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Wed 01/15/20 10:32 AM
I'd say we're all roleplaying, every day.

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Mon 11/04/19 04:28 PM
I certainly agree that if you're not thinking there's another life after death then you'll put a full effort into this one we definitely have.

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Sun 11/03/19 02:23 PM
The beauty of it is though, that it only matters while one is alive.
Once you're dead you won't be around to care anymore.

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Fri 08/23/19 05:51 PM
Assuming you're using the website and not the app... On the search page there are boxes for age range, then you wanna look for the profiles with a green dot which signifies they're online now.

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Wed 08/21/19 11:57 AM
Start watching RSDTyler & rsdfreetour on youtube, he's 37 as well.
1 hour every day and start improving things.
Start with this one
https://youtu.be/qu-wFuDqZws

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Fri 08/02/19 06:39 PM
Definitely yeah, Life is misery and suffering at the baseline but we can work continuously to reduce that and make it all worthwhile for everyone. It's never about completing that task, it's a continual process and the process is the end is the beginning.

We are not designed beings with a purpose other than what we ascribe to ourselves through our thoughts, we are all parts of a self-aware universe and it is both painful and magical, enjoy the chance to experience a conscious awareness in the present moment on the cutting edge of time, don't let the magic fall into the mundanity of our current paradigm, the very experience is what brings meaning to what would otherwise be a ride without riders. or something lmao...

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Mon 07/22/19 04:54 PM
Edited by James on Mon 07/22/19 04:55 PM
I couldn't even guess and I am one..

I'm thinking many different thoughts all day and all night.

The only frequently recurring thoughts or thought-themes are ones relating to my subjective interests, and the ones involved with my daily routines and needs. I imagine those are thoughts had most of the time by all men, and all women too.

Thoughts about how to navigate the short term future of our current situation in life as human beings.

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Sat 07/20/19 12:08 PM
I'd spend about £2 - £3, maybe £5 if it's ridiculously good.

I just pick based on what I like which is very plain solid colour or patterned.
I'm not a fan of any words or meaning on my clothes.

Don't get me started on brands, If I'm wearing branded clothing, the company should be paying me to advertise for them.

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Wed 07/10/19 03:39 PM
Ayee it's pretty ridiculous, I've come across the same thing, nothing I can do but skip past.

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Tue 07/09/19 05:35 PM
Try using the desktop version of the site if you're not already.

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Tue 07/09/19 12:04 PM
Quality

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Tue 07/09/19 07:49 AM
Same thing just happened with me, apart from the nudge afterward..
I'm fairly sure she was not a scammer.

Is there no way to search by username?

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Mon 07/08/19 01:12 PM
Didn't realize it was this easy, gonna drop a few of my own in that case..


need mansion

need constant euphoria

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Mon 07/08/19 01:00 PM
Without getting too complicated.

Monogamy is but an idea, one that runs contrary to the reality of our nature as biological organismic human beings.

Although monogamy is a relatively recent idea, it's old enough that it encapsulates our entire lives as individuals and so we perceive it to be completely normal and even fundamental to human relationships, when in fact, it isn't.

None of us would be alive today if it wasn't for the incessant and apparently excessive need to procreate like crazy, as much as possible, with as many different people as possible, we have the success of our ancestors at doing this to thank for our own existence.

That being said, it's not necessarily a bad idea given the current social paradigm, just one that requires a conscious effort to abide by through suppression of our impulses, some will fail as our raw nature inevitably manifests.

Something to think about anyway...

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Sun 07/07/19 02:12 PM
I'm pretty sure it does, you've just got to be super diligent, assessing risks every step of the way and be prepared to lose any investments you make like time..

If you come across someone a little further afield than your local area I'd suggest finding out very early on if there is any actual realistic chance of you both meeting up before too long, before you make too much of an investment and develop any real feelings etc.. Ask yourself if you're willing to travel, if not ask them if they are.

Assuming the goal is to end up physically present with somebody, even if you don't start that way..

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Wed 07/03/19 02:09 PM
Reading people's attempts at initiating something on the forums!

10/10 for yours btw, rarely see one this high quality.

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Mon 07/01/19 04:17 AM

it is supposed to be said during personal meeting.


It's not supposed to be anything, this is real life, organic and dynamic.
I think you're having trouble because you won't accept a reality where your preconstructed ideas are not met, try adapting to a new paradigm and see how it goes.
Nobody's gonna respond with nothing on your profile.

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Fri 06/21/19 03:25 PM
The morning sun was rising
it's orange hue aglow
casting rays of birth and hope
in lieu of night times flow
I hopped and bounced from sill to sill
with innocence and glee
I sought to spread but happiness
and sang a song or three
Suddenly the light was gone
the stars were out again
but this time moving 'round my head
oh god, ouch, the pain


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Tue 06/18/19 02:00 PM
There's no deleting anything from the internet, once it's up it's up, that's not just here.

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Tue 06/11/19 08:15 AM
I'm not an older man but I imagine it's because we start with idealization and often end with denigration, we just want what we want. Part of dating is identifying what other people want and putting some effort in to align yourself with that.

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