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Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me.
sorry i laugh at almost everything and everyone, i can't help you with that request. by the way, you might want to use the correct 'plane' in your first post if you're so big on vocabulary. 
Yes I failed spelling and my spell check helps alot. But it interests me that you noticed. I really figured you for kind of glossing over things. Apparently your deeper than that. Im impressed. i don't like to either and, most times, i don't bother - unless someone sounds like they think they are smarter than anyone else. Honestly people, I AM NOT TRYING TO SOUND SMARTER!!! I AM NOT LOOKING DOWN ON YOU!!!! I like all of you for various reasons. I am just trying to be me!!! Does it surprise  you to know I have high blood pressure?
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Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me.
sorry i laugh at almost everything and everyone, i can't help you with that request. by the way, you might want to use the correct 'plane' in your first post if you're so big on vocabulary.
Yes I failed spelling and my spell check helps alot. But it interests me that you noticed. I really figured you for kind of glossing over things. Apparently your deeper than that. Im impressed. i don't like to either and, most times, i don't bother - unless someone sounds like they think they are smarter than anyone else. Honestly people, I AM NOT TRYING TO SOUND SMARTER!!! I AM NOT LOOKING DOWN ON YOU!!!! I like all of you for various reasons. I am just trying to be me!!! You seem very nice. Most people are just f!cking with you brother. Just lighten up a bit....... 
I dont mind people messing with my mind, I just dont like the way it makes me feel inside. I know most people dont consider the feeling of those they are talking to, but I do, and some of the things that have been threaded to me in the last two days have shown me that in this I seem to stand alone... But hat its not the first time. Im a survivor. |
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Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man.
so all a man has to do is buy a dinner and open a door and they are considered a 'good man'? just because a guy uses all these rarely-used words, doesn't make him classy, a gentleman, or a good man. it mostly just makes me laugh at him. I guess it is wrong in America today to have a vocabulary. I apologize if my words offend you or make you laugh at me. Has it ever occurred to you that I am really like this and not trying to impress anyone? Come on now...there is always going to be those idiots..whether male or female....you learn to walk, to eat and *****....the same way... I believe sekin is true to his word.Other wise, this post would be dead by now. Here is a man..who openly can and knows, how to recognize if he is wrong or not...and fixes it..all by himself with his mind and heart...and consideration towards others. This kind of process in ppl.is null and void in alot....sad sekin...from the very start of this post..I took you as guenuine...there should be more of you.... and woman should embrace..when they come across someone of ur stature... I see to many appologies (possibly) expected...or what ever..of you.... I don't see a appoligy needed in this quote and post area..by u...to be necassary.... We need to except the FACT..that there are good men and woman still living and breathing....ok my eyes are popping out... sekin....  
Thank you my lady, you have watched and read from above so I consider you to know me at least well enough to be genuine about what you said on my behalf. So again I truly thank you for believing me. Most dont. Because ppl don't trust... I have had so much crap happen to me...by men...since childhood.... I chose not to let that interfere with my thought process and the knowledge I was taught and learned thru out my life... To many..choose to be stagnant...thats why...they don't get it or see the real in ppl... We are not freaking robots.....We are human..we have faults....there are those who..will continue on with out any consience....the ones who have a concience...are the ones who thrive...in all aspects of living.... The reason ,if u read my new heading...and my thinking is because, yes, I am tired of the crap...blaten statement like mine..weeds the weeds..Read the whole thing.I will not tolerate or give in to those who will not treat me correctly across the board.... I have given and given and forgiven over and over... I want a return....it's actually called "Balance of love and life"... I am the least pretenious person...I care to much...I have a lot to give, to say, at the same time...I LISTEN.... Listening passionately is one of the best attributes to a loveing relationship.... And I didn't read it in a book either.... 
