EVERYTHING:

Loyalty
Fidelity
Honesty
Caring
Affection
Help around the house (being fixing things or yard work...)

This list is endless...maybe that is why I am single???

You say you have been in a relationship with this man for 2 years, yet you have been on this site for a year.......So yes you betrayed him.. Sounds like you were never fully committed to him anyway. Let him go to find someone who wants him completely.

I dont see any issue with asking someone how many partners they have had. if we are going to consider being intimate with someone we should know.

There should never be secrets, or things "in the past". The past has ways of creeping into our future, and if a woman wants to know, she should be given an honest answer (same if a man wants to know)

IMO

spoons

its kind of like musical chairs...one less spoon than people playing at the table.


DAMN I WANT A DRINK NOW

Your right. But I dont really want just another vine, cause I have this one here. I want to learn to be happy alone.

I have every reason to be happy. I have great kid, a good education. I can be funny, b1tchy, I can keep busy with my education, my kid, my house, yard, friends....but, for some dumb reason, I am not at my personal best (inside) when I am alone. I feel like something is missing.

love it!

Thank you, I know your right, I suck at being alone. I mean I am pretty independent. I have my own house and car, and blah blah...It would be just nice to have someone to hang out with from time to time. Even kinda casual, no drama, but causal usually mean causal sex (which grosses me out!) And if its anything more they (men) seem to wanna keep their boots under my bed.

My social circle is so small (but as my friends put it "being with HIM is slowing progress"...

I just need to be patient and focus on some other important things I guess.

That breaking up is so hard?

I have been trying to end a relationship with a man who was to the say the very least a LOSER!

It has been an on again off again relationship for over a year. Basically if there was nothing much going I would hang out with him.

Lately things were getting serious on his part, but the more time I spent with him the more hopeless I realized this situation was.

Anyway, I finally got him to leave me alone for a while, but now I am bored AGAIN...URGH.

I should be happy that I have some peace again (which I am) but I am also kinda bored too. And I feel slighted, even though it was me who told him to hit the bricks!

OK, I know I am nuts, but any advise on how to just move on (with minimal pain)?

I am guilty of doing this. I hate talkin to family members. Probably because I dont have much great to say about my own life and am not really interested in what mundane stuff is going on in theirs, so I avoid the calls like the plauge.

However, I never complain about lack of phone contact after.

Based soley on your height and photos, you are completely dateable. However, I have no idea how you smell, or what you sound like, or if you spend way too much time playing video games or something like that...

But on the outside...all is more than good!

Its not hard to drive stick. I beleive the only true way is to go out and buy one and figure it out!

A true jersey chick will ALWAYS drive a stick!

Didn't know it was made into a movie, but would love to see it.

And OH YEAH, I am know there are men that are "just not that into me" but I usually figure that out quickly and then I jet. I am not one for wasting my time...THEN they usually change their minds...but by then I am already gone!

how much did it cost YOU?

We all wonder that

baby you look FINE

Stop all the BS about being a big guy....many women like a guy with a little meat...you dont seem morbidly obese!

your height is something I am sure the ladies love


You are an attractive light skined man..get some confidence and know you are hawt and then the women will flock!

having money is a plus, but certainly not what I am looking for,

I have my house and my car and food on my table. If you have nothing interesting to say, or I dont find you attractive, your money wont change that for me.


And I agree with previous posters...broke guys are more fun! As long as your able to support yourself (especially these days) you are straight with me.

The Professor without a doubt...!

Mirror, how do you come up with such topics? They certainly cannot all be from personal experience.

I usually wouldnt tell someone I fell out of love. I think it is something that happens mutually and it happens before either one realizes it, by that time no words are needed.

I PEEKED!

I felt it



was it good?