Topic: Weird situation
mtt348 's photo
Mon 07/01/19 01:40 AM
I approached women with honestly being myself but no matter how many times I tried, they ignored me and have no decency to answer at all. It sucks big time.

delightfulillusion's photo
Mon 07/01/19 01:59 AM
Mmm. This has been addressed before elsewhere in the forums but here's my take on it.

I used to reply to messages when I joined but no longer do so for the simple reason there are a few guys that can't/won't take no for an answer. I really don't want to get into any further dialogue with them or take abuse (yes, I've had that happen) so for my well being, it's better I don't reply. No reply is a reply after all.

Also, your profile is empty. There's nothing written to give us a clue about the type of person you are so we don't know if you are worth replying to. We gotta have some commonality so if we don't know anything about you and you haven't made an effort with your profile, ladies won't make the effort either.

JulieABush's photo
Mon 07/01/19 02:00 AM
Sorry to say why that’s not workingsad2 , you seem like a nice guy:thumbsup: . I guess it depends when and where you’re approaching them. Just keep trying and who knows maybe you’ll get some woman’s attentionwinking .

no photo
Mon 07/01/19 02:02 AM
It's normal for that to happen on here, mtt348, I have written many letters and received no replies so it is nothing you have done wrong. They are just too ignorant or no decency to reply and say not interested!!

no photo
Mon 07/01/19 02:12 AM
or they don't no they are on this site linked through another one!!

mtt348 's photo
Mon 07/01/19 03:06 AM
how do I write complete profile. it is supposed to be said during personal meeting.

delightfulillusion's photo
Mon 07/01/19 03:51 AM

how do I write complete profile. it is supposed to be said during personal meeting.


Go to Account > Edit Profile > About. You can write about yourself there happy

James's photo
Mon 07/01/19 04:17 AM

it is supposed to be said during personal meeting.


It's not supposed to be anything, this is real life, organic and dynamic.
I think you're having trouble because you won't accept a reality where your preconstructed ideas are not met, try adapting to a new paradigm and see how it goes.
Nobody's gonna respond with nothing on your profile.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/01/19 01:32 PM

how do I write complete profile. it is supposed to be said during personal meeting.

Sure, but how do you think to get to a personal meeting if you don't have an inviting profile that says something about you.
That's like phoning a woman you like, but not saying anything at all because you want to do that in person. No woman would consider meeting a man in person who phones her up and says nothing. She'd consider him to be a creep.
It's the same on here. Like you have to speak on the phone, you need to 'say' something in your profile. Stuff that tells briefly who you are, what you're looking for.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/01/19 01:36 PM

....
I used to reply to messages when I joined but no longer do so for the simple reason there are a few guys that can't/won't take no for an answer. I really don't want to get into any further dialogue with them or take abuse....

That as well. Seemingly nice men who claim they're sensitive turn in to total a-holes when you politely tell them you're not interested.
It only hurt me to get a load of chit when I was only being nice and polite and taking the time to do the right thing, and it happens too often.
So as a woman you stop replying unless you take an interest in the man.

no photo
Mon 07/01/19 02:13 PM

I approached women with honestly being myself but no matter how many times I tried, they ignored me and have no decency to answer at all. It sucks big time.


You’ve been on this site for a whole FOUR days, Ya gotta be patient and give it a little bit of time! Fill out your profile and tell what your interests are what kind of person you would like to meet winking
Good luck and if you wanna get to know some of the REAL people, join in the conversations on some of the forums biggrin

mzrosie's photo
Mon 07/01/19 03:36 PM

Topic: Weird situation

I approached women with honestly being myself but no matter how many times I tried, they ignored me and have no decency to answer at all. It sucks big time.


Hi mtt348

I don't think that is weird at all. No answer means they are not interested.
Nice pictures but if you have no interests worth mentioning and nothing about yourself
and what you are looking for, then you have less chance of getting responses.

But I do agree. It sucks big time when you don't get any responses. You're not the
first member to complain about this. I used to not reply as well but now that I have lots
of time twiddling my thumbs, I reply even just to say "Hi back atcha!" and according
to you, I have decency YAY!

Welcome to Mingle2
happy waving


mtt348 's photo
Mon 07/01/19 05:21 PM
tired to expandia my profile. let me know if it is ok.

Bastet127's photo
Mon 07/01/19 06:15 PM
It’s not weird, it’s pretty normal for online dating. no answer is an answer. For me, a huge factor is distance, no long distance Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Clearly noted in my profile.

Rock's photo
Mon 07/01/19 09:23 PM
I get a response, to literally every email i send.
Which, isn't many.


:shrug:

mtaborsky's photo
Tue 07/02/19 05:36 AM
Hello. I do not know your name. So I want you to tell me to revaluate my profile to tell me if there is something which may attract future date. Thank you.