LMAO Lori....thanks for asking what the rest of us were thinking. :)

Exactly lionsbrew! There are GORGEOUS moviestars with some not so
gorgeous significant others ("not so gorgeous" by their standards I
mean). Obviously they're offering those "goregous moviestars" something
or they wouldn't be keeping them for long. So who says you can't have
that???? :)

Yeah I agree King, it's good to have a balance between the 2. Someone
who is romantic and a good guy but is exciting and fun also (not a
player though, exciting with that person they're with). I think that's
definitely possible and the ideal if you ask me. :)

What I meant is what I wrote, I consider a badboy and a player to be on
the same level and grouped in the same category. The category entitled
"I want sex with whomever I want whenever I want, I want no commitment
and I could give a shit less about other people's feelings. And that's
pretty much it." :)

To me a bad boy is someone who you got with for the thrills you have
with that person, but I don't see them as the relationship type. I'm
personally not a girl who wants to just sleep around or date 5 guys at
once so I avoid those types of guys. I have dated some before but never
had a serious relationship with one, mainly because while dating they
showed me signs that they were not relationship material so therefore
they weren't right for me. To me a bad boy is the guy all the girls
want, the guy who doesn't really make you feel important or significant
because you're probably the 5 girl he's seen that week. I am not a fan
of the player type, I want to be able to trust that you're with me and
only me and your whole heart is in it. Otherwise why am I investing my
time and feelings? The good guy is someone you can count on, someone who
makes you happy and you can trust to be there for you on many levels. I
see the good guy as someone you want to build a life with and someone
who makes you feel loved. But that doesn't mean they're boring at all,
actually I have met nice guys who are very funny, sweet, romantic and
goofy among other things. What more can a girl ask for than someone who
can make her laugh, feel loved and cherished, while also being someone
she can potentially marry and have children with? :)

HAHA...well I'm definitely not the type to be quiet or not communicate.
I can be shy at first when I like a guy but if I'm comfortable enough
around you and trust you I warm up VERY fast. I'm definitely HUGE on
communication, I hate when someone isn't straight forward about how they
feel about you. If you like me, tell me so we're on the same page and
can move forward and work on our relationship. If you don't, tell me and
stop leading me on so I don't get my hopes up. Also, as you can see, if
I'm comfortable with you I can talk A LOT and I LOOOOOVE to laugh. If
you can make me laugh constantly then you have me hooked. :)

Awww...so true. :(

I second the homemade apple...LOVE IT! :)

Awwwwwww...I'm gonna go cry now, that's so sad. :(

Ain't that the truth.

Absolutely King, if you care about someone you should do whatever you
can to find out why they're not happy and change that.

If he didn't have time for me or didn't make time for me? To me there's
a difference, if I know he's hella busy and just has a crazy schedule
then I respect that and do what I can to help make life easier for him.
If he chooses not to make time for me and does so a lot, then things
will have to change because what's the sense in being n a relationship
if you're not gonne BE in the relationship?

I like a guy who can communicate his feelings, I hate trying to guess
what someone is feeling or how they feel about me and our relationship.
Communication and trust are key, if you communicate what you want
Terrance I'm sure you'll find someone you can trust too.

Yeah very true Terrance, I'm a very emotional person so as much as I try
to hold them back when I need to it's not always that easy. Especially
if it's something you're very passionate about.

Exactly.

Yeah Terrance, you definitely want to be careful of that. Because you'll
just offend those girls you are dating or push them away. If you have
doubts just talk to them, tell them "it's not that I don't trust you, I
just want to be up front about what I'm looking for. I'm not someone
who's ok with cheating, etc... After my past relationships, I've become
a little jaded and just want to make sure we're on the same page."

Yeah you're right King, I mean I would probably tweak what I said a
little cause more or less if you do something to lose my trust and I end
things then it's usually something important to me. For instance,
feeling like I'm girl number 6 of the week or that you're feeding me the
same stuff you are to every other girl. For me I just go on gut
instinct, if someone makes me feel uneasy or I can't be myself
completely around them and trust them then the relationship will never
work.

Yeah King it definitely gets extremely frustrating and discouraging, as
much as I try not to let it bother me you can't help your feelings. The
other that sucks that you're talking about Terrance is the fact that it
can cause you to have trust issues in the future, I agree with you and I
have those worries in the back of my mind. What I try to do it give
people the benefit of the doubt, not punish them for someone else
treating me like shit but having it in the back of my mind and being
aware. Once they prove me wrong and show that I can't trust,
adios...don't let the door hit you on the way out.

Very true King...Not all girls are like Terrance, believe me. You just
have to be patient for the right one to come along, NEVER SETTLE! I know
it's easier said than done, but it'll be worth the wait won't it? ;)

I feel your pain hun...I go through the same thing with guys. People ask
me why I'm single and I can't help but reply "Because all I meet are
guys who are after one thing and one thing only. I'm not looking to be
girl number 5 of the week. I'd rather be single." It sucks, it's so hard
to be patient (believe me it's killing me...LOL) but I believe that
everything happens for a reason and from what people tell me when it's
meant to happen it will. Best of luck to you, you sound like a nice guy
and I hope you find the nice girl you deserve that will make you happy.
:)