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love
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life is what you make it, love or not... Agreed. |
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Topic:
Would you give your S/O...
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the passwords to ALL of your social media outlets? Nope. |
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Topic:
Dating Women With Dogs
Edited by
navygirl
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Fri 01/09/15 10:04 PM
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It is one thing to decline to date someone who pampers animals. It is another thing to automatically rule out dating a person just because that person has animals. Do all women with dogs act the way described in the OP? Answer: No. I can only speak from my own experience but every single guy I dated with a pet treated me the way the Op was treated. So, yeah if a guy has a pet; I would certainly rule him out for dating. Like anything else; its just a preference. Its no worse than when people rule out others because of being overweight, having an occupation you don't like, not enough education, not making enough money, not tall enough, etc. Everyone has a right to rule out someone they feel would not be compatible with them. |
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Scams
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Here is a prime example of a scammer message. My profile picture is a train and this what he says. How are you doing today? Well am just good as usual thing to me , well its amaze me very much to see a very nice profile of you with a very beautiful picture posted on it... In fairness, Ms. navygirl, you DO have a BEAUTIFUL chassis. ;) LOL |
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I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused?? Just throwing this out there but it could be because you are a single dad. Single parents do seem to have a much harder time meeting someone. Also; I personally found the particularly nice guys are indeed not so nice. I found them to be pushy, bossy, possessive, manipulative, and a bit on the psycho side. |
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Scams
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Here is a prime example of a scammer message. My profile picture is a train and this what he says.
How are you doing today? Well am just good as usual thing to me , well its amaze me very much to see a very nice profile of you with a very beautiful picture posted on it, tell me is that really you? and if yes , then i don\'t think a lady like you should get on dating site before having millions of men swept you off your feet, but i think maybe this is a mystery for me , maybe those men out there where you live lost their sight not to see such a perfect and natural beauty in you and i could confess that have never seen such a beauty, its make me feel so much interested in you and i think you\'ve captivate my heart and soul and what next is to get to know each other more better because i feel the connection is stronger now to me and my heart says we have allot in common , well when i see your picture, my heart stop and beat faster , i really would love to get a message back from you and let me know if you are still lonely..add me at lancedwight88 at ya -hoo dot comcomand you can also add me to your im messenger.lancedwight88.. chat list and chat right there to get to know each other more better and you can also see my picture before they approve mine here, now i will be waiting to read your mail there....till then remain blessed and have a very wonderful day.. add me direct to ur yahoo list so we can chat that much....smile Hug and Kiss.. lance |
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REAL woman? I suppose because I don't immediately ask a guy what his job/what he does for a living then I'm not a REAL woman? Wow. I guess I kind of find it crass to ask a person what they do for a living within one or two messages with that person. Nothing wrong with asking what a person does for a living. Men usually ask me that in a couple of questions as its just a way of getting to know you. As for the Op, if I trusted him; it would not matter about his occupation. Here's my point, does a person's profession define them? I guess I've had different experiences than you, I don't often get asked my profession right off the bat and unless I do then I don't ask his profession right off the bat. I wasn't wild about the implication in the comment about REAL WOMEN. Everyone approaches learning about each other in a different way. Maybe I'm misinterpreting the meaning of that comment. Hmm, I am not sure what the comment about real women is. It might mean exactly that; a real person not a scammer but you would have to ask the lady that made the comment. I can't say one way or another if a person's profession does define them but it can certainly affect whether a person will or will not date you. For example; having served in the military; men I met simply would not date a military woman for many reasons that are too long too list. Or they may not want to date a cop, or a firefighter due to the danger of being killed. They may not want to date a long haul truck driver, a oil patch worker, or a traveling salesman as they won't be home that much. You may be fine with dating whomever but for others; it could be a deal breaker so this why people ask someone's profession. Men ask me my profession to make sure I am actually working and not trying to mooch off them or have them take care of me; so I understand why they ask. |
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REAL woman? I suppose because I don't immediately ask a guy what his job/what he does for a living then I'm not a REAL woman? Wow. I guess I kind of find it crass to ask a person what they do for a living within one or two messages with that person. Nothing wrong with asking what a person does for a living. Men usually ask me that in a couple of questions as its just a way of getting to know you. As for the Op, if I trusted him; it would not matter about his occupation. |
