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Tue 04/26/11 12:44 PM
Edited by dhska on Tue 04/26/11 12:45 PM
David Tennant was the best, IMO

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Tue 04/26/11 11:45 AM


My understanding has been that younger women are generally attracted to younger men and vice versa.

Meant to say "younger women attracted to [older] men" ... tiredness <_<


I wouldn't say usually. But, it can go either way, I guess. I'm very rarely attracted to anyone older than me, but it happens sometimes. Though, I have had my share of much older men try to convince me that age is just a number... sick.

Can go any way you want it to ;)

I get attracted to older and younger ... within reason.

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Tue 04/26/11 11:06 AM
Edited by dhska on Tue 04/26/11 11:07 AM

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Yea? And thats the thing is I dont want to be putting in a ton of work just for something like her fooing around to happen. What are some similarities you see, that you've had. If you don't mind me asking?

I think Jess642 put it well. Can't remember how old she is, though I get the impression she's going to be changing a lot within the next 5 years or so and be going through some quarter life crisis stuff.

The experience I had personally with the girl I briefly saw was she was seeing other guys and trying to incite jealously, as well as play them against each other. Good thing I got out as soon as I did ...

Just my bad experience though. I'm open to the fact that what whatstheirname said might just apply, although I doubt it in this case by the sounds.

Actually... Brother... Women don't always speak the same language as we do. What seems straight logically... Doesn't always speak the same on emotions, i.e. insecurity. Women love it when a guy is (confidently, and truly into her) guy, can tell her exactly HOW she makes him feel about HER. Meaning... Let it out. Tell her what she makes you FEEL like. What is going on inside your head. What involuntary actions within your body are affected by her. Heart, Head, Breathing, Temperature. Some women can only understand what they're putting themselves out there for. She may very well be looking for love. Yet... You're being very "Playerish/insecure"/ or vague by saying you want to "commit", or "take to the next level". Be a human being. Tell her if you can't stop thinking about her. Tell her that when you're close that your heart races, and you get choked up. It sounds like she's detaching from you cause you're not revealing enough about your feelings for her. To act like you're cool, or apathetic is asinine to finding real love. A "real man"... Will risk anything for what matters most in his life. I hope this helps you dude?

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Tue 04/26/11 10:43 AM
It's actually a good thing, if you think about it.

You know better about him at an early stage where relatively little damage is done.

Now you can find someone who is willing to make you a priority rather then an option.

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Tue 04/26/11 10:21 AM
Edited by dhska on Tue 04/26/11 10:21 AM
Nice looking girl ... besides that, the lack of information about yourself makes you come across as boring.

I would suggest going into hobbies if you have any, or talk about the types of places you enjoy or other activities you like doing. Also go into the type of person you're looking for.

BTW, love your name =)

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Tue 04/26/11 09:55 AM
My understanding has been that younger women are generally attracted to younger men and vice versa.

Meant to say "younger women attracted to [older] men" ... tiredness <_<

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Mon 04/25/11 03:29 PM
If the women insists, then I would go "dutch" (50/50).

Regarding sex on first date, I think a better question would be "do you want to date someone who would expect that?". My opinion is that a gentleman wouldn't, so personally that wouldn't be my intention on a first date ... although have left it to discretion whether I let it happen ;)

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Mon 04/25/11 03:28 PM
I treat it something like a business transaction: thank them for their time, then move onto the next prospect.

Expect lots of rejection, but know that experiencing lots of it is the best way of finding success, partially because it's also character building so your mindset adjusts.

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Mon 04/25/11 03:25 PM
Same reason we procrastinate.

Just do stuff :wink:

The underlying issues are probably more complicated then your question. Unless you're like me and recovering from a hangover on sunday.

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Mon 04/25/11 03:15 PM
I've known girls like that ... never talked since.

Sounds like she'll be a lot of work if it does go anywhere and maybe even unfaithful. From my experience.

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Mon 04/25/11 02:49 PM
My understanding has been that younger women are generally attracted to younger men and vice versa.

Although I'm currently infatuated with a girl 3 years older them me, even though she looks younger, oddly enough.

Guess some cons would range from quarter life crisis, to mid life crisis stuff, less operational and maybe less active).

Can't think of much to compare as pros ... I guess younger people are less likely to break a hip? Older people are going to be more accomplished and theoretically more secure with themselves and achieved more with their lives. I think it's worth thinking about the type of stuff you'd like to do with your partner relative to finances.

I'm probably the wrong person to ask, but those are my thoughts.

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Sun 04/10/11 05:16 AM
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Thu 04/07/11 08:39 AM
We don't know where we might within the next year.

My advice would be to make the most of every moment you have together, keep contact as often as you can and plan to spend the rest of your life together, because one or both of you will eventually have to move.

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Thu 04/07/11 08:31 AM
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Thu 04/07/11 07:51 AM
I'm currently using a Mac, though I think if you go into "folder options", click on the "view" tab and scroll down the "advanced settings" and untick the box "hide extensions for known file types" ... I think that should do it.

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Tue 04/05/11 11:06 AM
Undecided what I think of the headline. Something about it translates "emotional baggage" which would make me think twice, though maybe just me reading too much into it.

All else seems good, you're pretty clear about your interests and what you're looking for.

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Sun 04/03/11 04:55 AM
Like Kissesz says, you have to get the dialogue going with people. Like in real life, you're more likely to get talking to people if you don't sit in a corner alone.

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Sat 04/02/11 06:54 AM

OP

what You want to date "A" young "MEN" ?

How is that possible?noway



Maybe she wants to date as many as possible bigsmile

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Fri 04/01/11 05:23 AM
Welcome :)

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Fri 04/01/11 01:35 AM
Yes.

Sounds like most of my evenings ...

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