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I don't want to train or teach no more men.... Been there done that.. I had 2 sons....to train and teach, teach and train,mentor... At my age..if a man hasn't gotten it by now.... Forever let me live in peace...even alone in my rocker... 
Ok I truly hope you find what you want and need. Someone as cynical as you are has surely been through alot and deserves happiness. |
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time change people change but however there are lots a nice decent men & women out there waiting to be discovered ...why is it we are attracted to things\people that are bad for us .. When the good stuff there in front of us for the taking and we pass it Thank you for the voice of reason!!!! |
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I MISS the gentleman. I AM a lady. But I agree with you. I have been to some chat rooms, and the women can be horrendous. They can sweet as pie one moment and dripping venom the next. I think the gentleman is alive and well, but these new breed of women are not ladies. These new women are suspicious of anyone who is actually nice, because they themselves don't carry that gene. And girls stop pretending that You are nice. You are only nice when you want something. To be a Lady or a Gentlemen means to have consideration for the other person first. Too many women are self- centred, hence the gentleman is not seeked out or appreciated when acquired. Gentlemen everywhere, you are desired and appreciated, but alas the true Lady is becoming a rare jewel, (sometimes we don't come in the prettiest packages) But we ARE here :) You are a very wise woman...  
Well said.....I agree with you 100 %...... My guy friend (s) talk about this all the time... One of is always saying "RED FLAG" BEWARE...RUN... Best of luck 
God I hate it when a nice guy brings up a red flag!!! Doesn't nice mean anything anymore??? It used to be a good thing... |
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Train him!!!?? Sure if I was a Dominatrix!! I let a man be who he is. If he has that personality that turns me on I do not wanna change him! that's why men and women come in millions of diff styles we pick the style that's right for us!! 
A woman who truly is not interested in training a man... What a novelty... |
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Yea that's true times change. Some things just change with it I've held doors open for many men just out of thoughtfulness I've paid for dates also it's 2010 please let's not regress....
I agree, forward it the only motion acceptable in today's day and age, but don't any of you ladies ever wish you could find a jewel of a man and train him right? Seriously, some of us are willing. Not weak, just willing to learn what it takes to really make a woman feel wanted, needed and loved. BIG SURPRISE we really don't know. |
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I MISS the gentleman. I AM a lady. But I agree with you. I have been to some chat rooms, and the women can be horrendous. They can sweet as pie one moment and dripping venom the next. I think the gentleman is alive and well, but these new breed of women are not ladies. These new women are suspicious of anyone who is actually nice, because they themselves don't carry that gene. And girls stop pretending that You are nice. You are only nice when you want something. To be a Lady or a Gentlemen means to have consideration for the other person first. Too many women are self- centred, hence the gentleman is not seeked out or appreciated when acquired. Gentlemen everywhere, you are desired and appreciated, but alas the true Lady is becoming a rare jewel, (sometimes we don't come in the prettiest packages) But we ARE here :) I knew there were still some ladies out there, sad that I had to threaten conformation in order to meet one. My lady it is very nice to meet you. |
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people like sage, Iam4u, owl, and most others over fifty and on back, have has this engrained in us from small children because it was a must for a formal time. i remember when most wore a fedora style hat out, and a straw hat on the weekends. i still have all mine, and wear them off and on, but i've seen on here, many young men like sekinwisdom here, that are still opening doors and things, even though they are in the minority, but this behavior will renew, and morph as chivalry will not die, but change to more subtle aspects....more like kudos gifts and such. we don't have glen miller at the top of the charts, or Tony Bennet or Perry Como for a good slowdance anymore.... now, it's a good slow phukc on the dance floor to a good trance or chill, or type O- or something done in the dark corner of an industrial club in pvc or leather....or just some pick-up truck out in the country....i've seen it all.....well, maybe not, but i've seen enough... things aren't as close or rightious, and they make their own rules in more modern times. casual sex has taken over courting, for people can't wait, and are too impatient and want everything right now.... BSDM, light or heavy, is becoming a more staple diet for sex, as people get more and more bored with general vanilla sex and courting, and there's always a mind bender with it, it seems, for everybody's bored with their mind too, and have to get high...... high, used to be....ummm......up? just my observations again, as i walk in a darker lifestyle than most, and observe, but not participate, as my path is more my own path for my own wisdom. Sir I once again bow to your wisdom. Introspection it the mother of all understanding and compassion. You seem to me to be one of the worlds many reluctant sages. I see you. |
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Pfffffffft.... Do you know people were asking the very same questions back in the Middle Ages? That is where and why the Arthurian legend springs up and why jousting and knightly values became all the rage. Ahhh yes, the civilized days. You speak of these things as if they actually existed. They've always been a myth. They're essentially a construct for those that do not like what they see in the present. There are schitts and decent people all through the ages. Good values, compassion, and decency haver not died, they've just NEVER been prevalent. Wow that was profound. You actually just altered my way of thinking. No sarcasm intended. Thank you for an outside perspective. |
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The gentleman/ nice guy isn't dead...there are still many women out there that enjoy having the door open for them and getting there dinners paid for. Hell, I'm even a gentleman sometimes. I took a chick to Red Lobster once...even opened the door for her 
Go you. Guess I just need to take notes from the guys here. You all seem to be doing so very well. Think Id rather just be considered soft. Try me. |
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Try southern women; a friend of mine is dating a girl in Alabama and the other day she told him she wanted him to "woo her," I didn't think people still used words like that. So apparently the days of ladies and gentlemen and wooing still exist, you just have to find a woman who's into that sort of thing. Personally it annoys me when a man opens a door for me, I can open doors for myself. But I already pointed out that I'm a tad b!tchy, and therefore, not a lady. I am woman, hear me roar. RAWR!!!! 
