Community > Posts By > andrew101888
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I don't get people...
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well i think it took you a while but you finally figured it out. she is not interested. we only talked twice, but yes. I am done with this one. Hopefully she stops giving out her number to people she isn't interested in it sends the wrong message in my eye. Sigh and I told my friend I shouldn't have asked looks like I was right oh well her loss no big deal. Thanks to all that responded |
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I don't get people...
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So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice.. She apparently likes to talk with you. How does that switch over to text? Maybe she wants to spend time with you, person to person...including doing the laundry, or whatever is on her agenda. I asked her to hang out.. she said no twice already (by saying "im doing insert activity here sorry") |
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I don't get people...
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She's not that into you I know. I don't even know why I'm into her shes just like the first girl I ever asked for their number that didn't say no I guess that made me confident. |
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I don't get people...
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So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice.. Yeah that is the sense Im getting. You tried. Shes probably really busy with school. At least she has your number so if she decides to contact you, she can. Dont let it get you down. Try try again. School doesn't start until Wednesday. We attend the same college, so yea. |
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I don't get people...
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Honestly I would leave it alone for a few days, sometimes when a guy texts everyday like that he can come across as desperate. Let her text you next and if she doesn't then I would move on. Did you not read what I said? I waited a day in between texts. I texted her 2/4 days. I don't even want to talk to her I just want to get to hanging out. |
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I don't get people...
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So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice.. i hate to be blunt, but isn't it obvious? I don't know. I'm not her, and I don't know much about girls. She seemed interested when we first talked, so who knows? |
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I don't get people...
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So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice..
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I imed her a really long thing telling her how I think my feelings are too strong for friendship and how she hurt me by leading me on and then just wanting to be friends I also said I was sorry, but until my feelings are gone I can't be her friend. At this point I wanted to get everything out, and if she doesn't like it too bad. Thanks for the advice everyone
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Okay, so this girl that I've talked about before on here who told me last week she didn't want me to contact her imed me tonight. We had a casual conversation and she asked me why can't we just be friends? I said I'm not sure and we just talked about general stuff. Eventually it came up where I asked why she contacted me again and she said had nothing else to do. I told her I wouldn't have contacted her because her wish was that I no longer be in her life and she said she was sorry for hurting me that she didn't mean to (sorry, but if she didnt mean to hurt me she would have never treated me like a boyfriend when we hung out). I really don't want to be her friend because when we talk, I feel like I just want more than friendship and I really don't want to feel these things again because I want to live my life without feeling tied down by my feelings for her. How can I be nice, but still get the point across that I'm not ready for just a friendship?
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It's the weekend , call her & see what she's up to Well todays my only available day so I'll give it a shot I guess. |
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I asked this girl for her # on Wednesday (at the mall), and she gave it to me. We texted Wednesday night (I had to make sure it was real you never know), and I didn't say anything to her yesterday. Someone told me 2 days is usually customary to ask out, but do you guys think thats a good idea? I mean if I ask and she has plans we do to go school together, so its not a big deal.
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A few months we go to the same school, but we've never actually met. She always seems to be crushing on new guys all the time and right now seems to like someone who is already taken. I have a really good connection with her, and she always tells me how cute and sweet I am. I think i'm starting to really like her because she likes the same type of music as me and loves it when I just say random songs to her (and obviously other reasons). I told her when we go back to school next week we should hang out, but how can I tell her I want more than friendship? I'm not ruling it out because shes shown interest before and constantly flirts with me and used to text me non stop, and actually texted me to tell me why she signed off the computer. So, what exactly should I do to try and escalate this?
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What a failure..
Edited by
andrew101888
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Tue 01/13/09 11:46 PM
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No, college break girl isn't an ex nor is she who I'm talking about. This is a psycho that I broke up with in september and she started a bunch of stuff with me after we broke up til i threatened to call the cops. Sometimes she ims me and starts talking $hi+, but I guess she suddenly forgot who I was? I always knew she was racist the last time we hung out she screamed the n word out my car window.. I got really mad about that, and tonight she just proved how immature and racist she really is. I feel bad for any guy who gets involved with this racist piece of trash.
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Dead space
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Damn, my friend signed off the computer and now I have no one to type random lyrics too. >:( awww dude I feel like I like everything about this girl.. but idk she always seems to like all these different guys.. I guess I can always ask her to hang out with me.. we do go to the same school and all >_< |
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Dead space
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Damn, my friend signed off the computer and now I have no one to type random lyrics too. >:(
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Dead space
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I can't lie, lie I miss you much, I miss you much watching everyday that goes by, I miss you much til I get you back I'm gonna try, yes I miss you much u were the apple of my eye, girl i miss you much lol i hvae no idea who that was to.. but dang. ;p It's AKON: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OTJmmxL67-g (copy/paste think you will get the idea) Blushing already? he hasn't even got to the Wanna make love to you right now part, wanna make love right now, right now.. wish we never broke up right now, right now. Might not be everyones music but you get the point. homie I didn't copy and paste that whatsoever... I typed that by listening.. I never copy and paste if I have the song I just listen and type it out plus I already know every word to this song by heart |
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Dead space
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I can't lie, lie I miss you much, I miss you much watching everyday that goes by, I miss you much til I get you back I'm gonna try, yes I miss you much u were the apple of my eye, girl i miss you much lol i hvae no idea who that was to.. but dang. ;p it was to you since you wanted me to sing :-p |
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Dead space
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I can't lie, lie I miss you much, I miss you much
watching everyday that goes by, I miss you much til I get you back I'm gonna try, yes I miss you much u were the apple of my eye, girl i miss you much |
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Well, I'm glad you guys think its a good thing lol. Now I just need to find someone appreciative of what I do. :-P
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screw her.. sing to me. i promise to blush like a giddy lil school girl. ;p nothing makes me feel more wanted than a man who's willin to show off a talent to impress and express his feelings ot me. I'm not great, but I'm not nails on a chalkboard. I'd sing to any girl I liked to be honest with you. I love singing in the car too I just love music :) |
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