towle silly

i also agree dont cow to her honestly i did with a past girlfriend and it got way out of hand in the end. lets say birthday presents early to start and befor you know it your wardrobe has been thrown out and replaced with cloths you wouldnt normaly wear and you have to wear them. you go to get you hair cut and she chooses the cut not you and you get a shopping list for birthdays and vallentines daybut all you get back is a card for you.

now im not saying ditch this girl but i am saying scttggry81 is on to a good one with his advice.
i have a new girlfriend who is very similar i gave her 2 months of her way now we are havin me intervine, she hasnt noticed yet lol but i am slowly stoppin the her way or the highway rule. stick to your guns if you love her tell her but you cant let her walk all over you

i would say 9

i think you may need to give a little more about yourself but you have some nice clear photos which is a nice solid start and you have more than 1 interest listed that isnt just bland carbon coppy run of the mill interests. nice start now offer a little more info about who you are.

i say it when i meet them, and when ever i feel like it so have a tendency to say it 5-6 times in a evening if im honest

it was the meat thing that got me lol not the fater thing my house mate think its funny i eat stake on its own most the tyme lol.
as tho the stay at home fater thing its nice i will admit and yesit is still seen as houswork is "womens work" but i grew up in a hosehold where this was aceptable and so i picked up the slack because my father didnt help out so thats why my views are like how they are.

and i wasnt havin a go i was just pointing out some things sutch as not everything is how it seems thats all.


ricky

one i prefer chuck norris films as he is a man not a actor
secondly i can cook cus i was a chef in a 3 star resturant for 3 years so if i dont like cooking then im in trouble.
lastly i take it you have your stake well done as it requires less chewing for you, i on the other hand have not had a meal in 13 years that hasnt had meat in it and my stakes are always cooked blue so if your implying eating more meat makes you more man, im a alpha male.

by the sound of things you have had your mother look after you too much when you was growing up and now because you have dificulty washing and ironing you have to find a woman to make a slave/mother figure.
i have a 2 year old daughter and i love stoping in and having a daddy daughter days with her. does that mean im doing a womans task when doing that as well? If so where did you get you views from as obviously your father figure neglected to raise you or he was i hypocrit.

i hope i havent used confusing words for you ;P

i spend whatever i feel is apropriate ive spent £20 on one first date
£35 on another and £153 on another. why i just go with what i like the feel of at the time and depends on the woman at the time. ive just had drinks. a meal and one the most expesive day a large hamper of jelly beans just cus she loves them. ironicaly she has turned out to have stuck around and not for gifts but because she knows i pay attention to the things she says. i dont put a price tag on the night out or day out because if im not fealing it i call it quits if im having fun then hey why stop?

sex is very very important but not nesaserrly the most important thing but its great. i have tried my hardest to make relationships which are sex based work but they dont i find. this is why i like to know the person as well as possable befor i jump in the sack with them.

ah ha i am a man and i love to do the cooking and i love helping round the house cus it gets you more browny points later on.

in the end every woman i have been with has been different.
one liked to stay at home
one liked to do her own thing (nothing at all if im honest)
and the last one wants to work till we have kids then its all down to me even though i would hapilt look after the kids.

so what im saying to the OP is that you have hit on a strong steriotype thats no longer right at all.

will work for food

i can understand both side of this one fom your point of view which is mine also she spends all day everday talking to me on the phone and shes the one calling me.
but from there side its because im so irrisitable and they are all gonna fight over me if im single :P
sorry couldnt help it.
honestly i know where both side are coming from and if it wasnt for the fact im always on the phone to her i would think that myself but honestly as i said i have spent in total over the past 9 weeks over 200 hours on the phone to her so i i was the other guy im sure her fella would have noticed by now. i did when it was just 1 hour a day when my ex was at it

in general yes men do but there are ecseptions to the rule i for instance have a very small ego yet alot of women i am friends with have huge egos so it can go both ways just men shout about it more

her ex dont bother me if im honest with the things he has done i would relish the chance to show him how to treat (or how not to) a person who is samaller than you.
and she has been a emotional rock for me when i found out my ex has run off with my daughter and there is no way i will find her till shes like 10 or i can afford a private detective. so i owe her that much i think.

as to the dammaged ggods comment off another poster i am dammaged goods more so than her and thats part of the reason as to why i think she acted like she has a little. and as i said in my previouse post things have opened up somewhat with whats going on on her half. she just lacks the confiadence at the moment due to what he did to her and shes just apprehensive of me being like him. having said that im in the same boat from a similar thing from a ex of mine so i understand now whats gone on. i hope

thanks for the input guys. sorry i havent messaged sooner i have only just got out of hospital from somthing rather unplesant.

on another note
i did have a talk with her about this not long after posting this and i did get some answers though and i understand to some degree i think....

but long story short she has had her ex who is a non to plesant person sitting outside her house when he found out about me he had his restraining order renewed. so she is trying to pass me off as a friend of her moms lol. and her imune system is shot to hell after some medical treatment so she is not wanting to get ill. and she moved the whole is the someone else thing out the picture with a outburst off her mom that pointed out that there is noone else fortunatly. having said that her mom is now doing my weekly shopping for me now. why i dont know other than she was concerned about my diet.

once again guys thanks for the info and i did ask a lot of questins and finaly got answers Yay

know she aint married and there aint anyone else on the sceene unless he works on a oil rig.
we are glued to the phone the thing im asking is:
does she want to be with me but slow to start because of past ex or is she leading me down the garden path.

one thing that has made this harder for me because i heve left others for less is: when i found my daughter had gone missing with her mother (my ex) she was there for me the whole time when she could have just hung up?? this is whats confusing me.
is she just to shy, or just wanting a friend?

a hole day with my girlfriend instead of snatched mins with her thats all i want a real date with her lol

sorry didnt get the acronime there long day

now she must be crazy cus she likes me but the already with someone thing aint a option as i said shes on the phone to me when i wake up every break and lunch break and the moment i finish work 5:30 till 4am everyday.
on my lazy workdays (i have 2 jobs) shes on the phone from 8am till 4am so i think her fella would notice something lol but i see where you were going with that thanks buddy it did cross my mind till i worked out he would get like 25 - 30 mins most 2 days a week and 8 hours 5 days i think i would notice. i did when my last ex cheated like that and she was only chatting 3 hours a day.
once ahain nerdwithtattoos thanks for the pop buddy

with me its "i love you ."
i want to spend as much time with them as possable.
i ask what they want in 5-10 years time
i stop being as perverse :P (no i dont sorry they know what im like by then)
and spontaniouse public firemans lift syndrome happens a lot.