If you are speaking about what you are looking for in a partner, then I would have to say men are picker than women.

If you are talking about issues with how they feel about their own bodies then it is women, hands down. You can thank advertising and magazines for that one. Why people even buy that crap is beyond me. Size 2 is not the "norm".

I remember around 1997 or 1998 right after Titanic came out and there was some magazine that had a photo of Kate Winslet and Drew Barrymore and the caption read, "Is big in?" I just shook my head. THAT is considered big by Hollywood standards? Freakin' sad, man.

I personally like women that are curvy or what I call "healthy". I could easily date a woman who was 200 pounds if she wore it well, had a cute face and had a kick ass personality. Personality, sense of humor, values, etc. weigh more with me than a "hot" body.

Obviously I am not speak of "every" man or woman. You asked in general and that's what I responded too.

I love redheads! I'm more strawberry blond now but had much darker red hair in my younger days. Dated a redhead in high school. Holy cow, any more passion and we could have spontaneously combusted.

It's true that we do have fiery tempers. I've found redheads to be more "down to earth" and very passionate people as well. Of course, that could just be the type of individuals I gravitate towards.

And yes, mnhiker, true redheads have curtains that match the carpet.

Ditto that. If you get a chance, check her out on youtube singing "Mother" by Pink Floyd. It is a live performance with Roger Waters and some other guys and I believe it was filmed during the falling of the Berlin wall. Also, Fire on Babylon (live version) is also incredible. Oh, Sinead, where for art thou?

Back to the discussion, it really all depends on the person. I like the more natural look instead of three hours of hairspray, gel and curl irons. Same goes with make up, less is ALWAYS better. No make up is a real turn on.

If it were Sinead O'Connor, she could be wearing a mohawk and I could care less, I would date her in a heartbeat! Incredibly gorgeous, insanely talented and very intelligent.

I think some women can pull of the short or shaved look and still be very attractive but you need small facial features to pull it off. I saw a woman on youtube that had this look and she was very attractive.

I am, however, partial to long blond hair.