Tue 09/09/14 04:57 PM

i am a guy of 29yes , i find a new job just 2 months now, and a lady is working together is 21yers, i really like her and she too , i asked her to go out with me after work and we speak, i touch her and tell her i need her, she smile and say to me she knows it from my first time of working, she play with me but at the same time she said to me we can can't have sex cos we work together, i have been texting her to accpet me,, she always say no............. please what should i do to get her???

try leaving her alone, she has concerns about having a realtionship with co-workers. what happens if i dosen't work out? awkward if it gets to that. but, its ok to be nice to her and show lot of respect and gratitude for her acknowledging you exist.

from a brother

Ya don't poop where ya eat.
Either get another job or stop messing around with this girl.
Work relationships rarely end well.

thanks brother, but it hurts me , about 30mina away she wrote and say, Please i like you and i know you too like me, but working together is making me to close my mind, though i work 3 days a week with you.... see you on saturday at work----

what the **** is this----------------

When you are younger you can get away with two things, maybe? make up another girlfriend and make her jell, or secondly ignore her lots and deprive her of contact ....either two will either mess it all up or force the situation to your ends...have a good think about whether it is worth the risk of loosing a friend though?

since past 3 days we never meet and am going to start work with her on saturday afternoon. i don't feel myself good to see her, and i love my work ,, how can i keep on, ignore her or still be good co.workers too. but my problem is that she told me that she really like me but working together is hurting her,,

Jee I don't know, you sound so great I can't imagine what else she could possibly want! Some girls are funny about dating people when they know that the relationship ends badly, like with them in 5 trash bags. Maybe you should just focus on being a healthier you right now, ease up on the "it puts the lotion on the skin" routine.

yes you are right, she is the one that pushed me to her, coming to me always and smilling to me, even kissed me one time, now am out to her she come with reasons,,,, ****up

I'm glad we are on the same page... Just remember, if it's meant to be set her free and she'll find her way back if it's not meant to be set her free anyway. Don't give it the hose again. Have you done this before?

Have you tried getting her liquored up?

It looks to me like you just want to use this woman to fulfill your sexual desires.

Get a different Job. :/

Who are you Dodo? Her dad?

have you tried....*












*disclaimer; the posting of the above picture is for entertainment purposes only.(however much in poor taste it is.) i, in no way, condone or endorse the use of this product, (or any other, with the exception of perhaps, tequila.) as a means to illegally procure sexual favors. any actions the op takes as a result of this post are his responsibility.

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while the power of photographic suggestion may be immense, culpability begins and ends with one's own actions.

Someone mentioned chloroform and a rag.

That's to get her.

Wanna keep her? I'd suggest a bedpan, handcuffs and ball gag.

Please you people to advice me. Whether I can continue or forget her. But she say now no to me. Again she like me just working in same place is her problem. She don't want to loose work and me too. If I can continue on which level I have to use to get her .

Looks like she keeps saying "no" to you which I take as she wants her job more than you. My advice is to move on. Maybe not what you want to hear but you asked for our opinions

Your options:
1. Go work elsewhere.
2. Forget this girl.
3. Take plenty of cold showers.
4. Tell the girl, "I have abs." (Site inside joke)

Seriously, workplace dating is a set-up for disaster, and this girl knows it.

Dude, a No is a No. Be professional and move on. C'mon get a life.

Hammer, meet nail head. It's like that Beetles song "can't but my love" only "can't force my love" I'd listen to Larsonc, she's smart and a woman 2 things I always listen to.