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Thu 11/25/21 07:48 AM

Actually spelled Bechdel test. Has anyone ever heard of it?


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''passing or failing test is not necessarily an indication of how well women are represented in any specific work''happy

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Wed 11/24/21 04:56 PM

Did you hear about the man who mistook putty for vaseline?

All his windows fell out.



PUT IT ON DOOR KNOB'S TO KEEP KIDS OUT.......

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Tue 11/23/21 06:13 PM


MY FIRST QUESTION IS '' WHAT IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP VISION'' ???

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Sun 11/21/21 10:34 AM

as a mature adult with sound mind you can NOT be a victim unless

one allows one self to be.....''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US''.

VICTIM HOOD OR VICTIM MENTALITY IS A WAY OF LIFE FOR SOME...THE

TRUE VICTIMS ARE THE ONES THAT ARE YOUNG OR WITH MENTAL OR PHYSICAL

PROBLEMS, THEY ARE THE ONES THAT NEED TO BE RESCUED FROM

BULLIES....THERE ARE CLASSES FOR PEOPLE TO LEARN HOW NOT TO RESPOND

AS A VICTIM.....

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Sat 11/20/21 01:21 PM


i am not, i am in my favorite place, my nothing place......

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Sat 11/20/21 03:16 AM
Edited by cleve on Sat 11/20/21 03:32 AM

Oh girl. It took me 66 years to understand that, promises always fail. People promise things they wish to do. That's all.
When someone is promising something, I say, "please stop, either you do it or not."

"someone who isn't sure about you"? What you see is what you get! Don't wait till he changes. Love means fully accepting and saying yes to you.

we can't fulfill.




YEP...IF HE IS GETTING THE COOKIE , THAT MEANS HE WANTS IT FOR

FREE. MAKE THE BOY WORK TO GET YOU....MEN DO NOT APPRECIATE ,

WHAT THEY HAVE NOT GIVEN TO GET......''YOUNG LADY YOU ARE THE

PRIZE ''. SO MANY WOMEN JUST GIVE THEMSELVES AWAY TO GUY'S AND

END UP WONDERING WHY THEY HAVE NO VALUE TO HIM.....I KNOW BECAUSE

''I ARE ONE''.

P.S.'' WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US'' BY ''WHAT WE EXCEPT, NOT

EXCEPT, AND WHAT WE REINFORCE''.....'' MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN

ARE FROM VENUS'' BY JOHN GRAY IS BOOK YOU SHOULD READ.

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Fri 11/19/21 09:15 AM

Have you tried drinking something so cold it hurts your lungs but satisfies and your thirst?

Loving you is like that... loving you from afar hurts my heart but satisfies my soul...


PAIN CAN BE A TEACHER FOR SOME PEOPLE.....

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Fri 11/19/21 02:53 AM

THE POINT I AM MAKING IS THAT YOUR NOT SEEING YOUR PART...ARE THESE

FAVORITE FEELINGS YOUR HAVING ? IS THERE A BELIEF ABOUT YOUR

SELF OR OTHERS THAT IS GETTING VALIDATED ?????......

WHEN WE DO THE SAME THING OVER AND

OVER EXPECT A DIFFERENT RESULT THEN WE NEED TO CHANGE WHAT WE ARE

DOING....ITS OBVIOUS YOUR FEELING LIKE A VICTIM.....IT'S ABOUT

CHOICES WE MAKE.....YOU KNOW MEN WILL BE MEN, LIVING WITH TWO IS A

SETUP FOR LOTS OF DRAMA AND I BELIEVE A PART OF YOU KNOWS THAT....

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Fri 11/19/21 12:51 AM
Edited by cleve on Fri 11/19/21 01:16 AM

I live with two men. Whenever I have a female friend over, one of my male flatmates chases them. He gets their phone number off them because he is charming, and then pursues them.
I text them to say "What are you up to this weekend"? and boom, he has been there first and has made plans with them.
I have explained to all of them he is a ladies man and is talking to 12 women already, (whom think he is only talking to them), but they fall for his charm.
I feel disrespected. Am I wrong to feel this way?
I have decided to meet my new women friends outside of my home now.






NO CLEARLY DEFINED BOUNDARIES ????/. BOUNDARIES ARE ESSENTIAL TO

HAVING STRONG AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.....


MY SWEET HEART, MY GIRL FRIEND, MY LOVER, MY WIFE, MY FIANCE ARE

EXAMPLES OF BOUNDARIES....THEY ARE MEN, THEY ARE NOT BROKEN, MEN

DO WHAT THEY ARE ALLOWED TO DO.....ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS

YES.......WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US......

