its difficult 2 find a guy 2 love n b der 4 u anytime.Someone who would make u feel special n ur bestfriend.why all u get are jerks dat only want sex

Check yourself.

Why blame guys and deem us all "jerks"?
When in reality..

..it's what you are attracted to, is it not?

Widen your parameters.

If all you find are "jerks", you should know what to avoid and keep an eye out for.

Eh?

I agree I sometimes think there isn't a good guy out there. They all are the same and when u think u found the right guy u realize he is just like every other guy

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the right guy is the one that makes you happy and puts a smile on your face everytime you see him. sex is a bonus, or that's what I see it as anyways :P can't have a good man and not treat him well either.

Welcome to the site. Good luck with what you seek.

Oh please. Women can be just as bad. You're as bad as the person you sleep with. Nuff said.

are we looking for a real guy or a good guy?,, cause they arent necessarily the same thing,,,,

yeh...sometimes it's what we are attracted to. and in times like these, i always advice us ladies to watch what we wear. our dressing and the kind of people we hangout with can send the wrong signals..

i wish i know the difference...

Idk what you define as real, but, it's the same type of question people have been asking since about ten year ago. Those same people are still asking it. Nothing ever changes. How can you expect respect, if you can't respect yourself first? Be aware of your actions, not just your words. If you choose to wear sexy clothing on a night out, then what is a guy SUPPOSED to think? Of course you're giving him signs that you want sex, but if you don't, then stop giving out mixed signals. I give up. I could really strangle people sometimes. lol. Don't come crying to me. Heard it all before.

women can be as bad as men, but when it comes to taking adventage, men are "good"

I belive everyone is afraid of being hurt these days it seems everyone is hurting everyone else I belive they do it cuz they just havent been tought better time for everyone to grow up open up and take A chanse

lol. Yep. I blame the media for portraying women the way it does :)

why is it hard to find a real girl? . . . .

this discussion wont take us anywhere. . . If a girl tags each 1 of us as a jerk . We too have the right to refer them as *******. . No offence . . . M in fact a jerk but its nt right to judge othrs 4rm past relations. .

most of the girls whom i dated were hypocrts. .. . They always used to have substitutes and had multiple relations. So whts yr opinion in that! No offence. . .

EVERYONE needs to be honest about who they are and what they are looking for. Stop trying to over-impress, be yourself. If someone isn't attracted to you for being yourself, then they aren't worth your time.

Well welcome first :) but i think if you put a picture out here and write how you feel on your profile it would help :) your profile theres nothing hardly there and all guys are not the same look at me i not out for sex i out to meet new friends and if i happen to meet a special lady in the meantime on here then fantastic but not everyone is the same :) people have different hearts and yes there are some guys looking just for sex but then theres some girls too:) let them meet each other but if i were u i would fix your profile as a friend just telling and read the different guys profiles and contact who you think is decent hugsssss have a great day cheers