hopefull in langley bc.

Opinions welcome.

I know a couple girls who have children, the girls age from 17 to 19. And when they meet new guys (some of which are from the web) they bring their child[ren] around them. Even when they are FIRST meeting them in person. They bring as many as 10 guys in 2 months around, and as soon as they hit it they quit it. Yes most of these girls i know are straight up sluts. Anyways, in my eyes i think that is bad parenting. Why subject your child[ren] to that? Me personally would NEVER bring a man around my daughter if i wasn't serious with him and seeing us together for years to come. I dont subject my daughter to unhealthy things for her mind and i dont want her to get attached to someone and get ripped away because he wasn't serious to begin with. And also, when chicks bring random men around all the time its just prone for your child[ren] to trust compelete strangers and then they will be dead somewhere in a ditch because they trusted someone they didn't know.

What do you think??

Just for today, I will admit that I am a "Mingle-holic"

Did they both go a bit over the top for performances being watched by families?


I thought Janets mini second of a faux pa was hardly noticable but people got up in arms about it to the point she felt a need to apologize for it. On the other hand, Adams performance had several minutes of one suggestive action after another and there hasnt been much press surrounding it and probably, I can guess, will be no apology either.

I discussed with someone else, how interesting it is how many more people seem to be offended by the human body than by what was once considered 'sexually suggestive or crude" behavior. I love Adams vocals but I felt his performance was not appropriate for that venue.....what do you think?

Good morning everyone,hope you all have a great day.


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I went on a few dates with a guy and he said he wanted us to date just each other...well we slept togather. At the end of the night he told me he liked the whole picture (whatever that means) we talked fine for a few days after that then he says bc of work he does not have much time to chat. But yet he can get on his dating profile everyday. He tells me he is not blowing me off... what does it seem like to u???

I agree ... to a point.
However, just because you said you're commited, doesn't mean you'll actually stay lol
Not that marriage means you will either but it certainly does make you rethink things because it's not as easy to just leave. No you have to do things legally and you have to pay. Soooo... you might not easily just get up and go, or cheat on your spouse. That one will really cost you.
Also, it was mentioned before, taxes and insurance. If you have kids, it's nice to have all of you with the same last name :) but of course, this is getting more and more common to not as many times people have kids from past relationships.
I do feel tho there is a difference between being your wife, and being your girlfriend. Maybe it's just a "status" thing to me, IDK. But I would feel more secure being the wife than the forever girlfriend.

the only thing about a legal marriage is the tax breaks, insurance, etc. Then again you could be considered common law (at least in Texas).

I don't feel the need for marriage any more (like when I was young) I can enjoy a committed relationship with someone with out a piece of paper

I sleep in my birthday suit

So is the shot.. any vaccine you get is a live virus. That's how you build up immunity to it. You only get sick after one if the virus was already in your system!

You are right it is funny and yet so bloody sad.. I live way up here in the north I have had so many rejections of..
If only lived in the U.S. ... Gee I thought I did

great thanks, i will check em out, not cause i am that desperate, jus cause im curious

Welcome to the club, LOL! I'm getting nudges from Indonesia and India.
The 3rd world countries don't look so bad at all after USA joined them.