Topic: Ladies when do you invite your date | |
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to join you for a cup of coffee at the conclusion of a nice evening?
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I don't like coffee.
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Wed 09/14/11 06:32 AM
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to join you for a cup of coffee at the conclusion of a nice evening? well it has to be a nice evening to start with - and that late in the day it would more apt to be tea or a beer/glass of wine - if he drinks AND it has to be a situation where their is mutual attraction I love coffee but not after 5 or 6 pm |
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I won't say never, but almost never on a first date. I don't want someone to know where I live initially until I have been out with them at least once and then they would have to know how to make it, cause I don't drink coffee.
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways.
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways. ![]() ![]() |
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways. ![]() I cannot be the only one getting all funny in the pantz about this ![]() |
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![]() ![]() ![]() uh huh uh huh I have actually been the fortunate witness to such....yay ![]() |
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage.
once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. |
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage. once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. do you think your criteria are different for online dating? I think I'd be less apt to let an online date know where I live -some haven't even known my last name (it was for a 1 drink or dinner date)....but if someone knows me IRL chances are they may know where I live anyway |
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage. once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. do you think your criteria are different for online dating? I think I'd be less apt to let an online date know where I live -some haven't even known my last name (it was for a 1 drink or dinner date)....but if someone knows me IRL chances are they may know where I live anyway No, not really. For me, as a single mom. Noone needs to know where I live just because we are 'dating'. IT has to be more than that. But thats just me. |
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yeah,, no home visits during the 'dating' stage. once we have decided its a commitment of some sort,,,,home visits are appropriate. do you think your criteria are different for online dating? I think I'd be less apt to let an online date know where I live -some haven't even known my last name (it was for a 1 drink or dinner date)....but if someone knows me IRL chances are they may know where I live anyway No, not really. For me, as a single mom. Noone needs to know where I live just because we are 'dating'. IT has to be more than that. But thats just me. right I don't introduce anyone to family either unless there is a reason to...as far as when someone comes over....that just depends on who it is - how it's going - how I feel & if I trust them - I don;t really know anyone around here so really haven't had to confront that issue |
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There isn't a set time frame for me to invite someone over. It will just depend on when I'm comfortable to do so.
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways. ![]() I cannot be the only one getting all funny in the pantz about this ![]() Nope. |
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Never. We just knock it out in the bar parking lot and go our separate ways. |
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![]() ![]() ![]() uh huh uh huh I have actually been the fortunate witness to such....yay ![]() You mean you witnessed Ruth in particular or just some random strangers? And when you say witness...was there videorecording involved? And how much/how many times have you "witnessed"? Inquiring minds want to know all these things! ![]() ![]() |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Wed 09/14/11 10:12 AM
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I don't like coffee. The coffee is metaphorical. Choose any other drink. Or something else altogether. Do you invite them over for conversation? To watch a movie? Something else? Something visual or tactile or oral? ![]() What are your expectations? ![]() |
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![]() ![]() ![]() uh huh uh huh I have actually been the fortunate witness to such....yay ![]() You mean you witnessed Ruth in particular or just some random strangers? And when you say witness...was there videorecording involved? And how much/how many times have you "witnessed"? Inquiring minds want to know all these things! ![]() ![]() no no, apologies I should have been more clear - not Ruth (as I doubt she ever did anything like that anyway) No I am just referring to accidental sightings late in the evening on my way to my own car - back in the day - I have not idea who the people were and really did not pay much attention...just got in my car & went home |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Wed 09/14/11 10:14 AM
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I won't say never, but almost never on a first date. I don't want someone to know where I live initially until I have been out with them at least once and then they would have to know how to make it, cause I don't drink coffee. ![]() Well this seems very reasonable. And I love the new main pic by the way! ![]() Well how do you go about inviting them up? ![]() |
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