Well definitely not on my shiny shoes!

As long as he follows through....then H-E-L-L-O, darlin'!!

Now THAT'S a line a girl doesn't hear every day!!!!

We smart asses know how to spell!! It only adds to our charm, right?!?!

Noted! lol! As a matter of fact (and I am sure you are not interested) women tend to approach me. My female friends are split between it being due to my height and my baby face but hey, am not going to lose sleep over it!


Talldub....I'm sure they do approach you, and I'm not suprised. Just having some fun with ya...and I didn't even have to get on all fours and sing "Hallelujah!"Although....

We've obvioulsy got more than ONE goof here tonight! Just don't be suprised when her response is "nice, ass"....and it's NOT a compliment! I'm just saying....

Use that great sense of humor you've got...make her laugh! Fun and flirty = minimal rejection.

Well....I just wouldn't use it as your opener, is all. With a different approach, she might even let you see them eventually!

Well, that would make "good-bye" pretty easy for most women then.....


Always so honest Faith.



LOL.....it's a curse! BTW - hello!

Hello is very difficult. In my head I am saying "Hello" but what pops out is "Nice tits". I guess it's a hormonal problem!


Well, that would make "good-bye" pretty easy for most women then.....

What I've noticed is that sometimes our body language is sending out signals we don't even realize that can keep people from approaching us. Like in the movie "Hitch" where he sums up what signals she is sending to ward off men, then remarks of the "F**k off" signing on her forehead.

There have been times where I'd had to make a conscious effort to pay attention to the signals I was sending, good or bad. Being mindful of that always had an impact on the response I received. You wouldn't think that it's necessary to remind yourself to be approachable, but often we try to protect ourselves and sometimes that actually cause isolation. JMO....

Two or three rounds of computer Solitare works like a charm for me....but the good loving sounds much more fun!!

Ornery!

Vernon, CT

Rising Sun, Maryland (used to be Summer Hill!)

Pueblo, Colorado

Hi there! Sorry you're having a rough day. For what it's worth ~ and off topic ~ I learned a long time ago that when work AND bosses got to me I could not control THEIR actions, only MY reactions. Once I really got that, it made a world of difference and I was able to take the power they had to hurt or upset me away from them and take control of my life. It was very freeing, and I hope it helps you in some small way!

Okay - back on topic. STRONG for FindMe

Frustrated...with work! (FindMe)

Norfolk, VA

Lifting up your friend and his family, as well as folks like you who will provide the love and support that will help get them through this very difficult time.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.