Opinions welcome.

I know a couple girls who have children, the girls age from 17 to 19. And when they meet new guys (some of which are from the web) they bring their child[ren] around them. Even when they are FIRST meeting them in person. They bring as many as 10 guys in 2 months around, and as soon as they hit it they quit it. Yes most of these girls i know are straight up sluts. Anyways, in my eyes i think that is bad parenting. Why subject your child[ren] to that? Me personally would NEVER bring a man around my daughter if i wasn't serious with him and seeing us together for years to come. I dont subject my daughter to unhealthy things for her mind and i dont want her to get attached to someone and get ripped away because he wasn't serious to begin with. And also, when chicks bring random men around all the time its just prone for your child[ren] to trust compelete strangers and then they will be dead somewhere in a ditch because they trusted someone they didn't know.

What do you think??

do you have any of these girls' numbers...JK JK but your right kids are very aware and i am prolly over cautious who i introduce into my daughters life.

I wouldn't even consider my child,to meet anyone unless I was in a very sound relationship.Thats just crazy! Sure you can mention you have a child.My son is 23 and still to this day.I don't have him meet anyone.When a relationship has the trust,honesty,and your in a solid relationship, and has time under its belt..then i'll consider

Yes, i know them children are probably going to have emotional problems and might grow up to not want to cling to someone for very long. I feel bad for children that are being raised by sorry *** teen mothers. Im just glad that i have a good head on my sholders for my daughter..she will be sane in the long run.

I also feel that what the mothers are doing is unhealthy. Not only because they see all of the men going in and out of their moms' lives, but kids tend to mimic their parents' actions.

sorry but, I may be protective of my son, but I won't change that. It takes time, respect and trust before I will introduce my son to others

AGoodWomen, there are only a few who holds that honor. Lets just hope that there are more like you. But I know and feel such anguish about those other SHLUTS messing things up.

I had some very strict rules about my children when they were still living at home. First of all in the 12 years I was single they only met 2 men that had relationship potential. This was done in a very casual setting I told my kids, that I had a friend that wanted to go to the zoo with us since he had never been to ours. We met at the zoo seperate cars the whole nine yards.

I have seen to many children exposed to numerous dating scenes, and the fall out. Alot of these kids begin to either think it is something to do with them or they look at people as expendable..Either way not a good thing.

I am not advocating lying to a child just protect them.

I think these two kids are headed for some major bills in counseling.