So, the waitress at Friendly's Wednesday night was a nice person, and she talked to me and my friend for 30 minutes. She seemed pretty cool, so we went back and I asked for her number. She gave it to me, and things seemed pretty good I texted her that night to make sure it was real. Fast forward to friday (she told me wednesday she'd text me tomorrow and never did), and I asked her out to coffee. She was working then had laundry to do so she said lets do it another time. I didn't text her Saturday and about an hour ago I sent her a text. I just started a hey whats up convo and asked when she would be free, and all she said was she starts school Wednesday.. I asked about tomorrow, and she said I'm working all day. I asked her when she would be available, and she never responded.. I'm starting to think maybe she just doesn't want to see me, and just gave me her # to be nice..

i think you got it

i hate to be blunt, but isn't it obvious?

Honestly I would leave it alone for a few days, sometimes when a guy texts everyday like that he can come across as desperate. Let her text you next and if she doesn't then I would move on.

I don't know. I'm not her, and I don't know much about girls. She seemed interested when we first talked, so who knows?

you figured it out, don'tcha hate it when people do things cuz they want to be nice and it ends up making them look like more of an a**

Did you not read what I said? I waited a day in between texts. I texted her 2/4 days. I don't even want to talk to her I just want to get to hanging out.

Yeah that is the sense Im getting. You tried. Shes probably really busy with school. At least she has your number so if she decides to contact you, she can. Dont let it get you down. Try try again.

She's not that into you

School doesn't start until Wednesday. We attend the same college, so yea.

I know. I don't even know why I'm into her shes just like the first girl I ever asked for their number that didn't say no I guess that made me confident.

text her that, and see what happens

'Bye.

She apparently likes to talk with you. How does that switch over to text?
Maybe she wants to spend time with you, person to person...including doing the laundry, or whatever is on her agenda.

If you aren't sure just text her to ask if you can call her sometime...no response probably means no.

I asked her to hang out.. she said no twice already (by saying "im doing insert activity here sorry")

Well even before you start school, its a lot of prep. It was for me anyway but I was hardcore biology major. Thats what I meant. Shes not that into you. Move on.

The problem here is that you've shown yourself as being too "available", which will pretty much shoot your chances of dating her down. For some reason I couldn't possibly understand, chicks respond best when you act like you barely got any time for them.

Don't be so eager to return IMs or calls. When they call/IM you, don't act eager to see them. And don't linger too long if the girl blows you off that- pack up and vamoose for better, greener pastures.

Whoa, calm down there turbo. I was trying to be nice but I guess that's not gonna fly with you.

She doesn't want to talk to you, get over it.

or maybe she is really to busy