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Jill, I agree. This can happen without the online world as well. People just need to be more aware and protect themselves, on or off line. |
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is my daughter's 12th birthday. OMG I can't believe how fast she's growing.
 We had a really good day tho.
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This kind of awful sick crap also gives people on dating / social sites a bad rep.
Alot of people hear stories like this and the first thing they say is "oh well that's what happens when you meet someone on the internet" |
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there are so many new people on here....hard to choose  
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Edited by
Jill298
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Sat 02/20/10 12:15 AM
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight"    I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? all i saw when reading that was "They ended up riding me to another bar" "I tried to blow him off" and you wonder why he got the wrong idea?? 
A real man that would have gotten the "wrong idea" would have maybe harmlessly flirted a lil bit and let it go once he was told no. A real man wouldn't have said "I would do you because well why not?" |
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? hmmmmmm, you go to a bar with a friend, you meet up with 2 guys - all four of you are drinking.. you invite them to go with you to another bar, to continue drinking... (ignoring the fact that you are drinking and driving)... only, once you leave the bar you realize they are ******** and kick at least one of them to the curb... perhaps you need to review your decision making process... 1. drinking and driving 2. inviting complete (perhaps inebreated) strangers into your car 3. leading them on by suggesting you get in the car to go to another bar 1. bad decision - call a cab for yourself 2. bad decision - suggest they follow you next time (or take a cab if you/they have been drinking) 3. bad decision - why even go there The only good decision you made was to tell them to get out of the car... To me, you made a series of bad judgements that could have been very unsafe for you... Please tell me, why is this the guys fault??... Hmmmmm $.02 
These 2 guys were not complete stangers to me. I have seen them around previously, I know the bartender, the bartender knows these guys. I didn't know them WELL but I didn't think I was in any danger. |
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Well if we all think about it, were adults and going to a bar you have to expect the worst. I'm sorry, but going to a bar knowing things like this will happen being a woman, and then come on here and vent about it. Who's falt is it really? I say take responcibilit for your own actions. The second thing I'm thinking. All of them were getting drunk bar hopping. How do we know she wasn't leading him on. (It just her word) I seen to many women go to bars, play a guy, and then turn around and ***** about it. I'm not saying the OP did this, but we only know her story. Somthing to think about The reason I'm saying this is, because the last month or two. 95% of the OP post have been only venting?? Because I was nice to these 2 guys, and offered them a ride since doesn't make his actions to me OK. I'm all for taking responsibility for your own actions. Which I do. However, I fail to see how I deserved these actions against me. |
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I will tell you whats wrong. Your bar hopping and your hooking up with clowns at bars? Not trying to be rude here, but what did you expect. Girl goes to bar, girl meets boy at bar. Boy at bar is geting drunk and horny. Figures what does he have to lose knowing he has been turn down god only knows how many time, and he don't care anymore what happens, but once in a while gets lucky. So why not just come out and say **** me. |
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He was just disgusting. He really turned me off and all I could think of was how to get him out of my car and sight. FYI, that's not a good way for a guy to start out the night with a girl he likes
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Topic:
Your Best Friend
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it depends... on whether or not I gave my s/o a reason to give me the ultimatum or if he's just being a jealous possesive jerk.
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Oh ffs. And people wonder why I just don't bother much anymore. With all the idiots like that out there pissing women off....what chance does a dude like me have? lol Not so much. The guys like the one you ran into last night, usually tend to make women ( MOST women ) at the very least assume that a guy is going to wind up being a typical idiot, if not completely bitter about the sheer numbers of idiots. lol The idiots far outnumber decent dudes. |
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight" I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? Azzholes like him stay azz holes and THEY stand out in most rooms,,your first thoughts as to his lip remark should have MADE HIM CLEAR,,,as to he ain't out for nuttin but a piece and not at all about you....Please,,,be careful out there,,,,  
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Oh ffs. And people wonder why I just don't bother much anymore. With all the idiots like that out there pissing women off....what chance does a dude like me have? lol |
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Seriously! I went out tonight with one of my friends. We met up with these 2 guys and everything was going well. They ended up riding with me to another bar. They really started to annoy me at this point. Just saying stupid things. Then after we leave that bar the one guy is tryin to get me to kiss him cuz "I have big lips". I tried to blow him off and tell him I'm driving, can't kiss ya. Then he actually says to me that he's coming home with me cuz he wants to find out if I'm "tight"
I was hoping I heard him wrong so I asked "what did you say?" and he replies " I'm coming home with you, I'll do ya, I mean, why not?"
This is where I pulled the car over and told him to get out. I literally threw him to the curb. WTF is wrong with some people?? |
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Topic:
Spit it out
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One of my friend's is texting me telling me she has something she wants to tell me but I have to wait til I see her.  So annoying. Why do people do that? Don't tell me you have something you want to tell me and then make me wait
That reminds me....you won't believe what happened to me last night... I'll tell ya later. 
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Topic:
Spit it out
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It annoys me just as much as when someone smells or tastes something bad and says "omg that stinks!" and then they pass to me and say 'smell this"
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Topic:
Spit it out
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It builds up suspense.....  and my irritability
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Topic:
Spit it out
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One of my friend's is texting me telling me she has something she wants to tell me but I have to wait til I see her.
So annoying. Why do people do that? Don't tell me you have something you want to tell me and then make me wait
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Topic:
is it too much to ask?
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For a person that calls you beautiful instead of hot or sexy. Who calls you back when you hang up on them. Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the person who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world. Who holds your hand in front of thier friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much they love you and how lucky they are to have you. Wait for the one you never have to worry about cheating on you. Wait for the one who turns to their friends and says "theres my baby."? The quicker I delete those, the happier the world is.  thank god someone deletes them! I know I always do but I always get them sent to me Maybe I always get them because at one point I didn't forward them on and now I'm doomed to forever get fwd: texts
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Topic:
is it too much to ask?
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For a person that calls you beautiful instead of hot or sexy. Who calls you back when you hang up on them. Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the person who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world. Who holds your hand in front of thier friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much they love you and how lucky they are to have you. Wait for the one you never have to worry about cheating on you. Wait for the one who turns to their friends and says "theres my baby."? |
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