Topic: How long should you wait to ask to hang out or whatever.
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Fri 01/16/09 08:30 AM
I asked this girl for her # on Wednesday (at the mall), and she gave it to me. We texted Wednesday night (I had to make sure it was real you never know), and I didn't say anything to her yesterday. Someone told me 2 days is usually customary to ask out, but do you guys think thats a good idea? I mean if I ask and she has plans we do to go school together, so its not a big deal.

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Fri 01/16/09 08:34 AM
I think you should wait about 4 months to ask her out. Then when you DO call her, tell her you'll call her in 2 weeks. Then when you call her again, ask her what her name is, cuz you forgot. Then if she says she'll go out with you, ask her where she might want to go that she can afford....

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Fri 01/16/09 08:37 AM
It's the weekend , call her & see what she's up todrinker

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Fri 01/16/09 08:38 AM

I think you should wait about 4 months to ask her out. Then when you DO call her, tell her you'll call her in 2 weeks. Then when you call her again, ask her what her name is, cuz you forgot. Then if she says she'll go out with you, ask her where she might want to go that she can afford....
Girl you to funny---LMAO....I hope he does not do that....laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 01/16/09 08:38 AM

It's the weekend , call her & see what she's up todrinker

Well todays my only available day so I'll give it a shot I guess.

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Fri 01/16/09 08:46 AM

I asked this girl for her # on Wednesday (at the mall), and she gave it to me. We texted Wednesday night (I had to make sure it was real you never know), and I didn't say anything to her yesterday. Someone told me 2 days is usually customary to ask out, but do you guys think thats a good idea? I mean if I ask and she has plans we do to go school together, so its not a big deal.



this is a thumb rule, if you ask this girl out and she says she is busy, maybe she is...however, if she offers an alternative date to meet you then you are in the clear (it doesnt matter when because she will go out with you) but if she simply says she is busy and not say anything else, I say she is not interested!