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tell you the truth im not that smart, thats the second thing i hate about my lie that's OK, this finding a girl to study, could help out in two areas 1.) She's helps you get better in class 2.) You ask her out |
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School, Works What about finding a girl to study with? |
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one part of my life that i like is...I am in love with sports what about sports? do you play? watch sports? i love to watch sports and i always use to analyze the game and nobody ever cant get that away from me Do you have any hobbies that take place off of the couch? |
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one part of my life that i like is...I am in love with sports what about sports? do you play? watch sports? |
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To love someone else you must first love yourself. So true... You've gotta start loving yourself |
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i am jealous of sooo many thing What do you like about your life? |
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There's some truth to this arguement, and by and large, you can occassionally score a 10 with this mentally, but it's not going to happen consistently. If you're a 5, you'll never bag 10's every night. Not even a 10 can do that. ... Forget the self-evaluations and build your self confidence to the point where you know who are, and don't care if someone's not into you... I disagree with the first part but thoroughly agree with the last part. I disagree with the first part because if a guy is a 5, he can still come off as a 10. And, yes, he CAN bag 10s every night if he wanted to. The methods are out there; most guys just don't know them. Respectfully disagree with you here, sir. I've used the "methods", but realize that in any bar scene; there are way too many 8's and 9's for a 5 to bag 10's consistently. However, maybe "bag" means getting a phone number to you. That might be possible with more consistency. I was refering to more than a number. Even the recon can't bag 10's every night, and he's a lady killer. |
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tune in to the who gives a crap channel! LMAO at some of you chicks putting yourself over...please! Good Grief Anything this guys says... Damn... listen to. This guy is the epitome of manhood. |
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Now for me, just my prefernce here... This is not a gorgeous man. At first glance, I thought he might be a woman... You're Just a Hater. Sorry man, must be my monitor... |
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i would like to know why? whats so bad about me? There's nothing bad about you man. you rock! That shirt and that bathroom photo are the BOMB! What are your hobbies? How do you define yourself? Any girl is going to ask you what you like to do. So what will you say? |
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If a girl doesn't like me because I don't look like some male model....screw em I'll find somebody who matters.  jvc rocks! |
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The best thing to do, is take it this way... That girl must not think I'm her type. (maybe she likes white guys, or black guys, or indian guys). She must like another type, just not mine. Once you accept this, move on to the next one. NO NO NO NO NO! That is the same exact mindset that says you are "getting lucky" if you connect with a woman! PREFERANCE has NOTHING to do with ATTRACTION. With the right mindset and skillset (mindset being the main determining factor), a man can create attraction within ANY heterosexual/bisexual woman, and even in some women who claim to be lesbians. It's not about being lucky enough to have been born with whatever characteristics she considers her "type." It's about conveying yourself attractively though your body language, what you say, what you subcommunicate, the energy you radiate, etc. There's some truth to this arguement, and by and large, you can occassionally score a 10 with this mentally, but it's not going to happen consistently. If you're a 5, you'll never bag 10's every night. Not even a 10 can do that. The point is that your hapiness should not be based on someone's evaluation of your looks. You don't know what they're thinking at any given point in time, so who knows why they are not showing interest in you. There could be 1000 reasons why someone is not attracted to you. None of it matters. The same goes for why someone IS attracted to you. You might think there is no way that a certain person is attracted to you, and it turns out they are. Forget the self-evaluations and build your self confidence to the point where you know who are, and don't care if someone's not into you... |
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whats the first move tell me please cause i know for one thing i am not a attractive to no girls As was said previously, self confidence is your friend. You've gotta believe in yourself, or girls will run.... Try a complement that sounds natural. (don't force it... like "nice shoes") Maybe you notice her watch and you have one like that, so you comment about it... Or maybe you notice her tattoo, and say "did that hurt?" Try something that sounds natural, like something you would say to a friend in conversation. |
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I'm not going to lie... I am a Gorgeous Man. Seriously, I am. but what was the question again? Now for me, just my prefernce here... This is not a gorgeous man. At first glance, I thought he might be a woman... |
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Edited by
italian_half
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Sun 12/09/07 09:31 PM
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to be honest i have never ask a girl out sinc 05 You've gotta get out of that bathroom more... |
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Edited by
italian_half
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Sun 12/09/07 09:27 PM
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We all have certain people we are attracted to physically.
