GOOD ADVICE...

THAT'S WHY THE BEST POSITION TO HAVE IS I'M O.K. AND YOUR O.K.

YEP....

i have found two reasons for behavior....the first is to recycle

favorite feelings and emotions....

the second one is to validate old beliefs about ourselves and

others. with both they make us miss the here and now....the

favorite tool people use to do this is the Karpman triangle aka

drama triangle. the rescuer, victim and perpetrator. and each

feels justified in there position...as they change positions in

the game they all will end up as victims......all movies,and

novels follow this story line..bringing up past relationships is

one way to get it stated....IT'S WASTED TIME AND LIVES...THAT'S

THE ''WHY''.....

the problem that friends, and couples have is how ''they behave

towards each other'' it either creates problems or avoids

problems....relax pick people who have a capacity to be empathetic

towards others and you will be o.k. it really helps when we have

empathy for our selves...what i mean is the ability to understand

and get in touch with our own feelings...good luck...p.s. you can

have or not have a lot of things in a relationship to have a

healthy one there must be empathy for each other.....

WHAT'S OUTSIDE M2 IS INSIDE M2.

THE NUMBER ONE RULE IS TO BE AUTHENTIC. ALL GOOD DATING COACH'S

WILL TELL YOU THAT......THAT'S IF YOU WANT A HEALTHY AND LASTING

RELATIONSHIP. GOOD LUCK.....

loved it, my favorite of all time....

Biden, Palosi and the liberal swamp.and its going to be a lot

worse before something is done....

GO FOR IT.....WHATS ON YOUR MIND.......

YOUR YOUNG AND ATTRACTIVE, ALL YOU NEED IS TO BE APPROACHABLE AND

YOUR BEAUTIFUL

SMILE.....

MOST MEN DO NOT WANT TO RAISE ANOTHER MAN'S CHILDREN FOR SOME VALID

REASONS....FOR ONE YOU WILL HAVE TO PUT HIM FIRST, NOT THE KIDS.

AND TRUST HE WILL TAKE CARE OF THEM. KIDS WILL NEVER TAKE CARE OF

ANYONE THEMSELVES INCLUDED...THAT'S JUST FOR STARTERS AND THERE ARE

MORE ISSUES YOU WILL HAVE TO FACE....GOOD LUCK, YOUR GOING TO NEED

IT.....SEEK FEMALE PROFESSIONAL HELP FOR YOURSELF AND HIM BEFORE

HOOKING UP.....

for some people they learn from life experience and they reach a

new level of maturity, that takes time.....i know i do NOT want to

deal with a younger woman and all her emotional ups and downs....it

appears now there are a lot of wounded older women my age....THE

HARDEST FOR US AS HUMANS IS SEEING OUR OWN ''STUFF'' WE BROUGHT

WITH US FROM CHILDHOOD....WE ARE OWN KEEPER....

wisdom comes from ''trial and error'' in modern terms its called

''life experience''. HUMANS SENSE THE BEGINNING OF TIME IN ORDER

TO SURVIVE ONCE WE EXPERIENCE SOMETHING NEW WE MAKE A ASSUMPTION

ABOUT THAT EXPERIENCE...THEN WE FILE IT AWAY IN OUR BRAINS THEN

GO TO THE NEXT EXPERIENCE....AND WE STILL DO, THE PROBLEM IS WHEN

NEW INFO COMES ALONE THAT IS MORE ACCURATE WE DO NOT WANT TO HEAR

IT BECAUSE WE THINK WE ALREADY HAVE THE ANSWER....

YOUNG MEN ARE NOT THE BEST LISTENERS AS A RULE.....AS A WHOLE

THEY ARE NOT GETTING THE MENTORING THEY DESPERATELY NEED..... AND

THE WOMEN ARE NOT FAIRING MUCH BETTER.....SO MANY UNHEALTHY LIFE

STYLES HAVE BEEN BECOME THE NEW NORMAL AND PROTECTED BY

LAWS.....CHRISTIANS NEED TO GO FROM QUOTING THE SCRIPTURES TO

TEACH OUR YOUNG WHAT IS HEALTHY, AND THE CONSEQUENCES OF

NOT...AND GROW A BACKBONE AND STANDUP TO THE CRAZIES OF THE

WORLD.......

check the watering holes...

region codes are to prevent the playback of the disk in a

geographical area other than the one it was released....mostly

movies.....they have not stop doing it....i hope this helps....

NO... THERE ARE STILL REAL LOVING CARING PEOPLE. OUR PERCEPTION IS

OUR REALITY AND TRUTH.....WHEN WE LOSE EMPATHY WE HAVE NOTHING TO

GIVE OR RECEIVE....

its the age....

lights on , nobody home.......

love is an inside job, its starts with us.....our beliefs and

favorite feelings are who we are as a person, and it determines how

our life is.......FIRST WE MUST FEEL IN OUR HEART THAT WE DESERVE

LOVE....IF YOU ARE A GOOD LISTENER AND HAVE THE CAPACITY TO BE

EMPATHETIC, LOVE WILL FIND YOU.....GOOD LUCK I HOPE YOU FIND THE

LOVE YOU NEED....... WHEN YOU LISTEN MIRROR BACK WHAT YOU

HEARD IN YOUR OWN WORDS. ASK, DID I GET YOU ? IS THERE MORE ? DID

I GET IT ALL ? NEXT LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU CAN SEE IT MAKES SENSE

TO THEM....NEXT I CAN IMAGINE YOU MIGHT BE FEELING.....? WHEN

LISTEN THE OTHER PERSON THEY NEED TO KNOW ''WE GOT IT'' AND ITS

O.K. THAT THEY THINK THAT WAY....LASTLY WE NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE

THERE FEELINGS AND ITS O.K. THAT THEY FEEL THAT WAY.....HEALTHY

RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT FOUND THEY ARE BUILT ON KNOWING OUR OTHER

IS SAFE. WHAT I MEAN IS OUR HEARTS ARE IN SAFE HANDS....