I am beginning to discover that reaching out in today's world with compassion and understanding only breeds mistrust and resentment. You seem to me like a person who gets her hand burned every time you reach out. Please don't stop reaching out. I truly believe that compassion and understanding can change the world. But sometimes I get tired of burned hands too. |
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I MISS the gentleman. I AM a lady. But I agree with you. I have been to some chat rooms, and the women can be horrendous. They can sweet as pie one moment and dripping venom the next. I think the gentleman is alive and well, but these new breed of women are not ladies. These new women are suspicious of anyone who is actually nice, because they themselves don't carry that gene. And girls stop pretending that You are nice. You are only nice when you want something. To be a Lady or a Gentlemen means to have consideration for the other person first. Too many women are self- centred, hence the gentleman is not seeked out or appreciated when acquired. Gentlemen everywhere, you are desired and appreciated, but alas the true Lady is becoming a rare jewel, (sometimes we don't come in the prettiest packages) But we ARE here :) yep. Only ladies can make the men gentlemen. And vice versa, although in my experiences, I tried but then I guess women think I'm an easy game. Now I'm just a bstard and viciously sarcastic attacker, it's not something I was always been, but I learned it from women I have dated. Brother I understand!!! I havent dated in 12 years, and I am feeling kind of like this could make me angry enough to become resentful. |
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Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me.
sorry i laugh at almost everything and everyone, i can't help you with that request. by the way, you might want to use the correct 'plane' in your first post if you're so big on vocabulary.
Yes I failed spelling and my spell check helps alot. But it interests me that you noticed. I really figured you for kind of glossing over things. Apparently your deeper than that. Im impressed. i don't like to either and, most times, i don't bother - unless someone sounds like they think they are smarter than anyone else. Honestly people, I AM NOT TRYING TO SOUND SMARTER!!! I AM NOT LOOKING DOWN ON YOU!!!! I like all of you for various reasons. I am just trying to be me!!! |
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 I think you can find someone on here and I wish you good luck
I really appreciate that. I have kinda been downtrodden about the whole thing since I got on yesterday. Not to play the victim, but I kinda feel battered... Thank you for the kind words. They were felt... If you were a victim, you would have not returned to your thread. Many people make "nice guy" posts, get pissy because no one agrees with them, and leave, never to be heard from again. I admire the fact that you're sticking around. 
Im really trying to maintain, but keeping up with all of you and being conscious of my spelling is kind of hard. I cant even walk and chew gum!! |
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Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me.
sorry i laugh at almost everything and everyone, i can't help you with that request. by the way, you might want to use the correct 'plane' in your first post if you're so big on vocabulary.
Yes I failed spelling and my spell check helps alot. But it interests me that you noticed. I really figured you for kind of glossing over things. Apparently your deeper than that. Im impressed. Its called social graces, and thank you for not hurting my feelings, apparently they are pretty sensitive tonight. Im starting to feel like the person who glosses over things. I never notice a persons spelling. |
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Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me.
sorry i laugh at almost everything and everyone, i can't help you with that request. by the way, you might want to use the correct 'plane' in your first post if you're so big on vocabulary.
Yes I failed spelling and my spell check helps alot. But it interests me that you noticed. I really figured you for kind of glossing over things. Apparently your deeper than that. Im impressed. well i glossed over most of it, except the important stuff like spelling and grammar. 
I need you as a spellchecker, you seem to be much better at it than my computer.
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I think you can find someone on here and I wish you good luck
I really appreciate that. I have kinda been downtrodden about the whole thing since I got on yesterday. Not to play the victim, but I kinda feel battered... Thank you for the kind words. They were felt... |
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Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man.
so all a man has to do is buy a dinner and open a door and they are considered a 'good man'? just because a guy uses all these rarely-used words, doesn't make him classy, a gentleman, or a good man. it mostly just makes me laugh at him. I guess it is wrong in America today to have a vocabulary. I apologize if my words offend you or make you laugh at me. Has it ever occurred to you that I am really like this and not trying to impress anyone? Come on now...there is always going to be those idiots..whether male or female....you learn to walk, to eat and *****....the same way... I believe sekin is true to his word.Other wise, this post would be dead by now. Here is a man..who openly can and knows, how to recognize if he is wrong or not...and fixes it..all by himself with his mind and heart...and consideration towards others. This kind of process in ppl.is null and void in alot....sad sekin...from the very start of this post..I took you as guenuine...there should be more of you.... and woman should embrace..when they come across someone of ur stature... I see to many appologies (possibly) expected...or what ever..of you.... I don't see a appoligy needed in this quote and post area..by u...to be necassary.... We need to except the FACT..that there are good men and woman still living and breathing....ok my eyes are popping out... sekin....
