the point of drinking isn't to see how jacked up you can get. some people actually enjoy the taste of certain drinks, it's a stimulant so it effects how you act. some people loosen up and can have more fun. there really are tons of reasons why people drink.

i drink, i don't say others should but it really depends on the person what effect it has and how able they are to control the not getting drunk.

I don't much like the taste of it unless the bartender is really good. But I certainly have a lot more interesting stories to tell because of alcohol

i'm sure you guys haven't went through all the women on here yet. have you?

Add more women...

Lifes short. Buy a new belt. Visit someplace you've always wanted to see. Learn a new hobby. Wait to see what she becomes. Fat, lazy, 2.5 kids, and short hair. Then thank your lucky stars you didn't get mixed up with her crap.

I gave up years ago. I'd rather have the money, success, and fame and fun. Adventure rocks. Stupid shallow people suck.

Especially if that means we have to take off your straight jacket

Are we the only real people left in the world???

Lesson of the story...both genders can be messed up. I have had this happen to me way too much. If you're not interested in me just tell me don't sugarcoat it!

I wish I could have a little man who lives on my shoulder and whispers in my ear, the real translations of what men say and do.

Wouldnt that just make life so much easier.

With this new guy I was pursuing or whatever you want to call it,

we had sex, big mistake, and then the next day he gave me mostly lines I heard before like "I'm not available emotionally to have a relationship" type things. And he also said he just doesn't have sex with someone... he's either all in, or nothing. Which made no sense. We barely knew each other. It was completely rushed. So he was basically saying after he gave all those lines about why he can't be in a relationship right now, that he wants to be friends to get to know each other first and do things right. And he also mentioned that he hoped that it wasn't just a one night stand, that there was more to it.

So talk about mixed signals. So I emailed him later that night and told him that we're just going to be coworkers and I don't want to hang out with him. And that I'm not looking for someone who isn't ready to commit.

I am seriously lost about that one. So I decided if it's meant to be, we can get to know each other well enough just at work and if something sparks then it sparks, and if not.. well.. then it doesnt.

I so have the answer to this one - having done this many times myself...

The reason men do this is simple: SEX.

If a guy leaves you and immediately moves on to another girl that he's hot about, you're forgotten.

BUT... if the guy finds a girl that sucks in bed, or is not that hot. He might start thinking about the great sex he had with you and want you back.

THAT GOES DOUBLE... if he's solo for a while. A few months without sex and suddenly... "I have to have her back" (translation) "I have to have sex with her again"

We're basically animals.

My advice. Never go back to some guy who wants you back. Unless it's within a week of the break up.

Men are so silly