agree on this point....i do know that a lot of men who are to a fault are extremely visual and ignore personality until the crash.....p.s. there are a lot o of body language in looks and if you know what to look for you will find the real truth about them...... i took a course on body language about dating/relationships. there are so many interesting and fun ways to learn about others and yourself..... |
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Topic:
Online Dating
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Is it the new age in dating when someone meets you online and thinks God made your paths cross and the other person believes you were destined for one another. I believe in getting to know someone first and taking it slow is the better route. Or am I just to old fashioned? Or was it because the other person was 14 years younger, and may think differently about how the dating world goes. Any thoughts from others? SLOW IS GOOD, AND OLD FASHION IS REALLY GOOD.....EVERYONE ON THE PLANET HAS HIDDEN AGENDAS , THAT THEY THEMSELVES ARE NOT EVEN AWARE OFF..... |
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I'm nervous, scared and everything else that comes with this step. Any suggestions? Since you're married if you're just looking for a quick hook-up, I'd suggest a site that's more geared to that kind of thing. If you're serious, and you're husband don't care, I'd suggest going someplace where lesbians hang out, take it slow, and see if you're really interested in that lifestyle. AMEN..... |
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Topic:
Xenophobia
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What is xenophobia? Xenophobia is the excessive fear, dislike, and even hostility toward of anything “foreign” or to anything and anybody from outside one’s own social group, nation, or country yep,,,,its normal for most because we feel more comfortable about what we know, it's the unknowns that can cause a lot problems and misunderstandings .... |
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I SAID WHAT I SAID BECAUSE ALL MODERN CULTURES AND SEX'S PLAY THE SAME DRAMA GAMES WITH EACH OTHER, FOR EXAMPLE WOODEN LEG, POOR ME, AIN'T IT AWFUL, AND ALCOHOLIC FOR A FEW......AND THEY DO IT FOR TWO REASON'S FIRST IS TO RECYCLE FAVORITE FEELINGS , THE OTHER IS TO VALIDATE THERE BELIEF SYSTEM ABOUT THERE SELF ESTEEM AND THE ESTEEM THEY HAVE FOR OTHERS....THAT EXPLAINS WHY PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY DO. SOME GAMES ARE PLAYED RATHER QUICK, OTHERS CAN TAKE YEARS TO PLAY OUT...... |
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I'm nervous, scared and everything else that comes with this step. Any suggestions? every ''LIFE STYLE '' Has its own '' good bad and ugly ''......a lot of women want a guy who will make her want's his want's, her needs his need's and love her for ever and ever no matter what. and be able to emotional communicate with him like she does with her best girl friend,,,, the TRUTH IS IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN....PART OF THE PROBLEM IS ''MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT SAME'' OUR BODY'S ARE NOT THE SAME, WE ARE NOT TRAINED THE SAME, WE DO NOT TAKE IN INFO THE SAME THEN WE PROCESS IT DIFFERENT. WE ARE NOT BEING TAUGHT IN FAMILIES AND SCHOOLS THE SOCIAL SKILLS NEEDED TO GET LEARN ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS.....WE ARE TAUGHT MONOLOGUE INSTEAD OF DIALOGUE. WHAT WE REALLY NEED IS TO LISTEN AND SEE THE SENSE OTHERS ARE MAKING TO THEMSELVES.....MOST CASES ITS TWO PEOPLE TALKING AND NO ONE LISTENING.....GOOD LUCK.....P.S. WHEN BOTH PEOPLE COMMIT TO WORK THOUGH THE ISSUE'S AND DO IT THAT'S WHERE REAL LOVE CAN BE FOUND...... |
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I don't understand why they are superficial,we men are very simple If you are going to make such a wild claim about women, then try backing it up with evidence. even the wildest nut job's feel justified in there position.....the persecutor ''feels superior'',,the rescuer '' you can not do it on your own'',,,''the victim ''poor me''.....in the end all three will end up as a victim......games a waste of time and lives...... |
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Edited by
cleve
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Mon 08/23/21 09:11 AM
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MY FAVORITE PRAYER,,,,,GESTALT PRAYER.... I DO MY THING AND YOU DO YOUR THING I AM NOT IN THIS WORLD TO LIVE UP TO YOUR EXPECTATIONS, AND YOU ARE NOT IN THIS WORLD TO LIVE UP TO MINE. YOU ARE YOU,AND I AM I, AND IF BY CHANCE WE FIND EACH OTHER IT'S BEAUTIFUL. IF NOT, IT CAN'T BE HELPED. FRITZ PERLS |
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Edited by
cleve
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Mon 08/23/21 07:04 AM
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I will always be submissive to him anytime he wants me too and will love him with all my heart. FAMOUS LAST WORDS, THE TRUTH IS HAPPINESS IS A INSIDE JOB...YOU CAN INVITE SOME ONE TO BE IN A GOOD PLACE WITH YOU ONLY.....BE CAREFUL AND GOOD LUCK.....YOU NEED TO READ THE BOOK ''ACT LIKE A LADY , THINK LIKE A MAN.... MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO GET TO KNOW HOW EACH OTHER WILL TAKE IN INFO AND PROCESSES IT BECAUSE WE ARE NOT EVEN IN THE SAME BALL PARK....... |
