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Does no mean no?
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And yes Andy I do see what you mean... Words being taken right out of context as soon as I said them. |
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Does no mean no?
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My advice to any man...who is hell bent to have sex with some chick bouncing around in a g string..Get a full verbal..yes! Your painting a negative picture of this situation. Totally not hell bent on having sex with her. Actually had some restraint as she was in the middle of a break up. She was heating up to me for about a week or two before this occured. her x even kind of approached it in his own in -direct way. Noticed the same thing. Soon as she came home she took one look at me and her clothes were on the floor before she even made it to the kitchen from the front door. She barged in the bathroom looked right at my dingy and invited me into to bed with her a few minutes after that. Did not have sex... its a moot point. Would have had an argument if we had had sex becuase she was not quite as into it as she was a moment before. But still realistically would not have been rape. |
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Does no mean no?
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My advice to any man...who is hell bent to have sex with some chick bouncing around in a g string..Get a full verbal..yes! Your painting a negative picture of this situation. Totally not hell bent on having sex with her. Actually had some restraint as she was in the middle of a break up. She was heating up to me for about a week or two before this occured. her x even kind of approached it in his own in -direct way. Noticed the same thing. Soon as she came home she took one look at me and her clothes were on the floor before she even made it to the kitchen from the front door. She barged in the bathroom looked right at my dingy and invited me into to bed with her a few minutes after that. Did not have sex... its a moot point. Would have had an argument if we had had sex becuase she was not quite as into it as she was a moment before. But still realistically would not have been rape. |
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Does no mean no?
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Not that false allegations don't happen...but its few and far between. Totally disagree! Your taking my statement slightly out of context by saying "the authories" can usually find these ppl.. true by the time something is said to the police it usually weeds out many false accusations (fear of making a false accusation to the police will prevent alot of it)... and true the police can often catch someone lying or simply sense they might be getting lied to. In real life situations have heard far more pointing that I thought were complete and total bs or knew that it was then I know of an actual rape occuring. |
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Does no mean no?
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I do somewhat see the opposing side of this argument... that is, you have to feel sorry for the guy who is charged or rightly accused of rape where it is kind of gray...
perhaps flirted with heavily and got started then asked to stop half way through it for god knows whatever reason... where it was not really violent and that sort of thing. If told to stop or 'no' and he continues it is rape clearly after this point. Still kind of feel sorry, and somewhat de-criminalizes their actions in certain scenarios that matches this criteria. Today many people (women often) use rape accusations that kind of talk out the side of their mouth. Twice I have been accused of rape once I have no clue what shes talking about the other would have (her and her bf were breaking up and we almost had sex and the bf accused me) had an argument had we had sex becuase she was not quite as into it after we went to bed as she was when she was tearing off her clothes and running around the house with her panties on. Still could have argued rape becuase she was not half as gung ho about it in bed as she was trapsing through the house in her g-string.. still would not have been rape though unless she had said no. Point here is many women use this as a way of stabbing some poor bastard in the back that did not actually rape her just to get a pity party. I have heard of this WAY more then I have been around an actual rape (that I know about). |
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WOULD YOU DATE YOURSELF?
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I keep coming across bitter and frustrated rants about how some people here have trouble meeting the right person. Everyone is looking for a dreamgirl or Mr. Dreamy. But if you have a triple chin and a sagging chest and don't take time to work on your physical appearance, what makes you believe that Dreamboat will want you, too, Mr. and Ms. Hypocrite? Is it from the grace of your scintillating personality that you expect Perfect Date to overlook your obvious obesity or self-neglect? We live in a physical and material world. Unless you can change this fact, you will have to learn to ADAPT. Work on yourself. Hit the gym. Offer something which is tempting to the eye, not only to the mind and soul. Even unattractive people want attractive mates and there is only so many to go around. I ask you this self-enlightening question. What makes you believe that supermodel or even attractive mate would be interested in you? WOULD YOU DATE YOURSELF? Edit: For those of you who state that you wouldn't date yourselves in terms of qualities, please tell us why if you dare. This should be interesting.  Please don't get cute with the answers about being a man and not wanting to date another man. Well most people that have a triple chin are kind of aware that attracting a really really hot mate should not be expected. I am sure it happens though you just do not see it very often. It sounds like someone said something, guessing perhaps an x-boyfriend about a supermodel on TV without thinking the comment through to get you to say this LoL Well when I am looking good I get shown interest in from woman. Most often when I was 16 though woman are much less aggressive then guys and not very persistent either ( I wont necessarily dive on the first cue even though I might be interested ) To answer your question I would prolly give me the time of day at least for a couple different reasons. Though far from perfect. |
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Does no mean no?
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yeah but the adverse side of this argument has a strong argument too.. Many woman accuse men of rape falseley... I have seen it with my own eyes... Not hugely convenicing as most ppl would know she was full of it but it does happen...
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Does no mean no?
