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Any good women here?
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GOOD ?????????????? WHAT YOU FIND HERE YOU FIND
EVERYWHERE.................GOOD LUCK.......... |
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Enraged "Love"
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I READ YOUR PROFILE ALSO, SO I HAVE A QUESTION....DO
DO YOU KNOW WHAT THE KARPMAN TRIANGLE IS ??? |
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Difficult
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here is it damn difficult to find genuine people  . GET A VERY SMALL CUTE PUPPY AND TAKE HIM WITH YOU EVERY WHERE YOU GO......WORKS FOR ME...... |
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To the other woman
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wonderful! what motivated you to post your poems today? just created my account and was going through some notebooks. just felt like it I guessed  also, had struggled with some depression recently and it helps me to write it out and read it. WHEN MY ENERGY LEVEL GETS LOW AND I START TO GET DEPRESSED WHAT I DO IS I DO SOMETHING FOR THE LITTLE BOY INSIDE ME THAT WILL BOOST HIS SPIRIT....ITS NURTURING THE CHILD IN ME....I DID NOT HAVE A NURTURING PARENT AROUND WHEN I NEEDED ONE AS A CHILD...I GREW A NURTURING PARENT INSIDE ME... WE CAN ALL DO THAT..... 
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i was terse and just said i was eclectic. she said sorry to hear that. like it was somne medical condition lmfao. BEING ECLECTIC CAN BE A WONDERFUL THING, LOTS OF CHOICES, A HELL OF LOT BETTER THAN BEING MONOLITHIC...... |
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THE QUEST IS TO FINISH THE EMOTIONAL WORK FROM CHILDHOOD.... WHAT BLURS OUR MINDS IS THE ''FOCUS ON THE SURFACE NOISE CREATED BY OUR BEHAVIOR''..... IN OTHER WORDS ITS UNRESOLVED ISSUES WE BRING TO OUR RELATIONSHIPS FROM PAST THAT WE ARE RECYCLING........EVERYONE HAS FAVORITE FEELINGS AND BELIEFS THAT CAUSE THE SURFACE NOISE.....FEW WILL GIVE IT UP ...... AS FRITZ PEARLS SAID, WHEN ONE BELIEFS OR EMOTIONS ARE GIVEN UP YOU HAVE WHAT HE CALLED THE ''FERTILE VOID '' OTHER EMOTIONS AND BELIEFS MUST FILL THE VOID..... WE DO A LOT OF ''PROJECTION'' IN OUR GAMES TO RECYCLE OUR FAVORITE FEELINGS AND VALIDATE OLD BELIEFS..... IT IS TOTALLY OUT OF OUR CONSCIOUS AWARENESS... THAT'S WHY INTROSPECTION IS SO IMPORTANT..... Deep & very helpful!  READ ''GAMES PEOPLE PLAY'' BY ERIC BERNE AND I'M O.K.- YOUR O.K. BY THOMAS A. HARRIS ....THESE BOOKS WILL CLEAR UP A LOT FOR YOU...... |
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Hello Poets, This seems one of those open ended verses that mean different things to different people. I don't recall where I found it / copied it from. "Unless we prefer to be made fools of by our illusions, we shall, by carefully analysing every fascination, extract from it a portion of our own personality like a quintessence, and slowly come to recognize that we meet ourselves time and again in a thousand disguises on the path of life." ~Carl Jung I think I got the first two lines right by asking 'Fascinations for what?' Driven by needs of Wealth, Love, .. Differencing between us in Quality / Quantity We conjure a projection of ourselves Or, a projection of our Love Which has it's own life And talks to us; Our fascination? --xx Anyone who finds this interpretation reasonable, is welcome to demystify rest of the verse for .., including my benefit. THE QUEST IS TO FINISH THE EMOTIONAL WORK FROM CHILDHOOD.... WHAT BLURS OUR MINDS IS THE ''FOCUS ON THE SURFACE NOISE CREATED BY OUR BEHAVIOR''..... IN OTHER WORDS ITS UNRESOLVED ISSUES WE BRING TO OUR RELATIONSHIPS FROM PAST THAT WE ARE RECYCLING........EVERYONE HAS FAVORITE FEELINGS AND BELIEFS THAT CAUSE THE SURFACE NOISE.....FEW WILL GIVE IT UP ...... AS FRITZ PEARLS SAID, WHEN ONE BELIEFS OR EMOTIONS ARE GIVEN UP YOU HAVE WHAT HE CALLED THE ''FERTILE VOID '' OTHER EMOTIONS AND BELIEFS MUST FILL THE VOID.....WE DO A LOT OF ''PROJECTION'' IN OUR GAMES TO RECYCLE OUR FAVORITE FEELINGS AND VALIDATE OLD BELIEFS.....IT IS TOTALLY OUT OF OUR CONSCIOUS AWARENESS...... THAT'S WHY INTROSPECTION IS SO IMPORTANT..... |
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I want to find a female partner who is not scared to be her real sexual self and not be ashamed. AFFECTION AND SECURITY IS WHAT MOST WOMEN NEED MOST TO FEEL SEXUAL.....THOSE NEEDS MUST BE FULFILLED FIRST .......
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I would love to see it in his eyes, feel it in his touch. I love being touched, for instance a hand on my knee when in the car, holding hands when we're out, a kiss, stroking my cheek or hair. That sort of thing. Occasionally the small gift, something that touches my heart. And it may not be sexual in itself but during intimacy I need to feel and notice it for sure! AWESOME...