Feminism Gods gift to woman. |
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That was a joke BTW
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Ladies and gentlemen, if such things truly exist, the jury is out, the decision made. We the people, after much discussion and reflection of honest debate have come to believe that the gentlemen is dead. I guess he was kind of like Santa clause. If enough people believed in him the gentlemen and the nice guy thrived and grew. But in today's world, sadly, not enough people believe that he exists and many don't really like having him around at all. Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man. and so the legend dies. I cry for this because I see that with the passing of this icon, our already eroding culture dissolves just a little more. My father taught me how to treat a lady, but now I look around me and I see that all my fathers teachings have turned to dust. The cynical nature of the populous in general today just dosent leave room for the old ways of love, passion, kindness and compassion. Today we are crude, vile, and just plane nasty. In all this ranting I would like to ask all of you one simple question.... If the gentlemen is dead where does that leave the ladies, or are they too gone. And if so where does the blame lie. Did the loss of the gentlemen preclude the loss of the lady or vice versa? New age; adapt, evolve...or get ran over. Ok I will good bye to the gentlemen here comes the bad boy! since that seems to be what the other side likes so much. Maybe I sould do the running over!!! |
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I like you sage, very much. You seem to have found a place where what is expect of you and where you really are meet in profound understanding.
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While at work one day & watched this older couple with amazement. He treated his lady with the utmost respect. Taking her coat off, pulling out her chair, after dinner helping her with her coat again. I just looked on wishing there were more men like that. When they left he held the door open & opened the door on her side of the car. Now, that was a perfect gentelman!!! But, I've never claimed to be a lady!! 
The man was a dying breed, and I can understand that. We are called liars, womanizers, and fakes. And now I see that my true topic should have been the loss of the lady. good point..thats why I changed my heading..just in a more modern way..change with the times... I want to go back to the old way...The way I recall...the man goes to work, woman stays home...usually barefoot and pregnant...those days are gone..but...you help me with my coat, I'll help you with yours, hold my hand, I will hold yours, actually quite simple way to live...in harmony....thats also lost in society today......
Very good post.... I have to agree a change in the times has changed the definition of courtesy. In todays world it is often hard for people to see the little things that matter so much. We are constantly bombarded by selfishness in life today, and as they say... what comes into our minds comes out in our actions... Thank you for being one of those special ladies who understand that times have changed and yet sees how the lady and gentlemen of old can be reborn into perhaps something better |
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While at work one day & watched this older couple with amazement. He treated his lady with the utmost respect. Taking her coat off, pulling out her chair, after dinner helping her with her coat again. I just looked on wishing there were more men like that. When they left he held the door open & opened the door on her side of the car. Now, that was a perfect gentelman!!! But, I've never claimed to be a lady!!
The man was a dying breed, and I can understand that. We are called liars, womanizers, and fakes. And now I see that my true topic should have been the loss of the lady. |
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Ladies and gentlemen, if such things truly exist, the jury is out, the decision made. We the people, after much discussion and reflection of honest debate have come to believe that the gentlemen is dead. I guess he was kind of like Santa clause. If enough people believed in him the gentlemen and the nice guy thrived and grew. But in today's world, sadly, not enough people believe that he exists and many don't really like having him around at all. Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man. and so the legend dies.
I cry for this because I see that with the passing of this icon, our already eroding culture dissolves just a little more. My father taught me how to treat a lady, but now I look around me and I see that all my fathers teachings have turned to dust. The cynical nature of the populous in general today just dosent leave room for the old ways of love, passion, kindness and compassion. Today we are crude, vile, and just plane nasty. In all this ranting I would like to ask all of you one simple question.... If the gentlemen is dead where does that leave the ladies, or are they too gone. And if so where does the blame lie. Did the loss of the gentlemen preclude the loss of the lady or vice versa? |
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Ladies and gentlemen, if such things truly exist, the jury is out, the decision made. We the people, after much discussion and reflection of honest debate have come to believe that the gentlemen is dead. I guess he was kind of like Santa clause. If enough people believed in him the gentlemen and the nice guy thrived and grew. But in today's world, sadly, not enough people believe that he exists and many don't really like having him around at all. Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man. and so the legend dies.
I cry for this because I see that with the passing of this icon, our already eroding culture dissolves just a little more. My father taught me how to treat a lady, but now I look around me and I see that all my fathers teachings have turned to dust. The cynical nature of the populous in general today just dosent leave room for the old ways of love, passion, kindness and compassion. Today we are crude, vile, and just plane nasty. In all this ranting I would like to ask all of you one simple question.... If the gentlemen is dead where does that leave the ladies, or are they too gone. And if so where does the blame lie. Did the loss of the gentlemen preclude the loss of the lady or vice versa? |
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My fingers Myself, kinda hard to live when you lose that. |
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I like your wood too...awesome
You would lol... |
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Did you really make all that wooden stuff on your profile? If so, that's really cool. I agree, it is nice stuff!! Once again thank you. I would make the little blush face if I knew how do any of that stuff. If I can post a link here I will show you my myspace page. |
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