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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Sun 09/22/19 04:07 PM
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I understand that you'd like a response. Yes, it is nice to get one. However, not responding doesn't make a woman rude. That's why I think your statement was silly. Again, if you wouldn't do it in real life, if they came over to you at a social fuction and tried to inititate a conversation.. I guess you think it's Ok to just turn and walk off without even acknowledging them? No, it's NOT different when it is online. If you wouldn't do it or say it IRL to a real person in front of you...why would you think it OK to do it online? This also goes for guys who send crude messages. If you wouldnt go up to a random woman you do not know at a get-together and say you'd like to do x, y, or z disgusting, vulgar thing to her.....what makes you think it is OK to do online? |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Sun 09/22/19 03:36 PM
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But...if you are at an event, say....something both of you are internested in, and you attempt to start a conversation with someone...it IS rude for them to just turn away from you and walk off without saying anything, or in any way acknowledging you.
Of course..that shows their character in that they don't possess the decency to respond at least....in vwhich case fine....I wouldn;t be interested in someone that rude anyway. Here's an example. I was at a bluegrass jam up in Bowling Green KY a while back. It was a pot luck...a bi-weekly thing. I saw this new guy come in..one I had never seen before, plus he was cute.. So I went up to him to help him figure out where the plates, cups drinks, etc. were... I kid you not..the guy looked at me an ~sneered~ at me, then walked away... THAT, my friends, is the equivelent of just ignoring someone who sends you a nice, sincere message online.. If he, for whatever reason thought I was gross, ugly, disgusting (why else would he have made that face?)..then dang..he could have just mustered up the decency to say "thanks, but I think i can figure out myself..." Then I'd have left him alone. |
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sexist ?
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Actually..eric22t....since I have heard THIS version of these two songs...I just can't listen the originals anymore....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bfPwtUTP4k |
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sexist ?
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i do have a sure fire cure but you need to be very very sure you need it before you ask me for the you tube link Hahah... is it this one? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BolPQL83hFA |
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sexist ?
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Militant feminists, that is the reason of this kind of behavior. when you as a man try to be nice they think you are flirting with them. This is how sick these people has become! "when you as a man try to be nice they think you are flirting with them" Sooooo...it's "sick" for me to think when a guy messasges me on a dating site/ is nice, polite, courteous on there to me that he is flirting with me? Really? Dang...who knew... |
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Topic:
sexist ?
Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Sat 09/21/19 12:27 PM
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Some people are just as***les for no particular reason 24/7
Yesterday..I was sitting in my car at Kroger....in a row, waiting to make a turn.. Guy was sitting in his *parked* car (in a space to my left)..eating an apple. I happened to glance over that way...meet his look (he was apparently looking my way as well, then)..then he loudly says "f**k you, lady". Don't know why he felt he needed to say that, but, whatever dude..I didn't engage such a nut job by replying...just figured it was HIS problem, not mine.. Datwasntme...The ONLY time I have a problem with epople of weither gender openibng a door for me is when the practically run over me to get to it (or stand there after letting others out and hold it open, all the while looking at me like "hurry up fat *** I ain't got all day.." Yes, I *have* seen that look more than once, i am not imagining it.. Dude...*you* volunteered to rush in front of me and open the door...if you expect me to hurry up *for you* because of that...you shouldn't have done it... And, even then, I don't say anything rude..because..what's the pont? |
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I’m curious spacecodet, why are you on a dating site if you have such a low opinion of women? Does this help you in your search? 
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And yet his profile is still alive and well. Odd.....I posted that EXACT same thing a while ago...and it was deleted. :-( |
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Why do women think it is alright to ask for money...... A) they aren't women B) they aren't 20-40 hot for your form Oh heck, I could spell it out for you but you wouldn't listen 
Because y'all want to believe that a hot sexy woman that is 30 to 40 years younger than you, thinks the sun rises and falls at your feet and ooohs and ahhs over your every word 
Enjoy your illusion 
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Mon 09/16/19 10:17 AM
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I *do* have to say this, though...
Years ago, like in the late 70's..I had dated a guy for a while...and it was at the point he invited me to the family reunion (in Rayville/ Ruston Louisianna). Everything was going well....until I kicked his *** at skeet shooting, in front of his male cousins & nephews... (they snickered at me when i asked could I have a go at it..) He was cold/ distant the rest of the time I was there...and never spoke to me again.. Guess I made some gross social error, eh?
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Hummm I have never met a man that would not agree to go to a shooting range..... But I have met a few that was scared to death of horses or had no clue how to ride.. Which I can understand... After owning horses for 17 years there are plenty that may not want to ride... It is always best to find out what kind of sports they like or willing to do.. Myself actually had a first date that we went to a shooting range.. I had never been to one at the time and had not shot a gun in over 20 years.. It was a blast... And would diffidently go to one again... 
