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Wed 02/23/22 06:33 AM

I love you and will have fun and more


FOR ALMOST EVERYONE ''ATTRACTION IS NOT A

CHOICE''.....''THERE IS OUR SOCIAL SELF'' THEN

THERE IS OUR ''UNCONSCIOUS EMOTIONAL SELF''....THE

EMOTIONAL PART OF US THAT DOES THE

ATTRACTING.....WORDS ????????? GOOD LUCK....

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Tue 02/22/22 04:33 PM

This is a very serious problem. No respect.What do you think?



BASED ON WHAT YOU SAID I ASSUME RESPECT IS AN ISSUE

YOU HAVE.....I HAVE FOUND THE BEST AND LONGEST

LASTING RESPECT IS WHEN IT IS

EARNED...........DEMANDING RESPECT NEVER

WORKS....BEING A GOOD EXAMPLE WORKS BEST....WE CAN

NOT GET LOVE FROM OTHERS UNTIL WE LOVE OURSELVES

FIRST...YOU WILL FIND ISSUES ARE MATURITY TRYING TO

HAPPEN.....

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Sat 02/19/22 03:47 PM

I think
OH MY KADAVULE


ALWAYS TURN YOUR FEARS AND FRUSTRATIONS INTO A

POSITIVE BY ASKING A ''HOW TO QUESTION''.....

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Sat 02/19/22 03:18 PM
SO ARJUN GETS A SECOND CHANCE, HOPE IT WORKED OUT GOOD,,,,

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Sat 02/19/22 11:40 AM

oh poor baby, republicans just shoot up schools



that's pure crap...that's why politics and religion should not be allowed here.....this a dating sight....

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Sat 02/19/22 05:28 AM
IT CAN ONLY WORK WHEN IT MEETS THE ''EMOTIONAL

NEEDS'' OF BOTH PEOPLE......SIMPLE, NOT ROCKET

SCIENCE.

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Fri 02/18/22 06:59 PM

if i could only go back three years ago when it all began, when it all started... what i would not give to relive those feelings... what's the line and title of that song... "...ah love, look you've done to me..."


ONCE WE UNDERSTAND HOW '' ATTRACTION IS NOT A

CHOICE'' WE SEE HOW THINGS WENT WRONG,AND MAKE

BETTER CHOICES IN OUR LIVES.... I SEE RELATIONSHIPS START OUT IN THE ROMANCE STAGE AND END UP IN A POWER STRUGGLE STAGE...I SEE THE BEST ANSWER IS TO LEARN ABOUT THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN US.. LEARNING TO REALLY LISTEN TO EACH IN A WAY THEY KNOW WE HEARD THEM AND ITS O.K. THEY FEEL THAT WAY....ON THE OTHER HAND GIVING UP FAVORITE FEELINGS CAN BE LIKE GETTING OF DRUGS...FEELINGS ARE THE DRUG OF CHOICE FOR SO MANY IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS....

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Fri 02/18/22 05:41 PM
FOR THE GUY'S IT'S NOT NOT A HEART PROBLEM, ITS A

HEAD PROBLEM....,.,,,

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Fri 02/18/22 11:27 AM

It is some sort of a constant search for words – for the right words to describe this bursting feeling, drowning affection, delicious emotions… engulfing my whole being. Where are these emotions coming from, I do not even know. I am puzzled and amazed still, every day, every time I am putting these words together and typing my letters to you, giving my thoughts, exposing my love for you. I am so vulnerable – a snap of your fingers could easily shatter me.

A word from you could either send me beyond heavens or drown in my own tears. I am at your mercy and I am so scared… but loving it… I even asked you to be possessive of me, a weird way of making me feel, I am yours and you would never let me go – you would never let anyone take me away from you. I want you to be possessive of my love because you only want it for yourself – they are yours my loves, only yours.

Pardon me, pardon me, pardon me – this busygal is so hopelessly, romantically, so, so, so in to you – so much in love with you… the wonders and mysteries of love – I surrendered, I am engulfed, drowned but you are there to rescue me – with your love. Such a sweet, sweet, sweet feeling – to be loved by you, let me drown some more until I can breathe no more… I’ll die loving you for each and every lifetime I would live… Can you feel my love?


ITS A GOOD EXAMPLE OF HAVING A WOMAN'S FEELINGS

AND EMOTIONS BEING SPIKED......SOME MEN USE IT AS

A TOOL TO PICK UP WOMEN AND ALSO GAIN

CONTROL.....''SO

VULNERABLE'' ''SNAP OF YOUR

FINGERS''...''SWEET,SWEET,SWEET FEELING''

THE VERY THING THEY LIVE FOR IS ALSO WHAT MAKES

THEM THE MOST VULNERABLE .......

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Sat 02/05/22 09:30 AM




The expectations of 'unconditional',
is, in and of itself, a condition.

Best of luck, and welcome to Mingle2.


I like what you said, so true.




WTF !!! UNCONDITIONAL MEANS MEANS NO CONDITIONS

HAVE BEEN ADDED.....


Even the unconditional have conditions. With everything there are conditions. The root word of unconditional contains condition. How can something be totally free from something, yet contain some form of what it is to be free from?