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Thu 11/18/21 06:15 PM

I think the topic is confusing but, I think it's best to meet in person and spend time together first.


AMEN....

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Thu 11/18/21 06:22 AM

Hope I can connect with real and nice people here in this site. :-)


yep the same types of people here as you will find on the outside......THE GOOD,THE BAD, AND UGLY....GOOD LUCK....

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Wed 11/17/21 05:58 PM

I'M READY TO MARRY A NICE CARING LADY



WOMAN OUT NUMBER MEN IN THE CHURCH'S IN MOST OF THE WORLD.......

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Wed 11/17/21 05:27 PM


I AM A MALE AND I GET MY SHARE OF FRUITS AND NUTS ALSO......

CRYPTO ?????...''INVESTMENT FIRM'' HELPS CLEAR THE AIR......OTHER

WISE EVERYTHING ELSE O.K. THESE SITES ARE NOT INSTANT

GRATIFICATION, RELAX ENJOY THE SHOW.....happy

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Wed 11/17/21 09:07 AM

Love fashion I luv to see my girl in leather jeggs , skirt , teamed with the Allstar Converse high tops , just a thought Lady’s girls , not weird ,, just a modern way of thought , I’m genuine and have a great heart :heart: the proof will be there :ok_hand::ok_hand::cherry_blossom::cherry_blossom:, Thankyou. X



YEP,,,,WE ARE VISUAL.......

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Wed 11/17/21 09:04 AM

OUR BELIEFS ARE OUR REALITY..WHAT WE SEEK WE ALSO FIND........THEY

BECOME OUR SCRIPT WE FOLLOW.....WE BUILD ENTIRE STROKE SYSTEMS

AROUND OUR BELIEF SYSTEMS.....BY STROKE I MEAN A UNIT OF

RECOGNITION....LIKE POSITIVE STOKE,NEGATIVE STROKE, MARSHMALLOW

STROKE , AND ECT....OUR BELIEFS MAKE UP WHO WE ARE AND THE PATH OUR

LIFE TAKES....WE WANT CHANGE IT'S UP TO US AS INDIVIDUALS TO MAKE

THOSE CHANGES......THAT'S MY STORY AND STICKING TO IT......

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Wed 11/17/21 07:19 AM

Rate my profile :blush:



LOL

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Tue 11/16/21 08:18 AM

There’s a lizard in our house a since they’re fast and not easy to catch can anyone suggest how to catch it if I can?


THEY EAT BAD BUGS..AND NOT CAUSE THE HARM THE BUGS DO.....GREAT

HOUSE PETS FOR KIDS.....

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Tue 11/16/21 08:14 AM

Same as well, I think find a loyalty dog is much more easier than find a right person.




I HAVE HAD MEN TELL ME THE SAME, SO IT'S NOT A GENDER THING....I

BELIEVE ITS ARE AWARENESS AND SPECIFICALLY ONE'S BELIEF

SYSTEM...WHAT WE BELIEVE ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS HELPS ATTRACT

OTHERS THAT FIT THAT BELIEF SYSTEM..SO MANY PEOPLE ARE ADDICTED

TO THE KARPMAN TRIANGLE TO GET THERE STROKES...( NEEDS MET ).

BY STROKE I MEAN UNITS OF RECOGNITION....SO WHEN SOMETHING IS NOT

WORKING FOR US WE NEED TO LOOK FOR NEW ANSWERS....'' WE TEACH

PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US ''...OUR LIVES FOLLOW A SCRIPT AND WE

ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS THE POWER TO CHANGE IT.....

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Tue 11/16/21 05:33 AM
Edited by cleve on Tue 11/16/21 05:35 AM

EACH ONE OF US HAS DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES, THEN WE MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

ABOUT THOSE EXPERIENCES THOUGH THE EYE'S AND EARS OF A

CHILD....WHEN WE LEAVE HOME AND FORM A INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP, THE

PURPOSE OF THAT RELATIONSHIP IS TO FINISH CHILDHOOD. SOME PEOPLE GO

THROUGH LIFE AND NEVER HAVE AN EPIPHANY, SO THERE GAMES CAN BECOME

HARDER....LOVE CAN ONLY HAPPEN TO US WHEN OUR LIFE POSITION IS

''I'M O.K. AND YOUR O.K.''EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS ABOUT ''BELIEF''...

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Mon 11/15/21 04:54 PM

Vinyl records and cassette tapes had an A & B side.

So it is only logical that their successor would be the CD.


don't forget the usb stick.....

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