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ONE REALLY WONDERFUL TRAIT WOMEN HAVE IS THERE ROMANTIC QUALITIES........ |
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Topic:
can I do it
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women are not as visual as men for the most part. they are looking for men for there male qualities like safety, security, honesty, and sense of humor.......( it appears that way on the surface anyway) .....the real truth is that's another topic for another time and place..... |
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What do you mean by 'serious'? Serious in character or seriously looking for a relationship & love? If the latter, most women want that but cannot find a man for that. As for the rest... we don't know who you approach, how you do that, how you communicate, nor if you take the initiative or wait. So we cannot really tell why it isn't working without that info. One thing I can say is, have some depth and don't just go for looks and a very young thing, don't be sex focused, have something to talk about -for which you need to have something going in life. In other words, be the love & relationship focused guy. And if conversation is difficult for you, think about good things to say or ask or talk about upfront. Write them down even. Read her profile, there might be things in there to ask about. And if the profile is crap wonder if you really should try to talk to her. You don't even have a profile yourself?! And then you whinge??? How serious are YOU? Sort out your own profile first. AMEN ! GREAT ADVICE.... |
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Topic:
Any Real Girl Online
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I need real beauty for dating/relationship. they already know what a guy wants. fill out your profile...and list your great qualities about yourself......women like ''details'' about almost everything.....good luck..... |
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Both YEP.... |
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Topic:
Water
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cannabis |
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Topic:
Hangouts
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I think exploring new people and learning from them is a great idea! best statement i have heard in a very long time!!!! about learning i will leave you with this tool, it has served me well...........WHEN YOUR WITH SOMEONE AND YOU FIND YOURSELF START TO FEEL (MAD SCARED SAD GLAD) ASK YOURSELF DO I DO THAT ? DO I ACT LIKE THAT ? .....GOOD LUCK..... |
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Topic:
trust/relationships
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Relationships start with attraction and then commonalities you share and stages you're at in your life.Fate, is often used to describe the meeting. The most important aspect to me and for the whole duration of the relationship is the fundamental core of "TRUST " like real love, trust must be earned....truth will always show its self in one's behavior. some scripts unfortunately require time to play out.....the real truth can only be gotten through self awareness and understanding our part in our relationships...a real close friend said to me that ''know one is **** free'' we are a work in progress ,fortunately there are a few that are working on it...the reason i believe the there is so much emotional pain is because, when a person believes he already has the answers to ''why'' and refuses to challenge his belief system about himself and others in his adult.......... |
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Topic:
Given it all away
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SAD
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Topic:
Men that beat up women ?
Edited by
cleve
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Sat 08/14/21 04:06 PM
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WHEN WE GROW UP, AND LEAVE ARE CAREGIVERS THE RELATIONSHIPS WE SEEK ARE FOR THE PURPOSE OF FINISHING CHILDHOOD AND HEALING THE WOUNDS OF CHILDHOOD...WHEN THE PERSON HAS NOT BLOCKED OUT THE MEMORIES OF THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA'S AND YOU ABLE TO WORK WITH THEM THEN YOU CAN GET A PICTURE WHY THEY PICK PEOPLE WHO WILL ABUSE THEM....THE TYPE OF PEOPLE WE PICK WE ALREADY KNOW ON A EMOTIONAL LEVEL...BECAUSE WE STAY WITHIN OUR AWARENESS.....LIKE ''WE DO NOT KNOW WHAT WE DO NOT KNOW'' OUR SELF ESTEEM, AND ESTEEM WE HAVE FOR OTHERS CONTROLS OUR LIFE SCRIPT.....ITS IS SO IMPORTANT THAT THE FIRST PERSON WE REALLY NEED TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH IS OURSELVES..... ALL THIS INFO IS WELL KNOWN TO OUR THE MENTAL HEALTH COMMUNITY..... |
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Topic:
Newbie here
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LOL... |
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