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TRUE AFFECTION IS NON-SEXUAL....IN WHAT WAYS DO YOU
NEED YOUR MATE BE AFFECTIONATE TO YOU ???? |
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THE PURPOSE OF LIFE IS EXACTLY WHAT EACH OF US
BELIEVES IT TO BE....IT CAN BE HEAVEN OR HELL ITS OUR CHOICE FOR EACH OF US TO MAKE.......EVERY THING A PERSON DOES EFFECTS EACH AND EVERY PERSON AROUND THEM WEATHER THEY KNOW IT OR NOT..... |
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Fake news !!! Miss Universe was crowned recently and she was Miss India.... beautiful smart and very articulate.... so that would make her the most beautiful girl ... But... Miss Congeniality movie taught us that as long as you say "world peace" in your speech you're very likely to win. On a more serious note... isn't it time they stop parading women around as if they're trophies, and projecting the image women have to be beautiful to count? I mean... aside from beautiful you have to have intelligence to participate and then pretend to be an airhead in expensive outfits and utter "world peace!" with a huge non-stop smile. Well observed, highly appreciated "Beauty" is relative! As they say, it "lies in the eyes of the beholder"! Now, coming to the OP, yes we are free to have our own preferences for the skin tone that soothes our vision, but at the end of the day, it's personal preference; nothing more. AMEN BROTHER......... |
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Topic:
Cannot date?
Edited by
cleve
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Wed 12/15/21 04:48 PM
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MERRY, WAS RIGHT ON A LITTLE INTROSPECTION WILL GO
A LONG WAY.....MOST PEOPLE WHEN HAVING PROBLEMS WILL NOT SEE THERE PART....THE TRUTH IS ''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US'' ....,WE DO IT BY WHAT WE WILL EXCEPT OR NOT EXCEPT AND WHAT WE VALIDATE......THE REASON ITS TO HARD TO FIX EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS IS THE FOCUS IS ON THE SURFACE NOISE AN NOT THE BELIEF SYSTEM AND FAVORITE FEELINGS THAT IS CREATING ALL DRAMA IN THERE LIVES........THE ONE PERSON MOST KNOW THE LEAST ABOUT IS THEMSELVES....AND THE OPPOSITE SEX,,,THERE EMOTIONAL NEEDS ARE NOT IN THE SAME ORDER AS OURS......, |
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Make a relation ship
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I HAVE ONE LAST THING TO SAY,,,''TO HAVE A
SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP WE MUST MEET THE EMOTIONAL NEEDS OF EACH OTHER''.....HER NEEDS ARE NOT THE SAME AS HIS NEEDS...SO USING OUR OWN YARD STICK WILL NOT WORK, EACH COUPLE NEEDS TO TALK ABOUT IT....WITHOUT AFFECTION AND EMPATHY IT WILL FAIL AND IT WILL NOT WORK FOR THE LADIES..... |
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For women
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Humm... so are you saying that by women turning to other women instead of men that they will gain more fulfillment mentally and physically due to women never think about just having sex prior to a relationship with another woman?? I guess those that choose the same sex do it because they are attracted to the same sex instead.. Not for any type of reason.. Myself .. I love the way men look, act, and just being them.. I can honestly say I have never wanted to be with a woman.. I will admit that even I have looked at some women and said dammit they are good looking or they have it going on.. But there is nothing wrong with those that figure out what makes them happy.. Hope you find your happiness.. its not always about happiness.....one of the three escape hatches people use is going crazy.....some times when a person does not get the recognition they need or not recognized for who really are they will become something or some one different to get the attention they need....extreme cases are labeled schizophrenic.... |
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For women
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THE SOLUTION STARTS WITH OURSELVES ...THE MORE WE
KNOW ABOUT OUR FEELINGS AND BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND WE BECOME MORE SELF AWARE. KNOWING THE TRUTH OF WHY WE KNOW WHAT WE KNOW SETS US FREE....''THE BETTER WE BECOME THE BETTER PEOPLE WE WILL ATTRACT INTO OUR LIVES''....THE COMMON THREAD THAT I SEE EVER WHERE IS, ''PUTTING THE BLAME OUT THERE''... WHEN I HEAR THAT I HEAR A VICTIM..... |
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Topic:
Looking for a virtuous woman
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using a negative to reel them in ????? your not
alone i have seen the ladies do the same thing....is that what young people do now ??? sounds counter intuitive..... 
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Edited by
cleve
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Mon 11/29/21 05:28 AM
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In Africa it's absurd to see a dad engage his daughter in safe sex education, it's seen as a mom's duty. How do I discuss sex education with her?🤦♂️ GREAT BOOKS FOR HER TO READ, ''THINK LIKE A MAN ACT LIKE A LADY'' BY STEVE HARVEY.....''MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS'' BY JOHN GRAY...REAL LIFE AND HONEST INFO FOR HER....THEY BOTH WILL MAKE HER ''STREET SMART'' AND HELP HER FROM BECOMING A VICTIM....INFO FROM HER PEERS IS NOT THE BEST... P.S....GOOGLE '' . ''THE TALE OF TWO BRAINS'' IS A REALLY GOOD VIDEO ALSO...... |
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Topic:
Make a relation ship
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how to create relationship? smile and introduce yourself......people who are our friends will have matching illusions (i did not say the same illusions )..in other words they complement each others illusions....be positive and always focus on what you do want..the real question is first do you know what you want???? good luck.... 9 9 |
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Topic:
relationship
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i need someone that i can spend the rest of my life with and have a great family in future great start,, when we focus on what we want and not on what do not want our behavior changes to make it happen.....good luck.... |
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