And here you go...my first exposure to

I got an email from someone who had been on my "mutual match" list for over a year and never contacted me. He sends me an email today asking me if I can't find a good white man.

and i need to pop back out. i have tons of stuff to do tonight. peace out!

s'up? yeah, i'm happily matched but popping in once in a while.

I'm not writing you a love note tonight. I'm watching to see what you will do.

I see matches going on...

Alright, that was my fly by hi. I have much to do. Hope everyone is doing great.

I have to say that my eyes were bugging out at that. Wow.

Yes, I miss you. And I'm going to write you a love note that you can read when you get home.

Black, shaved head, mustache, goatee. That's about the end of the similarity.

I still like you. I still think you're hot. I still want to be with you. And it's so much more than that too. That kiss this afternoon may have been one of the most intimate kisses I've ever experienced. That was connection. That's the connection I need reaffirmed regularly. I felt so with you. That is what I want. That is what I need.

Are you talking about this thread? I don't think there is anything crass in here except possibly the occasional fly by poster who wants to put something inappropriate up. This thread is generally about the emotional, not anything physical. Generally anyway.

So I'm backing off and letting you go so I can see what you can do. You did alright today. You're playing your fighting video game now. You have that downtime for now. I just hope you don't screw up anymore. Maybe if I stop telling you what I need you'll be able to figure it out. You're probably going to need to stay focused on that task though. It's a huge undertaking, but I think you can do it if you put your mind to it...my marine.

We have a room.

I want to go away with you. Somewhere. Anywhere. I want us to just be alone and enjoy each other. There are too many other people involved in our lives. There is too much chaos. I need peace with you. We never had a chance to just be together alone. It's always some responsibility or someone needing some kind of something from one of us. I need us just to connect...and I need that connection reaffirmed regularly. Now this may be impossible to achieve. Really. But I hope not because it is necessary. It is what I need. There just isn't enough time. There's not enough time for sleep, or us, or the kids, or the house, or to just chill. We need to figure it out and fix it. Yes, WE need to fix it. Together.

You should be leaving work any minute. I'm so thrilled that you're coming home early tonight! I can't wait to be with you tonight! And a short shift tomorrow! And all day Sunday! And during the day Monday! I'm so excited to spend time with you. I miss you so much. Hurry home!

I am fabulously ecstatic. But exhausted.

Heading out to get ready for tomorrow.

Alright, I gotta pop out and get stuff ready for tomorrow. It was nice to see everyone.

Cody, give me a call sometime. Same number.

That's true.

Hi Emily! How are ya?

Yeah, that's mine too. And . Yep, wow. Sexy and oh so...skilled.