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In case they change their mind See with me its one and done. I generally delete #, screen name and pretty much anything associated with the person. I hate living in the past. |
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I've always wondered why I receive text messages months after I stop talking to people (its why I don't give my # to strangers on dating sites anymore) or an ex that I deleted their # and wonder who the hell it is. Why do people keep #s of people they no longer are friends with, or someone they told to leave them alone? I don't get it..
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yes there might be and she probably has me at school because its an all girls college that she goes to. I really don't care but I hate being basically *****ed at for doing nothing wrong. I talked to her as a friend not someone I was seeing and the messed up thing is she knows how much I care for and like her. Oh well
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Andrew, Do you both go to college together and are home now on break in different cities? We're both in college, but different colleges. She lives at her college and thats where we normally hang out (its a 25-30 minute drive from me). She went home for winter break and told me that we couldn't hang out because of where she lives (its like double the distance of her school) and said lets be friends until we can see each other again. She never once told me to leave her alone while she thinks things through because I would have just let it go right then and there. |
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before break i asked u if i could have this break without any interruptions from u to think things thru
Hello, it doesn't take a genius to know that's exactly what she meant! But I'm guessing you don't take hints too well, huh? what hints? she said this TONIGHT she never ONCE told me to not talk to her or interrupt her before TONIGHT. I already told you what she said before hand and there was not ONE implication to leave her alone. Its fine I'm done with her.. I'm just gonna delete her number and screen name and move on with my life without her drama weighing me down, oh and whats funny is she sent me a few texts during the break too, so if she wanted me gone so bad why the hell would she try talking to me? Shes just a confused little girl who needs to stop playing games |
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MirrorMirror I already thought she didn't like me for some odd reason, but she could have at least told me that instead of letting me cling onto whatever hope I had. Whatever at this point I'm sick of the drama she brings to my life, and quite frankly I'm not gonna get upset over it.
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She doesn't have the attitude problem. You're the one with the problem. She told you not to get in touch with her at all during the break, and you refused to respect her wishes. I'd be pissed off too if you disrespected me like that. Did you read my post? she NEVER said this.. she said lets just be friends during the break she NEVER said to NOT talk to her.. so yea she DOES have an attitude problem. |
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So for the first time in weeks I imed the girl I like, and look what she says to me
"listen i dont kno any other way to put it....before break i asked u if i could have this break without any interruptions from u to think things thru and every week somehow miraculously i get 2-3 IMs, txts, or fb notifications from u...how hard is it to just honor what i asked for?" Considering before her break all she said is she just wanted to be friends and have time to think about what we were, and I sent her maybe 3 texts.. the week before christmas, the day after and this past Sunday about the Eagles game. I seriously don't know shes so ****ing rude about something she didnt even ask for.. I mean she acted like I imed her everyday I never IM her on aim and barely text her. I don't get why she has such an attitude problem over nothing.. |
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asking out?
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umm she knows I want more than just friendship she told me we had to wait until we can hang out to continue it anyway. We still talk the same way we did before she went home, when did I say we didnt talk? I just can't hang out with her until next week. Not once did I say we stopped talking oh and I won't call her because her and I don't do phone calls we've only talked on the phone when i tell her i'm coming to see her or i got there and she has to come sign me in we've talked 1 time to actually talk because she wanted to hear my voice before we hung out. Id rather wait because it makes no sense for me to ask her to commit to a relationship when we haven't seen each other in a month, and if I wait until we hang out it'll make a lot more sense and not be completely out of left field. Ur right I know what I want from her (I want to date her and be with her as much as possible with our busy lives) before she went on break we hung out around once a week which is fine by me. I just want to get it over with (asking her out) and hopefully things go well Well honestly it sounds like to me until you two can see each other on a regular basis it is best to leave going the next step out. It just sounds all to iffy on both sides to me. But that is just how I'm taking it by what little you have actually said about the situation here. Just sounds like that neither one of ya'll actually knows what they truly want from the other. 
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I would rather someone call me if it was more and ask me that way instead of ignore me for a month.  
Yep, I have to agree with this statement. umm she knows I want more than just friendship she told me we had to wait until we can hang out to continue it anyway. We still talk the same way we did before she went home, when did I say we didnt talk? I just can't hang out with her until next week. Not once did I say we stopped talking oh and I won't call her because her and I don't do phone calls we've only talked on the phone when i tell her i'm coming to see her or i got there and she has to come sign me in we've talked 1 time to actually talk because she wanted to hear my voice before we hung out. Id rather wait because it makes no sense for me to ask her to commit to a relationship when we haven't seen each other in a month, and if I wait until we hang out it'll make a lot more sense and not be completely out of left field. |
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I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that. You both sound indecisive if it's taken a month for you to ask her out again. The worst she'll say is no. shes home where I can't see her. Trust me I didnt want to wait a month its sucked :( Hummmmmmmmmm she does have phone service right? I don't ask out over phone I'd much rather do it in person and from what ive heard doing it by phone shows you have little confidence? |
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I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that. You both sound indecisive if it's taken a month for you to ask her out again. The worst she'll say is no. shes home where I can't see her. Trust me I didnt want to wait a month its sucked :( |
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Just get it over with & ask her then... well next week I should be able to see her. Then I can ask =) |
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I know there's romance at least for me we've gone out in the past. She's still single I know that much the only reason we haven't hung out is because of break from school. I'm only going to ask out if our night goes well, but every time we've been together its gone well. My only concern is she's very indecisive and I don't know what she wants, but asking will remedy that.
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Would it be dumb to ask out someone after you haven't seen them on a month? Of course I'm waiting to see her to ask. Do you guys think its stupid?
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nah ive never had a one night stand I mean like someone you like and hook up with I guess
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With me its definitely a yes, I've only hooked up with one girl I wasn't actually dating (I want to date her badly), and yea it made me like her a lot more >_<
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Some older people I've seen always ask why I'm single >_<
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I don't get why it seems in the U.S. culture that its such a negative thing to be single.
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How do I make a profile where people will contact me hahA
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