This means that in some form of unconditional, it cannot truly exist without conditions.



HEALTHLINE.COM

''UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, SIMPLY PUT, IS LOVE WITHOUT

STRINGS ATTACHED. IT'S LOVE YOU OFFER FREELY. YOU

DON'T BASE IT ON WHAT SOMEONE DOES FOR YOU IN

RETURN. YOU SIMPLY LOVE THEM AND WANT NOTHING MORE

THAN THEIR HAPPINESS. THIS TYPE OF LOVE, SOMETIMES

CALLED COMPASSIONATE OR AGAPE LOVE, MIGHT SOUND

SOMEWHAT FAMILIAR. '' SEPT 15, 2020


I HAVE HAD OTHERS WHO HAVE DONE THINGS FOR ME WITH

NO STINGS, AND I HAVE PAID IT FORWARD NO

STRINGS.....

AND HOW ABOUT A ''MOTHERS LOVE''.

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Sat 02/05/22 08:43 AM


The expectations of 'unconditional',
is, in and of itself, a condition.

Best of luck, and welcome to Mingle2.


I like what you said, so true.




WTF !!! UNCONDITIONAL MEANS MEANS NO CONDITIONS

HAVE BEEN ADDED.....

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Sat 02/05/22 06:32 AM

I'm glad to contribute my thoughts on my personal experience with relationships and its intricacies. Let's discuss the true essence of partnerships established through unconditional affection.
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I KNOW FOR MOST WOMEN THEY NEED NON-SEXUAL

AFFECTION. ITS PART OF THERE EMOTIONAL NEEDS THAT

NEED TO BE MET IN A RELATIONSHIP. THERE EMOTIONAL

NEEDS VERY SOME WHAT FROM WOMAN TO WOMAN JUST LIKE

MEN'S VERY..... WHEN A COUPLE HAS INTIMATE

CONVERSATIONS THAT NEEDS TO BE DISCUSSED....IT IS

NECESSARY COMPONENT OF BONDING......

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Sat 01/29/22 12:21 PM

needing someone to respect and love carefully


YOU MIGHT HAVE TO DEFINE RESPECT AND LOVE, WHAT DO

THOSE WORDS ME TO YOU TO GET A GOOD RESPONSE.....

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Sat 01/29/22 12:17 PM
RELAX, LOOK AROUND FOR EXAMPLE YOU CAN DO A SEARCH, SEE WHO'S ON LINE, AND ETC. GO FOR IT........

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Sat 01/29/22 06:51 AM
MAN UP.....

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Fri 01/28/22 07:47 AM


Dating in the 2020's sucks, even before but then at least real women responded and send naughty pics, not what I wanted but better than nothing which is what I get now, maybe it's me, maybe it's WV, who knows....


Stay active in the forums so you will be noticed more. That could be one of the problems. It says you have been a member for about 8 years now but have only made 1 post in the forums. Like I said, stay active. The real people hang out in or watch the forums. Good luck to you. In addition you may want to complete your profile because if it is not complete a lot of people will bypass your profile because of that.


YEP

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Tue 01/25/22 09:09 AM
Edited by cleve on Tue 01/25/22 09:32 AM

I hate that most people don't believe in much of anything strongly. No independent thought for the most part. Go with the flow. Take path of least resistance. Join the crowd. No real sense of right or wrong.



AUTONOMY IS AN ILLUSION.... YOU HAVE TO STEP OUT

AND QUIET NOISE IN YOUR HEAD JUST LONG ENOUGH TO

SEE IT.FOR EXAMPLE ITS SO EASY SEE OTHERS ISSUES

WHEN YOUR NOT INVOLVED WITH THEM....EVEN IN OUR

SLEEP THE NOISE IS STILL WITH US, AFTER ABOUT ONE

HOUR WE GO INTO REM SLEEP AND THE DREAMS START.....

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Sun 01/23/22 05:35 PM

I found a beautiful woman but I'm in love wit her mother


NOBODY WILL WIN.....YOUR TELLING ABOUT YOUR VALUE

SYSTEM......YOUR MAKING THE DAUGHTER A VICTIM....NO

GOOD WILL COME OF IT......

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Sat 01/22/22 06:51 AM

It is all about your emotions.


THERE ARE FOUR BASIC FEELINGS, MAD, SAD, GLAD, AND

SCARED..... EVERYONE HAS FAVORITE FEELINGS THEY

ARE PART OF WHO WE ARE......WOMAN HAVE PERMISSION

TO FEEL THERE FEELINGS..MEN ON THE OTHER HAND DO

NOT.....A WOMAN DOES NOT FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND A

MAN WHO CAN NOT CONTROL HIS FEELINGS... WOMEN

AND THERE RELATIONSHIPS ARE FOREMOST IN THERE

LIVES FOR MEN ITS ACCOMPLISHMENTS.....WOMEN NEED

TO HEAR WHY WE LOVE THEM....MEN NEED TO FEEL

APPRECIATED....WE ARE SO DIFFERENT EMOTIONALLY AND

WE NEED TO RESPECT THOSE DIFFERENCES.....

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Sat 01/22/22 06:31 AM

Something I wish I could turn on & off like a light switch.


THEN YOU WOULD BE A MAN.....

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