Topic:
Berchdale Test
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Actually spelled Bechdel test. Has anyone ever heard of it? . ''passing or failing test is not necessarily an indication of how well women are represented in any specific work'' |
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Topic:
Many uses for Vaseline.
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Did you hear about the man who mistook putty for vaseline? All his windows fell out. PUT IT ON DOOR KNOB'S TO KEEP KIDS OUT....... |
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MY FIRST QUESTION IS '' WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP VISION'' ??? |
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as a mature adult with sound mind you can NOT be a victim unless one allows one self to be.....''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US''. VICTIM HOOD OR VICTIM MENTALITY IS A WAY OF LIFE FOR SOME...THE TRUE VICTIMS ARE THE ONES THAT ARE YOUNG OR WITH MENTAL OR PHYSICAL PROBLEMS, THEY ARE THE ONES THAT NEED TO BE RESCUED FROM BULLIES....THERE ARE CLASSES FOR PEOPLE TO LEARN HOW NOT TO RESPOND AS A VICTIM..... |
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Topic:
what do you guys think?
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i am not, i am in my favorite place, my nothing place...... |
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Topic:
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Edited by
cleve
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Sat 11/20/21 03:32 AM
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Oh girl. It took me 66 years to understand that, promises always fail. People promise things they wish to do. That's all. When someone is promising something, I say, "please stop, either you do it or not." "someone who isn't sure about you"? What you see is what you get! Don't wait till he changes. Love means fully accepting and saying yes to you. we can't fulfill. YEP...IF HE IS GETTING THE COOKIE , THAT MEANS HE WANTS IT FOR FREE. MAKE THE BOY WORK TO GET YOU....MEN DO NOT APPRECIATE , WHAT THEY HAVE NOT GIVEN TO GET......''YOUNG LADY YOU ARE THE PRIZE ''. SO MANY WOMEN JUST GIVE THEMSELVES AWAY TO GUY'S AND END UP WONDERING WHY THEY HAVE NO VALUE TO HIM.....I KNOW BECAUSE ''I ARE ONE''. P.S.'' WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US'' BY ''WHAT WE EXCEPT, NOT EXCEPT, AND WHAT WE REINFORCE''.....'' MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS'' BY JOHN GRAY IS BOOK YOU SHOULD READ. |
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Topic:
satisfying
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Have you tried drinking something so cold it hurts your lungs but satisfies and your thirst? Loving you is like that... loving you from afar hurts my heart but satisfies my soul... PAIN CAN BE A TEACHER FOR SOME PEOPLE..... |
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Topic:
Male friends
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THE POINT I AM MAKING IS THAT YOUR NOT SEEING YOUR PART...ARE THESE FAVORITE FEELINGS YOUR HAVING ? IS THERE A BELIEF ABOUT YOUR SELF OR OTHERS THAT IS GETTING VALIDATED ?????...... WHEN WE DO THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER EXPECT A DIFFERENT RESULT THEN WE NEED TO CHANGE WHAT WE ARE DOING....ITS OBVIOUS YOUR FEELING LIKE A VICTIM.....IT'S ABOUT CHOICES WE MAKE.....YOU KNOW MEN WILL BE MEN, LIVING WITH TWO IS A SETUP FOR LOTS OF DRAMA AND I BELIEVE A PART OF YOU KNOWS THAT.... |
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Topic:
Male friends
Edited by
cleve
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Fri 11/19/21 01:16 AM
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I live with two men. Whenever I have a female friend over, one of my male flatmates chases them. He gets their phone number off them because he is charming, and then pursues them. I text them to say "What are you up to this weekend"? and boom, he has been there first and has made plans with them. I have explained to all of them he is a ladies man and is talking to 12 women already, (whom think he is only talking to them), but they fall for his charm. I feel disrespected. Am I wrong to feel this way? I have decided to meet my new women friends outside of my home now. NO CLEARLY DEFINED BOUNDARIES ????/. BOUNDARIES ARE ESSENTIAL TO HAVING STRONG AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS..... MY SWEET HEART, MY GIRL FRIEND, MY LOVER, MY WIFE, MY FIANCE ARE EXAMPLES OF BOUNDARIES....THEY ARE MEN, THEY ARE NOT BROKEN, MEN DO WHAT THEY ARE ALLOWED TO DO.....ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS YES.......WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US...... |
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I think the topic is confusing but, I think it's best to meet in person and spend time together first. AMEN.... |
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Hope I can connect with real and nice people here in this site. :-) yep the same types of people here as you will find on the outside......THE GOOD,THE BAD, AND UGLY....GOOD LUCK.... |
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Topic:
WHERE IS MY SOULMATE ♥️
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I'M READY TO MARRY A NICE CARING LADY WOMAN OUT NUMBER MEN IN THE CHURCH'S IN MOST OF THE WORLD....... |
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Topic:
Someone serious?