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No means no...People who use double talk to claim otherwise should be ashamed...A clear concept of saying no is especially important to teens who often lack the communication and social skills necessary to cope with intimacy...Even though men and women don't always communicate in the same way, having sex with someone who does not want to and does not consent is rape, it is a crime... Double talk about the meaning of the word no should always be denounced...Yes and no are two of the simplest forms of communication....Saying no leaves zero possibility for miscommunication morally, linguistically, and legally and it does not matter what you are wearing when you say it, what you are doing when you say it, or how you say it, it still means no...My suggestion to anyone, man or woman, who thinks there is any doubt about the meaning of the word NO is don't ever have sex...You just might find yourself trying to redefine the meaning of the word to a judge and jury..... 
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Jerks
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I agree greeneyes; that these so called nice guys can be very boring. I was wondering why men in particular would think that another man is a jerk? For example; guys I date don't buy me flowers, jewelry, or gifts? They don't spend x amount time with me as its whatever time we can make for each other. He doesn't accompnay me to the symphony or the Opera as he hates those things. Now do these things make him a jerk? To me, no he isn't a jerk; he is just being himself as these things don't matter to me. Now when he starts abusing me or cheating on me; yep then I would call him a jerk. So my point is I think men are quick to call another man a jerk because they compare themselves to the other guy and feel the so called jerk should treat a woman the way they would. How about we ask men the same thing about women that treat them poorly. I suppose the question could be asked as to why men would worship the ground of a woman that most would consider nothing more than a b*tch but again; we don't know the mindset of why he loves or adores this woman anymore that why a woman would love a guy deemed as a jerk. I refuse to take dull acuusations from someone dressed as a girl scout ( on Christmas too) LoL |
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i need wife
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Good Luck Sholly.... does happen here so it is possible
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i need wife
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Navygirl!!!! I sitting at my laptop thinking of clever pick up lines so I can play a game of Canadian battleship with a girl scout... needed to put it simply "I need wife" as the topic!!!!
Well Merry Christmas to you sir!!!!! LoL Jk
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Pls help me.
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Well there are plenty of ways to let someone know your interested and serious...
I recomend a unique aproach...For example if you really want to let her know you care steal all her panties during the middle of the night  ...Shell be forced to wear the same panties she was wearing the night before ... Drop a little clue about offering a panty washing service at some point throughout the day and she'll know your serious about a relationship ...
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The Holiday Proposition
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Someone yesterday just propositioned me to sleep with him. But this wasn't any normal perving, he actually used being alone and sad on the holidays as an excuse. Yeah, this one got that deep. As anyone had the same happen to you? One question... did you guys do it???? There you shall find the answer of your inquiry... |
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Some people are just Anti-Social I would guess. Which begs the question, Why do these people sigh up for dating sites? There is nothing wrong with weird. Sorry, I have to disagree here. Weirdos&Flakes, Even though dating sites are full of them, Have no real place on a dating site. What we need is a dating site that caters to this clientele. Maybe, Weirflake.com A good catch line, "Where the weird & flaky come to meet." First off you would have to define weird and flaky for me... Last I checked flaky meant you may or may not make appointments or engagements... Meaning the person may not be worth meeting you made the apointment with just easily as as fault laying on the absentee... And weird is really eye of the beholder... Most people that I consider to be so weird it is uncomfortable to share company with have mental diagnosises... and so $&*%^&*ing obvious I would not bother to mention it... |
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The best ANdroid games I have played so far are Chrono Trigger and Final Fantasy 3 ... on ff3 the camera zoom did not work and it is needed to get past a certain point but otherwise a great game... same with Chrono Trigger... Both require paymnent for a full working version though where most games are free...
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Jerks
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Why do women like jerks in men? Shouldn't they want nice guys that care about them and not use them as meat? How come the nice guys never ask this question....  This is something I have noticed since I was very young... That guys that are kind of stereo typical jerks and take their girlfriends for granted ( the romantic fairy tail romance that they are hoping for is liike a 0 chance with this dude ) tend to do very well with women. Never said much about it.. just noticed it... |
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Does no mean no?
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Dodo is going for soft porn throughout the discussion....
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Does no mean no?
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Dude. Watch science. Smurfs are asexual. I'm sad that my Mortal Kombat picture got taken down... I was being nice to everybody. So what the hell is Smurfette all about then? And I know there are members here who think she is hawt...  whatever turns them on! Ok this is actually a little weirder then my my girl scout uniform comment ( and I like older women too... go figure)... shame on you!!! 
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no strings
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You look like a girl scout in that photo... If you had pigtails you could be in the centerfold for barely legal.... I hope you are not referring to me and my uniform.  Hope as you may.... your fears are confirmed.... 
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Does no mean no?
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Sometimes NO means YES....I'm kidding, of course no means no. not contractually, contractually the signature means yes, regardless of what the verbal response is,,,, similar in other life situations too,,we dont just communicate with our mouths,, That's so True. Body language, stripping off clothes, lip locking...it goes on and on. Then you Yell...Stop..NO..   I'll try it out with Navygirl and see how it goes....  I will pay a million the day navy girl strips and locks lips and goes 'on and on' just to say no to someone LoL she'll break out her board game of battle ship ( the canadian version of course )... Hmm, if a guy pushes himself on me after I said no; the only thing that I will break is his arm.  Ill have to admit I am not perfectly familiar with the rules for Canadian battleship... I am not sure if youd have to break my arm thoguh.... I think one of the players has to dress up in their girlscout uniform and wear pig tails.. |
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