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Boxing Knockouts......
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Surprised Ricky Hatton went down so early!
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Trying to do the right thing
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I think a lot of people start to think all sorts of negative thoughts if somebody doesn't respond straight away.. But there are three things here..
1/ She might actually just be busy (if this is the case, you won't do yourself any favours by asking here awkward questions because you will give her the insight into your insecurities.. which isnt always advisable, especially if you don't really know her) 2/ If she is touching on an insecurity in the first place right now, you might need to back off a little bit for your own good. Maybe try not replying straight away to her texts (I think a lot of people play little games like that... obviously not much else better to do than make people feel insecure...) 3/ BUT THE BIG MUST DO HERE is that you could perhaps just give her the space and take some space yourself... Keeps things nice and fresh and think about what you say in your texts at least two times before you send them.. People do and say strange things and create unnecessary situations when all they should do is be themselves and remain objective... They say the devil is in the detail.. Hope this helps... |
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Karaoke Nite
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Well, get them a few beers, I am sure it will sound a lot better after a few cold ones :)
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Karaoke Nite
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Get a few beers down your neck and I am sure you will be fine
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Karaoke Nite
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Bohemian Rapsody
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The whole beastiallity thing isnt really me ... Sorry
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Yeah, not too sure what to make of the fact that apparently I am on a one way ticket to hell though... well, so they say
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note to self!!!!
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What about rule number one? "Never bang you head against the wall in public"
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Ok, firstly, I know I am probably out of place on this page... only women on it... But I believe the main thing is having a good breakfast. That sets your metabolism off for the rest of the day. I eat porridge in the morning (oats with milk) and all of a sudden I can eat what I like without putting weight on. Obviously, working out now and again, but not excessively.
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Well...
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Nothing wrong with carpet munchers
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I am still looking for a defanition of what exactly a terrorist is. see default pic madison 
The politicians are the biggest crooks of the lot of them. Some might call them political terrorists |
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I think it means that the world is going to start spinning the other way pretty soon... either that or it has something to do with politics ... or whatever
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You might have to look further afield... try England for instance... you know... like me
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One by one, they will find out that there is no such thing as a perfect man... If they found the ideal guy, I am pretty sure they would just get bored of him anyway. Hang in there fella!
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What if...
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What if.... the Bible has been a timeless, ever-morphing "play book" for humanity in which ALL words spoken by All mankind (ALL inspired for specific purpose) equal all of what's been said plus the constant continuation of words always being added? What if whoever wrote the bible wrote it as a joke |
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... you go after somebody elses girlfriend/boyfriend if you are in to one another? You mean going after a friends girlfriend/boyfriend? Kind of a grey zone for me...don't tend to fly over the grey zone. Not necessarily a friends gf/bf... just somebody in a relationship... |
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Let me ask you a question, how would you feel if someone else were to go after your girlfriend because they felt there was chemistry between them? Has already happened... I stood aside (obviously not in the way that I put her hand in his), but I assessed the situation and decided to walk away. I didn't like doing it, but it felt the right thing to do at the time... |
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In other words, me quoting you......making mention about my pic, etc. was "off topic" and I didn't want to sidetrack or seem disrespectful to said topic. :) Aah... talk about creative writing 
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Depends on if it is socially morally acceptable or your own morals that you are considering. Come again I was saying that if it's your morals, then you are the only one to answer that question. If it's societies' that you wonder about...typically most people frown upon it. As a rule, what you say is politically correct. But in the heat of the moment and all is true... could be a bit of a dilemma... When you are the one being cheated on, then it isn't a nice thing or morally acceptable, but when you are in the other seat... Values change SOME people's own morality is subjective.....the key is whether or not you want to be a hypocrite. Sure you can do as you wish/feel.......but yanno what? Feelings change, and rather quickly. Would you be ok with it being done to you?? Then you shouldn't do it to someone else. If you do, then you should be fully prepared to SUFFER the consequences, and it will come back around. P.S. You can have chemistry with several different people......chemistry isn't the basis of a relationship but is merely a factor. If you go around basing whether or not you should be with someone, or if their current relationship should matter......based on IF you have chemistry with them.......then you will have one screwed up life. But anyhoo, you will/they will do what you will. Don't look to others to justify the deed. Obviously you feel it is wrong to some extent or you wouldn't have asked the question. NOTE, many people have said that if you truly care for another person you will do what is best for them.....not yourself. IF you are simply into immediate gratification.....then go for it, but that gratification will not last long, and you will not have a healthy relationship based on trust, loyalty, respect, and true love. It will be based off of lust, deciet, sex, and selfishness.........but if that is what u are looking for in a relationship, go for it. P.S. The other person may go along with you in the "heat" of the moment, as you say, but ultimately when things are said and done.........will they trust you/you them......if you started off when they were "commited" to someone else??? If they can allow you to separate them and their current "love" then what is to keep them with you, especially when they won't respect you.......because you simply do what feels good at the time, with little regard to what happens after? I see where you are coming from... but generally speaking. If I/They (being the one outside the relationship) developed something quite innocently with that person and it turns out the other person in that relationship was hanging on just for the sake of it and knowing it was probably a sinking ship anyway, from what you are saying, who is the main offender? Me/They?
Both, imo. Respect. If she chooses to "hang on" as you say, and you genuinely care......then she needs you to respect that as it is a boundary. It is her choice. If you go and try to mow her over by pursuing her yourself, though she hasn't decided to "give up" on the other relationship......it will only cause problems (that neither of you may be consciously aware of, except I am telling you now) in any relationship that will follow between the two of you. If the relationship is becoming a "sucken ship" and you care for her.....be around and be supportive. Be "innocent" in ur relations to her. You can let her know how you feel, but that you respect that fact that she is in a relationship..... Make your own boundaries...and respect yourself. Are you interested in being with a woman who in essence is two timing you?? I mean, if she is still with him, but wants to be with you too.......then she really isn't as into you as she claims. If she was she would not be with the both of you at the same time (unless she is into polygamy). If you want her to respect you (necessary in any long term successful relationship) then you must be a person who is worthy of respect. You'd be surprised how much of a turn on self restraint can be to a woman.....but anyhoo. If you go for her, and she has decided to hang on, then you are disrespecting her boundaries. If she is leading you on while holding onto the relationship.....then she is confused (or simply in if for instant gratification as well, in such case you decide if this is the kind of person you want to be with) and needs time and space to find out what she wants. IF you purue her you will pressure her to make a choice........rather than allow her to make a choice. IMPORTANT: When I said, let her know how you feel, I don't mean "I'm in love with you.....bla blah blah." I mean, that you care about her, and that you respect any decision that she makes. For somebody with such a frown in her picture.. You speak a lot of sense... For the record it is a generic question. Thanks. but u may want to take another look, it isn't a "frown" but a half smile............. My face is simply relaxed, and I have other pics on my profile of me "smiling". I find it interesting though, how different people associate different "emotions" or "expressions" to a picture that lacks it. I have been told I look upset.......but I wasn't. Anyhoo, please do carry on with the OP. yeah I tend to 'half-smile' a lot... not that anybody gets it.. I hadn't actually checked your profile yet, as judging from some of the responses on this, I would get the cops on my ass for perving!! Only messing... You are (again) right, it is truely amazing how people respond to a morily sensative issue... Obviously the safest place to be is on a high horse LoL Carry on with the OP? |
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just wrong to hurt people In an ideal world... yes it is |
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