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Did you really make all that wooden stuff on your profile? If so, that's really cool. Yes I did. I have been a craftsman all my life as my father was. Thank you for the compliment. I love my work and relish in it when compliments are given. Once again thank you. |
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Of all the threads that I could have chosen.... odd that it would be yours I chose. I found your original comment to be very thought provoking and enlightening. But as has been stated, most will not take the time and thought it takes to really get it... Honestly most probably dont read past the first few words. So why do you do it? What do you gain, and where does this need to reach out come from? I think it is because you have hope. Hope that something you say will be as a rock in a pond. With a little luck you can make enough ripples to change the world with a few words. We see that happen all the time with the things we say, and how our words effect the worlds of those around us. Words are powerful, and it looks like you might have chosen to use that power for good. You have done well and I bow to you my brother. But of coarse i could be completely wrong about you.
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When I asked why people were cruel the question wasnt directly related to people here. Although I would venture to guess that sometimes the shoe fits. What I was referring to was a general belief that all people are fakes and that it is not worth taking the time to get to know someone in order to discover if they are the real deal. And so we are cruel in order to never have to truly know anyone. Cruelty keeps the masses at bay as it were. If anyone here took offense to my remark, I sincerely apologize.
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When did people become so cruel as a whole?
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Topic:
The Rewards of Chivalry
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Bridgewater, you had me until para 5. I'd much rather a man see my strength and respect me for it, then spend his time showing me his. Sometimes weakness can be just as much a strength when the person knows they have people to lean on. Reaching out for help is a strength all its own. |
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i've found that the guys who stand there and toot their own horns are usually the biggest d1ckheads around. it's those who don't need to preen that reek of class. Has it ever occurred to you that this might be the way I really am? or am I just thrown out with the trash... sad... Typical. You tell everyone you're a gentleman and we are expected to believe you? Pfffffffft. You might be a gentleman, but as Papersmile points out people that need to talk themselves up are usually shown to be other than what they claim. Go ahead and keep telling us all what a gentleman you are. It is very entertaining and informative. Especially informative are your responses to the guys that have tweaked you a bit. The guys and ladies were right.. Beware all the enter here for you will surely die... Ladies and gentlemen I think I have had enough ego deflation this evening. Its raining just a little outside and I would rather be out there playing in it than wishing I could prove something noone here is apparently going to believe. Thank you coming. |
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In that case, I must be ****ing awesome, because I'm old as hell!!!! 
See, this is why I'm no good for gentleman/nice guys, I have a potty mouth. 
There is definately a place for it, and Im begining to think this is it... lol |
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I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay.  
I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white? 
American or German my sweet? I prefer sweet wines, so white I would say. Riesling goes well with everything.... American or German my sweet? I'm not sure, someone just handed me a glass and I glanced at the bottle and saw the name. It was goooooood..... 
A lady is like a fine wine. She simply gets better with age. |
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All the world is a stage, and each of us merely actors.
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i've found that the guys who stand there and toot their own horns are usually the biggest d1ckheads around. it's those who don't need to preen that reek of class. Has it ever occurred to you that this might be the way I really am? or am I just thrown out with the trash... sad... |
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like I said, a gentleman is subjective to the man and to women. Everything is subjective depending apon your point of view. But I will tell you this. I find that kindness and compassion make being subjective alot easier on the soul. |
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a post i made awhile back... but pretains to here and now.... the way these times are, you will run into shallow people for sure, but there are great people here, too many friends to count,..... and where you are there are many as well, if you look, that are not hung up into this temporary society that is advertising superficial qualities in people....media generalizes!!! i think if you are just yourself......one, the "nice guy" image doesn't apply, because you are behaving in regular terms, how people are behaving to you, and if they behave badly to you, you have to decide how to act. you can change this, by putting their very behavior back in their court, and not lose face with anyone, by diverting the scenario back to their diotribe or rant, such as" wow, you're really having a time of it! if i can help you to get your day to be more positive, well, let me help", and they will respect you, and that includes handsome or pretty parties of both sexes, whether they are bottom-wipes or not, for you weren't nice or mean...just truthful. it will get you respect, and maybe a friend.... these guys we speak of...... being a tough guy to "get chicks" gets you no-where, and usually the wrong "chick" anyway. to get the attention of the right one, back-up your talk, listen, and be a man of action to back up your talk with quiet positive methods to get your respect that you so much seem to desire. "tough guys" i've seen a dime a dozen, and they'll leave the woman hanging everytime when the road gets rough...a STRONG GUY, how-ever, will be there to see whatever it is to the end, and respect will follow, and never does he have to act like a jerk. He's a man's man, and a gentle ladie's man as well. "tough guys" run from STRONG GUYS. unless they have a way to shoot them in the back......but if they do that,,, STRONG GUYS have friends...... so..........................i think you qualify as a strong guy Sir I can only tip my hat to you and hope that you were speaking to me with such kind words. Thank you very much. |
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I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay.
I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white?
American or German my sweet? I prefer sweet wines, so white I would say. Riesling goes well with everything.... American or German my sweet? |
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Or you might just sleep alone..... Kinda of the point of a dating site don't you think. People are single. Your observations are uncanny....
Thank you very much. The problem is that the opposite sex seems to have grown an aversion to gentlemen in the last 10 years. |
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I have to confess...until this thread, I had been known as a mean and rotten S.O.B. but now I just feel....reborn...like someone just showed me...the light. I can feel gentlemanly sparks igniting in me...making my nipples tingle...this is a new beginning for me 
You should try nipple piercings, it helps with the tingle... lol Been there, done that 
Ahhhh so we do have something in common brother. |
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I have to confess...until this thread, I had been known as a mean and rotten S.O.B. but now I just feel....reborn...like someone just showed me...the light. I can feel gentlemanly sparks igniting in me...making my nipples tingle...this is a new beginning for me
You should try nipple piercings, it helps with the tingle... lol |
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I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay.
I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? Red wine or white?
I prefer sweet wines, so white I would say. |
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I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay.
I wonder if the gentleman/nice guy combo tastes good with garlic, mushrooms, and melted provolone? I would like to think nice guys would taste good in anything, but I cant really say as I have never tasted myself. |
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So where are all the people who will vouch for your "gentlemanly" ways? Are you a self-proclaimed gentleman or have all the women told you that? Should we just take your word that you're a gentleman? Or is there some sort of test of gentlemanship?
As this is the first time I have even attempted this kind of thing I have no references to speak of, but if you would give me a chance I think I could prove my legitimacy. |
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I would like to personally invite you to my nice guy thread. We can never have enough. And I nice guy that's a gentleman, will bring twice the price on Ebay.
Thank you very much I would love to join your thread, especially since this is my first day here, thank you for the invite, can you navigate me there? |
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