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Everybdy tell about the place where u always go alone...nobdy is with u there....u hv to go alone only??? Put ur views... I go everywhere alone as I have a much better time rather than dragging some boring guy with me. JMO |
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I have a better chance of winning the lottery than I do of meeting a soul mate. Maybe you are just on the wrong site, you have a nice profile and interests. DHU has a much better group and larger on the forums. As many posts as you have here this probably will not appeal to you, but you really should try something new. I have posted here a few times but find it an unfriendly place for the most part. Good Luck in your search! Alby Sorry you havent had a positive time here....i for one have met some amazing compassionate people....in the forums. As a dating site? Meh...but do stick around and chat...maybe you will change your mind. Thanks: I just got back and read this. Seems few stay long here, just went to every lady's profile on this "Topic" and only the over 1,000 posts are still here. All the rest have deleted or not been online in over 30 days. Will try a little longer as at least some are friendly on here. I hope you find what you are looking for. I took my photo and info off as all I got was scammers. Just come here to chat occasionally. |
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Topic:
age difference
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Why is hard to date someone younger than you? there's a difference in life experience. many just don't want to feel like a babysitter Couldn't have said it better myself. |
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Topic:
A fine line
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Is there a fine line between being honest and being a dic? At times the approach and tack of the statement makes a difference, and how one receives the message. Yes and No! Depends on the subject and how people feel about the subject matter. Would one prefer honesty over partial truth? I would prefer honesty over partial truth and even if it is hurtful. I will work though the pain but be a better person for accepting and hearing the truth. I don't like people who sugar coat things. I have always been honest in a relationship and yep they don't last but I sleep better at night knowing I didn't lie to the person. |
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Topic:
Marriage first?
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Being abstinent by choice is never easy, but again I believe it will be worth it in the end Again; another awesome man. All I meet is dirt bags that don't give a damn about knowing me and just want to have sex; especially on the first date. I gladly kicked them to the curb. I deserve better than that. |
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Topic:
Dating Women With Dogs
Edited by
navygirl
on
Sat 01/03/15 10:56 AM
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Frankly, I don't see logic in starting this thread in the first place. Why would a man need to start a thread to tell the entire world that he won't date a woman who has dogs? I think he was trying to understand why this woman was treating the dog better than him. It is just a topic of discussion. Its no worse than the nice guy threads. If people don't like this thread; then just ignore the thread. I have seen several threads that I don't like and bypass them. |
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Are all the good guys taken Yeah; sadly they are. |
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Topic:
What makes?
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A good man respects me as an equal rather than treating me like a child or an idiot.
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Topic:
A fine line
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I believe in being honest but I do it with tact.
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Topic:
OLDER WOMEN VS. YOUNGER MEN
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age doesn't matter... Of course it doesn't when you are using someone for sex. |
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Topic:
Dating Women With Dogs
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Disclaimer: I love animals...but SOME dog owners are quite obsessive when it comes to their dogs. I have experienced some people's over the top enthusiasm for their particular dog/s and I must say it can be off putting. Nauseating even. From...continuous look at my pictures to..constant conversation referrals to...you wanna hold my little coochy swoochy little love ball...isn't he the cutest!!???...My dog is the best runner/catcher/agility/walker/trickster ever...Aww look he likes you, he peed on your purse!...He doesn't mean it when he bites...He always shows his teeth when he's happy! Don't worry about the drool it washes right out!!...They can't meet you for lunch without them, they dress them up, organize events for them (and expect you to attend) and are offended when you don't share this enthusiasm. I'm not talking about potential lovers just friends...I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone whe acts this way... A commitment to dog ownership should be a given or else why have them. They are great companions and it is nice to have a furry being greet you at the door at the end of the day. I respect that. But please lets have a healthy relationship with our pets that doesn't preclude all else... Yeah totally agree with this. |
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spot on, you got it exactly right, "silly little boys" that sums them up a treat. Yeah; it seems all the good ones that want to be with a woman their age are spoken for. My best friend is 64 and the perfect man but damn he is married. Sure wish I could clone him. LOL |
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