But those two things are not for everyone~~~ Having been around horses for years myself, I understsand that.. But, he should have said so..not just bailed/ ghosted on her.. I would NEVER shame a guy who was afraid of doing something I am very comfortable with...just like I would want him to do that to me... Or be pushy and say "how do you know you won't like it until you try..?" Dude, i said NO. Disresepcting my boundaries right away is *not* a good start. |
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WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT???
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That all depends on what day of the month your talking about. It could be a compliment, a piece of candy, a book she likes, a good bang, someone to yell at and so on. Of cause it's up to you to know this or you're a inconsiderate bastard. But don't you worry none, boy-o. At least you are something. 
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he asked me that I can decide where we meet and what we do
If someone said that to me, that would be a turn off for me. Why? *Someone* has to pick the activity/ place to meet. If *I* have no preference, I'd rather *they* pick, as they might... Or, vice-versa.. I do know thos...*I* have never been interested in someone not telling me what we are doing or where we are goinbg...and, unless I am in a commited relationship with someone I trust, and vice-versa....I wouldn't even do that to someone else..unless it was their birthday or our anniversery. |
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I'd be surprised to find any Conservative man that wouldn't prefer for a woman to have a gun & practice with it so she's much more likely to be able to protect herself. The guy must have been a Lib, they're really twisted in the head. I certainly don't see how anyone would call horse riding a man thing, clearly lots of men & women ride horses, it's not just for one or the other! 1. They really don;t have Conservative and Liberals (as we here in the US define them) in Switzerland, where the OP lives. 2. I am a Liberal, and I own guns, and go to shooting ranges. Last gun I shot was a vintange SKS (not mine, a friends) But, whatever. |
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I have been chatting and talking on the phone for months with a local guy I met here and we finally decided to meet in person, and he asked me that I can decide where we meet and what we do that is something different from having coffee and since we both love outdoors.. I decided to keep our first meeting super casual and so I suggested we go horse riding after that we go pistol shooting that is also with in the area and eat afterwards at a local restaurant and the shooting club I thought that would be perfect.... He replied “ I never expected you to do man stuff “ I never heard from him again lol 
Any guy that is *put off* by a woman who does things that HE views as stereotypical "man" stuff...he's not worth bothering with.. Because he'll likely bring his misogynistic view of gender roles and so forth into the relationship. Now, if *that* IS your thing..fine, go for it..there's a lot of guys like that out there..and some women apparently like that. But, if a guy is going to get mad because I know more about cars than he does..he can just f*** right off..
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Sun 09/15/19 08:32 AM
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ill never understand why woman have to ask men for money when they have never met in person or even talked on the phone before? also whats up with all this stupid google crap doesnt anyone believe in having a real working phone number? Doc, I will say this. After the weirdos I have talked to on other dating sites (no, *not* scammers..real guys, just mental or something), *I* don't give out my phone number to anyone until I have talked to them online a while.. I have a land line (by *choice*), and, that is easily tracked to a physical location. So,i can see the benefit of having a Google number. Also? Some sites that you sign up for (FB and some dating sites), they want a number, and...that's when a Google number is handy also. As far as what you guys are referring to WRT women asking for money..just block them.. If someone dared to ask me for money...someone I hadn't even met...I laugh myself sick first, then block them. Ain't nobody got time for that. And anyone who sends money to someone they've never met is a FOOL. |
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Myself, I just won't date someone shorter than me..
At 5'5"...this hasn't been a problem. Hasn't changed any over the years. We all have different prefernces. |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Fri 09/13/19 10:30 AM
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When I looked at your profile, it stated you were 51 
Also, you state in your post that you have one son but your profile says you have no children
Don't you know if you have children or not and don't you know your age? And yet you want people to be honest with you? 
delightful....it now says he is 45.... Plus, he said she died giving birth to their *second* child... I suppose that child perished with the mother? |
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If you are only 45....why are you posting in a "50 and over" group??
I'm confused. |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Fri 09/13/19 08:22 AM
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OMG, when they do decide to talk, it's what do you do for a living, are you married... any kids... how much money do you make?? Why can't it simply be Hi how are you? Why are they always seem more interested in your pocketbook instead of your brain? You are talking to the wrong women. Not all women ask how much money you make. Keep searching.  
There's enough women out there shopping for the almighty buck. We know it for a fact. It's a safe assumption we make everyday, and few women ever come along to prove us wrong. Now they've come up with a new term-Economically Challenged. Nicely worded, does not make us feel any better. I'll stick to the common term that says it all-gold digger. I have NEVER asked a guy how much he makes... If he has enough income to pay his rent/ mortgage, utilities, car payment and insurance, groceries, etc...and has some left over for fun...I'm happy...
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