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I AM A MALE AND I GET MY SHARE OF FRUITS AND NUTS ALSO...... CRYPTO ?????...''INVESTMENT FIRM'' HELPS CLEAR THE AIR......OTHER WISE EVERYTHING ELSE O.K. THESE SITES ARE NOT INSTANT GRATIFICATION, RELAX ENJOY THE SHOW..... |
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Topic:
Hey girls
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Love fashion I luv to see my girl in leather jeggs , skirt , teamed with the Allstar Converse high tops , just a thought Lady’s girls , not weird ,, just a modern way of thought , I’m genuine and have a great heart the proof will be there , Thankyou. X YEP,,,,WE ARE VISUAL....... |
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Topic:
Cessation or continuation?
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OUR BELIEFS ARE OUR REALITY..WHAT WE SEEK WE ALSO FIND........THEY BECOME OUR SCRIPT WE FOLLOW.....WE BUILD ENTIRE STROKE SYSTEMS AROUND OUR BELIEF SYSTEMS.....BY STROKE I MEAN A UNIT OF RECOGNITION....LIKE POSITIVE STOKE,NEGATIVE STROKE, MARSHMALLOW STROKE , AND ECT....OUR BELIEFS MAKE UP WHO WE ARE AND THE PATH OUR LIFE TAKES....WE WANT CHANGE IT'S UP TO US AS INDIVIDUALS TO MAKE THOSE CHANGES......THAT'S MY STORY AND STICKING TO IT...... |
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Topic:
What am I out of 10
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Rate my profile LOL |
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Topic:
Catching a lizard
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There’s a lizard in our house a since they’re fast and not easy to catch can anyone suggest how to catch it if I can? THEY EAT BAD BUGS..AND NOT CAUSE THE HARM THE BUGS DO.....GREAT HOUSE PETS FOR KIDS..... |
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Same as well, I think find a loyalty dog is much more easier than find a right person. I HAVE HAD MEN TELL ME THE SAME, SO IT'S NOT A GENDER THING....I BELIEVE ITS ARE AWARENESS AND SPECIFICALLY ONE'S BELIEF SYSTEM...WHAT WE BELIEVE ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS HELPS ATTRACT OTHERS THAT FIT THAT BELIEF SYSTEM..SO MANY PEOPLE ARE ADDICTED TO THE KARPMAN TRIANGLE TO GET THERE STROKES...( NEEDS MET ). BY STROKE I MEAN UNITS OF RECOGNITION....SO WHEN SOMETHING IS NOT WORKING FOR US WE NEED TO LOOK FOR NEW ANSWERS....'' WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US ''...OUR LIVES FOLLOW A SCRIPT AND WE ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS THE POWER TO CHANGE IT..... |
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Topic:
love the painkiller
Edited by
cleve
on
Tue 11/16/21 05:35 AM
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EACH ONE OF US HAS DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES, THEN WE MAKE ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT THOSE EXPERIENCES THOUGH THE EYE'S AND EARS OF A CHILD....WHEN WE LEAVE HOME AND FORM A INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP, THE PURPOSE OF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS TO FINISH CHILDHOOD. SOME PEOPLE GO THROUGH LIFE AND NEVER HAVE AN EPIPHANY, SO THERE GAMES CAN BECOME HARDER....LOVE CAN ONLY HAPPEN TO US WHEN OUR LIFE POSITION IS ''I'M O.K. AND YOUR O.K.''EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS ABOUT ''BELIEF''... |
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Topic:
evolution of technology
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Vinyl records and cassette tapes had an A & B side. So it is only logical that their successor would be the CD. don't forget the usb stick..... |
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