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In general men still want to do the hunting and conquering. Quite often if you ignore these things, the relationship will go awry at some point. Been there myself, a male mate told me the same thing, and read it properly explained in a book on psychology & relationships. So based on all that, I will not chase after a bloke anymore, I want to be properly wooed. Of course I will give signals that I like him, but he's gotta make the first move. And yes, has an awful lot to do with masculine and feminine energy. I think my most obvious observation then is that sometimes subtlety is good but as someone said, things are a changing and guys are less and less inclined towards always making the first move because of the way some girls reject them! It seems that neither sex is doing the other any favours in this department? |
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I was in the supper market last wk and had a cart of food headed toward the ck out ... well this really nice cute guy was nxt to me as i am trying to figure which line had less in it so i saw one about the time he saw it also so we go a running along side each other playing like ... and he said i did not like that other ck out person as I let him go in front of me becouse he only had a couple of things in his hand ... and i said something like joking about the other ck out person right... he said no ... lol now i tried my hardest to look for a ring but could not see then i heard wife in the conversation he was having with this other ck out girl so I didn't act on my intention but might have ...if I didn't hear wife ... another store all guys in line I am there going wow am i going to be here a long time for 1 item so i am cking them all out to see if i like any of them lol and not really so i said hey do you guys mind if i just get this one thing they all said that was fine ... and again if i saw someone I thought would be interesting i would have waited ... far and few between i have with attractions to men ... but if i felt they where single i would say something ... I like this a lot...good honest sense and sensibility |
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Been single a long old time?
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Maybe this is just me but I realised lately that I had really started to feel happy and content with my life and situation....all of a sudden everything is different from a dating perspective.
It seems that if you like yourself and respect yourself a bit, then others do to....go too far and become arrogant and you are back to square one tho |
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How do you keep a man happy?
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Have only read a few of the first posts and the last page so forgive if this has been suggested already....Do you have a male friend to talk to about this...someone who knows you and your situations well enough to maybe advise in a way that you will find constructive?
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I should have also mentioned that I don't actually mean on here...cos on-line anyone can say anything and then run away if they don't like the response or lack of response....I actually mean when you are out and about...I guess I may just have to grow old disgracefully and pretend to be that peacock again?
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or do they and we just need it simple and right between the eyes?
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When you are younger you can get away with two things, maybe? make up another girlfriend and make her jell, or secondly ignore her lots and deprive her of contact ....either two will either mess it all up or force the situation to your ends...have a good think about whether it is worth the risk of loosing a friend though?
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What to do!?
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There is a question unanswered here and that is why you didn't get with this guy in the first place when he showed you some intention? I think that once you have peace with this answer you will move forwards because if you didn't see him as a potential mate...then moving on could and maybe should be a lot easier as you will no longer be bothered whether he/them are there anymore.
Suddenly dressing hot and acting hot and stuff is a bit transparent innit...a bit like a radical new haircut, speaks volumes to those that 'see' and 'read' people |
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Career and aspirations seem to be equally important to both sexes in my mind. However, there are also gold diggers of both sexes out there so someone said 'be careful out there'...who was that??
If you happen to have a great career and loads of disposable cash then .... well, you can't take it with you can you!! |
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Do you think that he knows this is where your head is at? That is if he hasn't already read your profile??
There is a lot of good and ambivalent advice on here already except to talk to him directly and let him know what is on your mind if you have not already of course! You have been together for some time before getting married, I should suppose there are some things that you did and maybe still do like about him? D is quite final? |
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For someone intelligent enough to use a term like atavistic, you certainly have a way of making someone feeling negative? Good point fella...true! |
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Need some advise
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Just had another thought buddy and this has only worked for me once btw...but only tried it once to!
Turn up at a busy bar or club and hang around a bit, maybe do a bit of scouting from the background and find a group of girls. Watch for a while and then approach and say to one of them that you are feeling a bit of a muppett because your date didn't show up and maybe they will ask you to join them as they are in a group and don't feel threatened. Once you have spoken to a couple/few of them you will soon find out which one of them fancies you as they will talk about it and agree upon it between themselves given a bit of time... |
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Need some advise
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Just a thought...Uniform dating??
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Train or be trained?
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I believe every man should be trained at least once in his lifetime!! Maybe it's a bit like a driving test and something that should be done often just to makes sure you haven't forgotten how?
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How do you turn someone on?
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Luckily for ladies a man's thingy is pretty easy to find. Some men may pretend not to be able to find a ladies thingy if she has a lot of headaches for example...kind of karma?
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How do you turn someone on?
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ditto...shirt is mandatory dude from what I have seen posted by ladies on other dating sites ...also no pics in front of fast cars that obviously aren't yours!
I am loving most of these ideas and for someone a bit out of practise I intend to make a start and turn theory into practise! |
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R u guys familiar with third eye or pineal glands? I have limited understanding but had the notion that the 'third' eye was your internal eye, connected to your internal body clock and senses...including intuition I believe you are implying?? |
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Train or be trained?
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Leight...
I believe you to be a wise philosopher in guise ? |
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Train or be trained?
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and love them often!!! That sounds like a great plan, just need to get myself down the supermarket tomorrow and start pushing and pulling....the trolley of course x |
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Train or be trained?
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This was a slightly more subtle twist on another thread about generation gaps and dating older or younger than you. Do we feel this is acceptable in todays age.
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