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Sun 04/01/12 07:01 AM
You have to set your boundaries, and stick with them, no matter what they are. YOU know what you're looking for. But, don't sweat the small stuff.

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Sun 04/01/12 06:42 AM
Or they could be waiting to see who contacts them and then try to mimmick that person's interests etc. to make them look compatible. Just a thought.

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Sun 04/01/12 06:04 AM
SINGLE! Heartbreak is hell, and because of that, I think I've become very picky. Don't get me wrong, I'm not picky in what his financial status is or his appearance, although appearance is what attracts two people, but I'm picky in his sincerity, his genuineness, his integrity, our compatabilities, etc. I want to get it right this time.

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Sun 04/01/12 06:02 AM
Edited by TammyA on Sun 04/01/12 06:03 AM

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Fri 03/30/12 10:09 AM

I agree.....nothing to talk about.
Physical attraction is sometimes sparked by intellegent conversation and or witty repartee'



Totally agree

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Thu 03/29/12 05:25 PM
I am happy with my life, have a great family and wonderful friends, but there is still something missing.

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Thu 03/29/12 05:22 PM
Passion. You can be dedicated to someone, but not be happy. I know a few people in that exact situation, just existing together because not wanting to hurt the other person.

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Thu 03/29/12 07:06 AM
Cheating: anything you can't tell your significant other about. Once cheating occurs the trust is broken and difficult to rebuild. I'd have to say, be gone.

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Wed 03/28/12 06:03 PM
A quiet man with MUCH MUCH talent. He could play the crap out of a number of musical instruments.

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Sun 03/25/12 02:32 PM
My ex-husband was a people pleaser. He would always say what he thought people wanted to hear,(even when it made no sense to lie) he made promises he wouldn't fulfill, etc. I'd rather be hurt with the truth than comforted with a lie. Of course, there are tactful ways to be honest.

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Sun 03/25/12 07:06 AM
Don't sweat the small stuff!

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Sun 03/25/12 06:51 AM
EVERYONE needs to be honest about who they are and what they are looking for. Stop trying to over-impress, be yourself. If someone isn't attracted to you for being yourself, then they aren't worth your time.

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Sat 03/24/12 05:31 PM
Actually I don't mind all the questions up front. Put it all out on the table as soon as possible. Then you don't waste alot of time trying to figure out if you are compatible. Problem is, alot of people are deceiving about who they really are, and when their true colors are revealed, you've invested alot of time and emotion into it.

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Sat 03/24/12 01:16 PM
Shutter Island
The Bourne Series
Twisted
The Proposal
It's Complicated


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Thu 03/22/12 05:36 PM

If you can't tell your significant other then something's not right.


You hit the nail on the head!

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Sun 03/18/12 07:02 PM

I say "Noooooooo!!!!"smokin


Well.....that's encouraging. Some of the dates I see of when people joined this site is amazing. Some are 4 and 5 years. hmmmmmm!

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Sun 03/18/12 02:47 PM

Tammy, Your profile is full of "normal" stuff. But seeing as how you are what you are, I guess that is okay!


How I am????? And just how is that?

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Sun 03/18/12 12:12 PM






Lex ought to have added that 99.9 percent of readers will ignore the entire profile text and respond on the strength of your pictures alone. Lex gets 2,000 responses a day on the average, and it irks him to no end, because he is a writer, and to a writer it's an insult to like him for his looks only. ((I sort of overexplained this, but it was for Lex's sake. And because I enjoy the feel of typing on a keyboard.))


Right, plus if I was actually as good-looking as some people seem to indicate, I would have had a girlfriend by now.

shades

Why do you assume that?

"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful, hate me because I make up words like 'domesticatrix' and try to shoehorn them into popular media."



The domestic media don't like make-up people who toot their own shoe-horns.

Be more gentlemanly, less horny, and the girls will chase you by the truckloads.


Ah, you can't GET any more gentlemanly or less horny than me.

And chasing has never been the problem. The problem is I can't seem to get chased by anybody whose entire life isn't built on babies & booze. Assuming it's even possible for such a person to exist. Which it's not.




Excuse Me??????? I don't like being stereotyped. Maybe your attitude towards women is why no one chases you.


You must be new here....

shades

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Sun 03/18/12 12:11 PM




Lex ought to have added that 99.9 percent of readers will ignore the entire profile text and respond on the strength of your pictures alone. Lex gets 2,000 responses a day on the average, and it irks him to no end, because he is a writer, and to a writer it's an insult to like him for his looks only. ((I sort of overexplained this, but it was for Lex's sake. And because I enjoy the feel of typing on a keyboard.))


Right, plus if I was actually as good-looking as some people seem to indicate, I would have had a girlfriend by now.

shades

"Don't hate me because I'm beautiful, hate me because I make up words like 'domesticatrix' and try to shoehorn them into popular media."



The domestic media don't like make-up people who toot their own shoe-horns.

Be more gentlemanly, less horny, and the girls will chase you by the truckloads.


Ah, you can't GET any more gentlemanly or less horny than me.

And chasing has never been the problem. The problem is I can't seem to get chased by anybody whose entire life isn't built on babies & booze. Assuming it's even possible for such a person to exist. Which it's not.




Excuse Me??????? I don't like being stereotyped. Maybe your attitude towards women is why no one chases you.

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Sun 03/18/12 10:28 AM

i see women that i know that could love by looks alone, basically the same way you would want a beautiful painting or anything else that attracts you by beauty. but to say love at first sight i think would be wrong.


Perfectly said!!!!

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