Thank you my lady, you have watched and read from above so I consider you to know me at least well enough to be genuine about what you said on my behalf. So again I truly thank you for believing me. Most dont. |
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Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man.
so all a man has to do is buy a dinner and open a door and they are considered a 'good man'? just because a guy uses all these rarely-used words, doesn't make him classy, a gentleman, or a good man. it mostly just makes me laugh at him. I guess it is wrong in America today to have a vocabulary. I apologize if my words offend you or make you laugh at me. Has it ever occurred to you that I am really like this and not trying to impress anyone? Hell I am from Kentucky. I had to look most of those words up. What I do know is most folks don't appreciate being talked down to. Just a little Hillbilly advice.... Thank you for the advice, as a red neck myself I see your point. But lets say for arguments sake this is really how I am, and that my intention is never to talk down to anyone. Should I change who I am in order for other people not to fell talked down to? I didnt realize I was trying to make a point, I thought we were just chatting. Well, I guess that would depend on whether you wish to get your point across or not. To be quite honest I haven't figured that out. |
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Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me.
sorry i laugh at almost everything and everyone, i can't help you with that request. by the way, you might want to use the correct 'plane' in your first post if you're so big on vocabulary.
Yes I failed spelling and my spell check helps alot. But it interests me that you noticed. I really figured you for kind of glossing over things. Apparently your deeper than that. Im impressed. |
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Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man.
so all a man has to do is buy a dinner and open a door and they are considered a 'good man'? just because a guy uses all these rarely-used words, doesn't make him classy, a gentleman, or a good man. it mostly just makes me laugh at him. I guess it is wrong in America today to have a vocabulary. I apologize if my words offend you or make you laugh at me. Has it ever occurred to you that I am really like this and not trying to impress anyone? Hell I am from Kentucky. I had to look most of those words up. What I do know is most folks don't appreciate being talked down to. Just a little Hillbilly advice.... Thank you for the advice, as a red neck myself I see your point. But lets say for arguments sake this is really how I am, and that my intention is never to talk down to anyone. Should I change who I am in order for other people not to fell talked down to? |
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no actually it hasn't occurred to me. beyond the posts that i've read in this thread, i've not given you a second thought. having a large vocabulary is great but if you try to use it on an entire audience, chances are you'll lose most people as they will just skim through it as useless drivel, or dribble, whichever the case. Thats why Im here to find someone who dosent just skip all the "useless drivel, or dribble, whichever the case." I am seeking companionship, and in today's world thats hard to find. Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me. Oh and BTW I really like your paper smile. |
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no actually it hasn't occurred to me. beyond the posts that i've read in this thread, i've not given you a second thought. having a large vocabulary is great but if you try to use it on an entire audience, chances are you'll lose most people as they will just skim through it as useless drivel, or dribble, whichever the case. Thats why Im here to find someone who dosent just skip all the "useless drivel, or dribble, whichever the case." I am seeking companionship, and in today's world thats hard to find. Please don't laugh at me for trying to find someone who understands me. |
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Ladies can open their own doors and buy their own dinners, and generally have no need of a what used to be considered a good man.
so all a man has to do is buy a dinner and open a door and they are considered a 'good man'? just because a guy uses all these rarely-used words, doesn't make him classy, a gentleman, or a good man. it mostly just makes me laugh at him. I guess it is wrong in America today to have a vocabulary. I apologize if my words offend you or make you laugh at me. Has it ever occurred to you that I am really like this and not trying to impress anyone? |
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I MISS the gentleman. I AM a lady. But I agree with you. I have been to some chat rooms, and the women can be horrendous. They can sweet as pie one moment and dripping venom the next. I think the gentleman is alive and well, but these new breed of women are not ladies. These new women are suspicious of anyone who is actually nice, because they themselves don't carry that gene. And girls stop pretending that You are nice. You are only nice when you want something. To be a Lady or a Gentlemen means to have consideration for the other person first. Too many women are self- centred, hence the gentleman is not seeked out or appreciated when acquired. Gentlemen everywhere, you are desired and appreciated, but alas the true Lady is becoming a rare jewel, (sometimes we don't come in the prettiest packages) But we ARE here :) You are a very wise woman...
Well said.....I agree with you 100 %...... My guy friend (s) talk about this all the time... One of is always saying "RED FLAG" BEWARE...RUN... Best of luck  
God I hate it when a nice guy brings up a red flag!!! Doesn't nice mean anything anymore??? It used to be a good thing... carry the American Flag...Red, White, and Blue...you'll be safe...
