Kind of confused by the profile as it states you are looking for friendship but you go into detail about meeting a woman for the first time.

If you are looking just to make friends, remove the last sentence. If you are looking to date, add a paragraph about what type of woman you are looking for.

Remove the pic of you smoking.

My two cents.

Now THAT'S funny!

Go with your gut instinct. Have you detected anything in his voice during your previous conversations to make you think he is no longer interested?

Maybe give him one more chance and if his dog, cat, hamster or uncle end up dying before the date, you'll know what to do.



I agree.

I wouldn't date you but I would be friends with you...depending on hardcore of a Baptist you are.

Ditto. That or she says her ex is her "best friend". That's when I ask for the check.

I agree with monkey that "sexy" shouldn't be in your profile name. I would also change your settings from "looking for man for marriage" to either "dating" or "relationship".

Remove sentence about looking for your future husband, no booty calls please.

Remove "as I have no desire to quit at this time".

Use pic #2 as main profile pic for reason posted from others.

My two cents.

Good set of photos. Use pic #2 for your main profile as it has you smiling.

You have some grammatical, spelling and punctuation errors to correct. Look particular at your use of the comma, lack of the word "and", run on sentences and spelling. If you need help, let me know or ask mchstiger06.

Remove "Oregon boy's know how to treat women with respect and kindness."

Remove "I'm not perfect".

Good profile overall.

I agree with the women that you need to start posting on the forums and start using the search function up top. You live in a heavily populated area so there should be quite of few profiles to browse through.

If you find someone that interests you, send her an brief email and end it with a question. Example: "Hi, I had a chance to view your profile and found it interesting. You mentioned that you collect sea shells from around the world. How many beaches have you visited so far?" That's a cheesy example but you get the point. It's an ice breaker and allows her to discuss something she is passionate about.

If you've been on this site before, then rejection is nothing new to you. You'll get those who look at your profile but don't email, those who email you only once and those who chat with you awhile and then stop. No biggie.

Good luck with your search.

Agreed. I don't even see the point of bringing up being bisexual. This is strictly my opinion, but telling a man you are bisexual is either a) for shock value, b) because you think it sounds cool or c)so he knows you dig chicks and it may make him want you even more.

Perhaps you are telling them for another reason, I don't know. How they "find out" is another mystery but to me it implies that you aren't sure of what you really want so you are keeping your options open.

When she stops leaving money on the night stand after sex.

Not making time for you, making excuses for not making time for you and when she does make time for you she doesn't give you enough of that time. -nods head-

Just giving you a hard time, mchstiger06.

I agree that it depends on the person. Some never get over it and never move on, even if they start a new relationship. Worst thing you can do is get involved with a new person and not heal from the past relationship.

On a personal note, it took two years to heal from a nine year relationship. For me, my heart did mend and has made me more confident in myself and what I'm looking for. Now that I look back on it, I'm glad she ended it but just not the way she did it.

Actually, that is one of the definitions of insanity. People do it all the time in their lives.

Based on this, you are in an endless cycle. It's up to you to either break that cycle or continue doing the same old thing.

Ask yourself if you want her back because you don't think anyone in the whole wide world could be better for you than her or because you simply need companionship.

Is there a magic pill to get your ex back?

Yep. It's called cyanide. You can get her back (at least her body) that way guaranteed.

Since we don't know the whole story about your situation, it is hard to give you advice on what to do. What caused the break up? Has this happened before? Etc.

Based on what you have told us, I agree with the others on leaving her alone. Let her play her games and just go on with your life.

You mean we ain't allowed to use a lot no more?

You mean a lot of allots? You're gonna have to consult mchstiger06 on that one.

Combination of the two. You need some physical attraction to get your foot in the door but intellect, demeanor, manners, outlook on life, etc. gets you an invitation inside.

Of course, there are extremes. Some women(or men) are overly intellectual and aren't much fun, in my experience. The other end of the spectrum applies as well.

Webster's has seven definitions of A LOT and one of them is "a considerable quantity or extent". Your definition is correct as well but the correct use is A LOT.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/a%20lot

MirrorMirror, what the hell did you do to my beloved Kermit!?!

So the Rico Suave profiles don't work??? How shocking!

Add more pics. Use one of you smiling as your main profile pic.

Summarize the six paragraphs you have written into one. Two paragraphs at most. Add what your interest are, things you enjoy doing, etc. Wait to give your life story until the first date.

Add a paragraph about what you are looking for in a woman.

In the first paragraph, the context in which are you using the word "were" should be "where".

Come up with a different title. "Genuinely Nice Guy" is too generic.

Create a more upbeat sounding profile. The way it reads now sounds like Gloomsville.

My two cents.