whats more hurtful? you see your boyfriend having intimate relationship with another girl or intimate relationship with another man?

if he is messing around with another woman

it hurts but ...you will get over it

if he is messing around with another man

means he turned his back on an entire gender

Exactly and it does happen nowadays. Men loves men.

is a pointless fight when guns make everyone equal.


Depends on how you measure it.
Men are better at physical abuse, women are better at emotional/mental abuse. Which is more hurtful?
What's worse not being able to walk or move your arms or see, or brain damage, because your spine is broken or something, or becoming a misanthrope/misogynist or simply incapable of understanding the most basic concepts of how to be in a relationship because your single mom was terrible as a mother?


Depends.
There could be a lot going on.
What's the emotional connection they are having?
What kind of person do I know them to be?
When I met them and started dating them were they banging anything that moved and this is an extension of that, of who I know them to be, fulfilling a fetish or need for gratification?
Or am I seeing some kind of romantic relationship developing between a paragon of monogamy and someone else?
Or has our relationship been really bad, with crappy communication for a while, and this is an extreme cry for something?

For me, in and of itself, seeing someone bang someone else, regardless of gender, doesn't elicit "hurt."
The context of why it's happening elicits hurt.

At most seeing my girlfriend bang someone else would elicit fear that the relationship and my life are changing, especially in ways I don't understand, have little say in, or control over.

Question is everything alright at home

A women wants a men to take care of them in the house bet wants to show everyone that she independent And could take care of her self but all actuality they want the cake and eat it too lol

If this were going the other way, and we were talking about women, my answer would be that betrayal is betrayal is betrayal.

Cheating is cheating regardless of the circumstances. Personally I think finding out he was really into dudes would be less of a blow to my ego.

dating

sexy

sexy

fake

Can't a guy watch Full House in peace?

This is my sentiments exactly..
Betrayal is just that and I personally don't give a damn who he chose to cheat with.
I don't want him anymore

Man is stronger

Jemand in berlin?