You have to be happy with yourself first in order to make someone else happy. Be proud of the goals that you have set I'm your life, and when looking for someone don't settle for less. You deserve the best. Good luck!

I'm single for 22 years now.
Because i choose to finish my studies rather than having a boyfriend because that's what my parents thought me.
Now that I graduated in school, do i deserve to have someone now? 🥺

I'm a little bit sick of this but I can't find anyone my age where I live it's all older people all the ones my age are in Aussie is there a way to fix this?

Sexual health and safety is important .

Know how to protect yourself against sexually transmitted disease, pregnancy and sexual abuse .

Know what safe sex is and which activities expose you or your sexual partner/s to risk .

If you are sexually active have regular sexual health screening /checkups . Some sexually transmitted diseases are asymptomatic in the early stages .

Although there is medical treatment for many sexually transmitted diseases , some are a life sentence . .
Having sex with a stranger or when your judgement is impaired carries a risk of consequences . It is like playing Russian roulette . You may at times doge a bullet but it takes just one exposure event to put you at risk . Know the sexual health and history of those you engage in sex with .

Engage your brain

Luv blondey xox


EXCELLENT ADVICE ........

Two things come to mind:

1. This is a person who lived on the street. She was literally in survival mode for 7 years. Think about Maslow's heirarchy of needs. Your need for relationships becomes secondary until your physiological and safety needs are met. You're not going to prioritize relationships if you're hungry or don't have a roof over your head. That doesn't suddenly go away without intense therapy. Furthermore, her self-esteem was probably shredded from living like that. Many people with low self-esteem try to feel better by seeing if members of the opposite sex find them attractive. My guess is that she probably won't change.



2. You need to do some self-reflecting and see why you're willing to put up with her treating you this way. You know she's doing it, and you know it hurts you. But why are you allowing her to hurt you? Look into Codependency and see if you fall into that category. If yes, there's a lot of literature about it, and there are 12-step CoDA meetings you can attend either in person or on Zoom. Work on you. When you feel better about yourself, you'll likely find the strength to end the relationship.

Good luck!

Can you change a Change it woman that was on the street for seven years she lies to me she cheats on me and she steals from me everybody tells me to leave her alone but I just love her so much I don’t know what to do and she knows that she takes advantage me all the time she talks crap about me and does not respect me at all but I am over heels over her
She cheated on me this morning as we speak what can I do please help?
East Mesa

I was just thinking about how I'm not the greatest catch these days.
It's good to have a realistic understanding of yourself, but acknowledging your state and limitations can be difficult. Another might not see you the same way -or find the same things important -but knowing allows for informed decisions and knowing deal breakers before getting too involved.

Raindrops down the window pane
Sound of thunder fills the air

A storm of confusion in my head
My heart is in despair

Wind is howling the rain is heavy
On and on it rages

My soul to you was an open book
You tore out all the pages

By Don Zimmerman
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lets say man have erectile disfunction. could a woman still love him? if a woman really loves you, she will continously loving you regarless having sex or not.

what is today's generation boys and girls really looking for?

any tips regarding dating a mature lady in Mingle?

so much troubles in the world

I don't understand why some women use this app if they don't talk,if they're not interesting to know a man,they use this app just to get appreciate or to get likes?