With great sadness I share that my Dad, Iverge Vernon Allen, Lived his life on his own terms passing quietly in his sleep at home in his own bed Tuesday, May 15th, 2012 at the age of 85.

Special Thank You to my online "family" that has offered me compassion and companionship over the many months that Dad took his hospice journey. I appreciate the kindnesses and knowledge that everyone has shown with useful ideas, careing, and empathy in forums, private mail and personal calls and letters. ...Joy

10 for humour....ok I am outta here before they burst.

Sort of a semi-non-serious thread.

I give myself a 5 in looks for being just an average looking man (I hope).

I give myself an 8 in personality because I believe there is always room for improvement.

So overall I'm about 6, average man.

If I had hair I'd be a 10!

Anybody else care to put what they think of themselves????

New here, and thought I would say hello...

Not at all. It was a man I met on here, years ago. He alleged he was in recovery, sober and very sure of himself. We had a brief romance. He died shortly after I found out he lied about most everything he told me. His death was alcohol related.

What sickens me was the I had Lex's phone number and I had texted with him over the years.

(i used to post in here often)

I was told about this situation by a couple of people, and this now makes the second person on this site who was not who they alleged to be. I read the news story as well. It really shows you the depth that people will go to in order to gain acceptance and try to deny who they truly are.

You don't have access to the information?! I can get on a site that tells us where they live. All I need to do is to type in my zip code. It's the sensible thing to do before you buy a house. You wouldn't want to raise your children next door to one of them.

It's not 100% because they can move and not tell their parole officers though.

im a bit down on myself who thinks i look ok?

looking for pregnant women to date

I would like to ask those of you who wish to pray, well wish, whatever that I get a job soon.

Thank you!

I think its not the AGE , its the maturity, which most often does correlate to AGE


some 23 year olds, for instance, may have obtained their degree and helped raise their siblings their whole lives and support themself completely financially


other 23 year olds may still live with mom, depend on her for their laundry and meals, not know how to properly fill an application, or how to be professional on a job,,,,,


the former type of 23 year old might be a match to a 33 year old single parent, because of matching maturity

the latter 23 year old would probably not be a good match unless the 33 year old single parent was similarly 'immature'



I think most 23 year olds are more like the first example though,,,personally

heck, these days, most thirty year olds are more like the first example,,,,