Maybe most men, in general, are attracted to Jennifer Aniston, or most women, in general, are attracted to Brad Pitt. However, just because we are attracted to them, doesn't mean they are attracted to us. The same is true of the (non-celebrity) women you are attracted to. You might be attracted to them, but they might not be attracted to you. The best thing to do, is take it this way... That girl must not think I'm her type. (maybe she likes white guys, or black guys, or indian guys). She must like another type, just not mine. Once you accept this, move on to the next one. |
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Yes. You get it! The Alpha analogy works very well. Part of my arguement is that men are pre-disposed, in nature, to providing for women. And, a part of providing is being the Alpha male (in nature). A woman that wants to be the Alpha male at home is UNattractive. However, I totally respect the Alpha male woman at the office. Thank you! Maam, you rock! OK!!! Well then, now that I understand, I have to say I agree mostly. I do not want to be the alpha, although, I do not want to be discluded in the decision making either. I think things need to be joint. Absolutely! |
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UPDATE:
We almost have more views on this post, IN ONE DAY, than "What music are you listening to now?" - which has been up for months... I thought this might be a hot topic, but I didn't know how hot. Thank you all for agreeing, disagreeing, providing input, jokes, comments, and abusive. You guys all rock! Signing off from Hawaii... |
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There's nothing wrong with a woman working hard, and it certainly makes you a strong person for doing so. No one would deny you the respect you deserve for working hard. thank you! The point of the arguement is that if you had a job where you were in competetion with men all day, company politics, the stock exchange, anything... a man is not going to find it attractive if you come home and compete with him. (i.e. tell him how much better your job is than his, compare your work to his, talk about how much more money you are making than him) Men don't find that attractive. How else are we to move up in the world, get promotions, and better ourselves? The point I was making here was that men know that everyone is in competetion in the work place. We just don't want to be in cometetion with the person we are in a relationship with. Sometime careerminded women, bring the office competition home with them. Men, also, in general, don't find a girl that is into sports more than most men, attractive. There's nothing wrong with watching the occasional big games together. However, sometimes women get into sports, to obtain entry into the world of men, and really know too much about sports to be feminine. It's unattractive, in excess. I love football, am still learning the game, but i love to get into the games! I think it makes me funner to be around! I think many women feel this way, getting closer to guys things makes them more attractive, but it just depends on how close you get. Please don't learn all the NFL plays. :) I think I finally am getting what you are saying...you want to completely be the alpha in the relationship. You don't want your woman ruling you, or attempting to, am I correct in this statement? and no man has to worry about me learning all the plays, i'm having a hard enough time figuring out a freakin saftey, i just dont get it lol! Yes. You get it! The Alpha analogy works very well. Part of my arguement is that men are pre-disposed, in nature, to providing for women. And, a part of providing is being the Alpha male (in nature). A woman that wants to be the Alpha male at home is UNattractive. However, I totally respect the Alpha male woman at the office. Thank you! Maam, you rock! |
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Unfortuntely, but not surprizing, you missed a key point of the arguement. The point is that men respect women who have careers and are successful. However, in a relationship, a man does not want a woman to come home and compete with him, in the relationship. If a woman wants to come home and compete with a man (i.e. tell him that she doesn't need him, or how well she's doing, or in general compete), it seems her only point in dating a man is to dominate him. Men do not find that attractive, quite the opposite I don't know anyone, male or female, that wants to do this. Your basis for this arguement is still that a man should rule the household and the woman should be subservient. That won't work for many. It certainly wouldn't work for me!  Sorry Kid. You missed the point. The point again for the 1000th time is that a woman should not try to compete with a man, in a relationship. Compete is defined as follows: try to "one up" the guy, talk about how she doesn't need a man, talk about how much more succesfull she is than the man is. Men find this unattractive. For all who only see what they want to see in this arguement, the above is it. Clearly defined. Within these parameters only. It's NOT about subserviance, domination, ruling the household, etc. It's simple, don't try to compete in a relationship. |
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