Poor form my dear lady, for I have found that those of us brave enough to carry the red white and blue usually risk their safety for those of us unwilling or unable. ???????? I am sorry, either the mean remark I made went over your head, which I doubt, or your original remark about red flags, and then the red white and blue flags was taken wrong. After looking back on your above post about, "One of is always saying "RED FLAG" BEWARE...RUN..." I see that you may not have meant anything cruel by it. I am very sensitive today due to all the nice guy bashing going around. So I sincerely apologize for my sensitivity. not a problem...thats why I ????? you. We will always see red flags...between both men and woman... I could have ramble ...I do that alot..lol. I'm tired...forgive me.. Umm, my first thought when I made the r/w/b flag comment..was my sons....I always told them...I see "red"....then they really are going to see red from mama....And I don't care how old they are... I raised them to be respectful, loving, commited, compassioate etc..young men... My 21 yr old who is a Marine, is married ,with a newborn...they have been toghether since 8th grade.At his age....he is an amazing HUSBAND and FATHER.... The flag thing is..saying...the good guys carry themselves..red white and blue....honorable.... Others..choose the red....I have learned to about face quicker as I have gotten older.... Closing..You are red, white and blue.......compliment... Once again I find that the conclusions I often jump to are inaccurate. I apologize to you from the bottom of my heart, and want to thank you for your sons service, he sounds like a very good man. |
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There really are good men and women out there.I see proof of it everyday.Times have changed,but courtesy and empathy towards others to me is the new definition of a gentlemen or lady.Maybe it is not practiced as much as it should be,but there is still hope. Thank you for offering hope. It is a rare thing these days, and apparently you are a rare woman. Kudos for being your own person. |
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I MISS the gentleman. I AM a lady. But I agree with you. I have been to some chat rooms, and the women can be horrendous. They can sweet as pie one moment and dripping venom the next. I think the gentleman is alive and well, but these new breed of women are not ladies. These new women are suspicious of anyone who is actually nice, because they themselves don't carry that gene. And girls stop pretending that You are nice. You are only nice when you want something. To be a Lady or a Gentlemen means to have consideration for the other person first. Too many women are self- centred, hence the gentleman is not seeked out or appreciated when acquired. Gentlemen everywhere, you are desired and appreciated, but alas the true Lady is becoming a rare jewel, (sometimes we don't come in the prettiest packages) But we ARE here :) You are a very wise woman...
Well said.....I agree with you 100 %...... My guy friend (s) talk about this all the time... One of is always saying "RED FLAG" BEWARE...RUN... Best of luck
God I hate it when a nice guy brings up a red flag!!! Doesn't nice mean anything anymore??? It used to be a good thing... carry the American Flag...Red, White, and Blue...you'll be safe...
Poor form my dear lady, for I have found that those of us brave enough to carry the red white and blue usually risk their safety for those of us unwilling or unable. ???????? I am sorry, either the mean remark I made went over your head, which I doubt, or your original remark about red flags, and then the red white and blue flags was taken wrong. After looking back on your above post about, "One of is always saying "RED FLAG" BEWARE...RUN..." I see that you may not have meant anything cruel by it. I am very sensitive today due to all the nice guy bashing going around. So I sincerely apologize for my sensitivity. |
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I MISS the gentleman. I AM a lady. But I agree with you. I have been to some chat rooms, and the women can be horrendous. They can sweet as pie one moment and dripping venom the next. I think the gentleman is alive and well, but these new breed of women are not ladies. These new women are suspicious of anyone who is actually nice, because they themselves don't carry that gene. And girls stop pretending that You are nice. You are only nice when you want something. To be a Lady or a Gentlemen means to have consideration for the other person first. Too many women are self- centred, hence the gentleman is not seeked out or appreciated when acquired. Gentlemen everywhere, you are desired and appreciated, but alas the true Lady is becoming a rare jewel, (sometimes we don't come in the prettiest packages) But we ARE here :) You are a very wise woman...
Well said.....I agree with you 100 %...... My guy friend (s) talk about this all the time... One of is always saying "RED FLAG" BEWARE...RUN... Best of luck
God I hate it when a nice guy brings up a red flag!!! Doesn't nice mean anything anymore??? It used to be a good thing... carry the American Flag...Red, White, and Blue...you'll be safe...
Poor form my dear lady, for I have found that those of us brave enough to carry the red white and blue usually risk their safety for those of us unwilling or unable. |
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