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Sat 09/20/08 07:46 PM

Snuggles 1963 makes a good point. You gotta at least have hope that something positive is coming down the line somewhere in your future, even if you screwed up.
Thats true.

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Sat 09/20/08 07:38 PM


If someone had true love in their lives at one point (Like a soul mate) and they somehow messed that up ,do you think they would get another chance at love ever again?

Man I hope so! If I believed otherwise, it really wouldn't be worth it to put yourself out there, vulnerable to the world!
Ya true.

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Sat 09/20/08 07:23 PM

at the bottom of my page. What is this now?
....I dont get it.

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Sat 09/20/08 07:22 PM

i have a soul mate so i know how you feel,every night i blow her up and the fun begins,she knows without me she would just lay there all limp as if the air had gone out of her very existence..she often tells me that being in her life is like a BREATHE OF FRESH AIR....:laughing:
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Sat 09/20/08 07:02 PM

I think some would and some wouldn't. It seems to me that reality, if there IS such a thing, is just random chaos.
Hmmm Maybe

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Sat 09/20/08 06:58 PM

Yep and don't blow it again...you might not get a third chance.
Ya I know...

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Sat 09/20/08 06:57 PM

Learn from your mistakes....and accentuate your positives. Be honest, listen, and be true to the person you are with as well as yourself.
Thank you for that :smile: :smile: :smile:

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Sat 09/20/08 06:54 PM

of course! hang in there and time will heal. i've had 3 soulmates laugh
laugh Wow how'd that happen?

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Sat 09/20/08 06:54 PM

Just makes sure when you find it that you do her right! All you have to do is love her honestly...
Ya I know

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Sat 09/20/08 06:53 PM

You just have to keep trying.
Lol easier said than done sometimes, but I suppose so.

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Sat 09/20/08 06:52 PM

Yes, I think you always get a second chance...
Hmmmm I hope your right

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Sat 09/20/08 06:50 PM
If someone had true love in their lives at one point (Like a soul mate) and they somehow messed that up ,do you think they would get another chance at love ever again?

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Sat 09/20/08 06:41 PM

Thanks for clarifying. flowerforyou
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Sat 09/20/08 06:40 PM

Why are you posting lyrics to an Eagles song? I don't get it.
Boredom lol, and its what I'm listening to right now ,its always been one of my favorite songs since I was little for some reason.

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Sat 09/20/08 06:32 PM
Desperado, why dont you come to your senses?
You been out ridin fences for so long now
Oh, youre a hard one
I know that you got your reasons
These things that are pleasin you
Can hurt you somehow

Dont you draw the queen of diamonds, boy
She'll beat you if shes able
You know the queen of heats is always your best bet

Now it seems to me, some fine things
Have been laid upon your table
But you only want the ones that you cant get

Desperado, oh, you aint getting no younger
Your pain and your hunger, they're drivin you home
And freedom, oh freedom well, thats just some people talkin
Your prison is walking through this world all alone

Dont your feet get cold in the winter time?
The sky wont snow and the sun wont shine
Its hard to tell the night time from the day
You're loosin all your highs and lows
Aint it funny how the feeling goes away?

Desperado, why don't you come to your senses?
Come down from your fences, open the gate
It may be rainin, but theres a rainbow above you
You better let somebody love you, before its too late

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Sat 09/20/08 04:13 PM

Love is when you look into the eyes before you and everything you ever wanted is there for you to see.
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Sat 09/20/08 04:03 PM





Bah! WTF is this?

50/50 love and hate, not putting in the effort... blah blah blah!

It's quite simple....

Remove the sepia out dated MOVIE of what you think love is, it got bad ratings, and was a flop!

And try looking at how others love...

the mother for her child...
the doctor for her patient...
the baker with his bread...
the gardener with his plants...
the farmer with his dog....


That's LOVE... unselfish, freely given, with absolutely NO EXPECTATION of it being reciprocated...

Love is GIVING.

and until you earn it, learn it and be it, you won't have a f*ckin clue what I am on about.grumble
I havent found anyone that is willing to give yet, someone who is willing to give as much as they receive is something thats rare in this world, not for a Mother and Child or something like that but between 2 people ,as In Husband and Wife, I know how to love someone ,but never got it in return though.


Matt... your very simple statement said it all... you are looking for a person who will give to you... which means you are TAKING...

no expectations... means just that...

Love isn't a commodity... there is no marketing strategy that one can use, there is no public shares one can purchase..

Mostimes in life we bungle around completely oblivious to whom may love us... for simply being us... that is LOVE... a given, without a demand for receipt.


Love is a give take situation, but I see what your saying though, I would gladly give my love to someone for nothing in return ,what I meant by that statement was, I would love someone ,I just want the same love and support in return. Otherwise, why be in a relationship to start with? I dont want anything Extrordinary out of anyone, just to know they care too, whcih I have never found.


You asked what the definition of love was to "you".......

Love does not require an active "relationship"
What you are looking for is romance, lust, desire, passion, etc. The list goes on........but those things do not make up "love".

If it can be explained by any other definition it is not love, imo.

I've posted this in a poetry thread, but it fits ur topic, and is the expression of what I think "love" is.

It is something that you can have for a perfect stranger AND the one you share your bed with. It is not what makes you want to have sex with someone....... It is not what makes you want to spend the rest of your life with someone...... You can indeed love someone and never desire to talk to them again........anyhoo:

True Love
Written by: Plainome

So close…
Yet so far…
Elusive to my touch.
I want to reach out and take it
To pull it to my chest…
And never let go.
Why can’t I grasp it?
Why can’t I take hold?
So fragile…
Yet so strong.
It drives grown men to their knees.
Most would give anything
To feel it just once…
To have a glimpse.
Why can’t I grasp it?
Why can’t I take hold?
What must I do?
Where must I go?
Who must I meet
To make this dream a reality?
Finally, it become clear…
I can do nothing….
There is no where I can go…
There is no one person I can meet.
For it must start in me.
True Love is something
That in order to experience…
Must be shared.
One can not own it,
It goes where it will.
No one can grasp it,
And lay claim.
True love must be a gift…
Given without care…
Of whether it will come back…
Of if it will return.
Why can’t I grasp it?
Why can’t I take hold?
Why can’t I pull it into my chest
And never let go?

(Because if I did, it wouldn’t be love.)



Very nice, I agree with all of that =)

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Sat 09/20/08 03:50 PM


Except for us, the theme song could be "When I think about you, I touch myself"... and we really just make up a vision!!!
lilith when i think about ME, i touch myself:smile: drinker
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Sat 09/20/08 03:48 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KajrDhSwCnk


=)

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Sat 09/20/08 03:46 PM

you really want to know what love is,well its..gonna hold my baby , gonna hold her tight gonna get me some afternoon delight...Ron Burgandy
Lol my mom used to play that song when I was A little kid, It still gets stuck in my head to this day.

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