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Topic: Would you give your S/O...
Baldhead1VA Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 27	Wed 01/07/15 04:24 PM
the passwords to ALL of your social media outlets?

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Wed 01/07/15 04:39 PM Edited by kc0003 on Wed 01/07/15 04:40 PM
those that hide things usually have things to hide. that said, i would hope she had no reason to ask for such things.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Wed 01/07/15 04:44 PM
No way! Some things should remain your own and a wee bit of privacy to yourself! As long as you're not messing about, there's no problem, except in the other persons head!

Jomaka Joined Mon 12/29/14 Posts: 1	Wed 01/07/15 04:51 PM
No because what is mine, is mine

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 01/07/15 04:55 PM
No. And I wouldn't ask for his either. This is a trust issue.

Baldhead1VA Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 27	Wed 01/07/15 05:09 PM
Agreed! Yet, some ppl feel like they are entitled to it.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 01/07/15 05:28 PM
Agreed! Yet, some ppl feel like they are entitled to it. Those people don't understand trust. You weed those people out....lol

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Wed 01/07/15 05:34 PM
the passwords to ALL of your social media outlets? It depends. I don't keep any secrets or ever mess around and my ex had the password access to my gmail account (its changed now) and access to my phone anytime. I wasn't on any social media. Ive never done that with anyone before and i cant say i will again

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21255	Wed 01/07/15 05:36 PM
It's ALL about insecurity and control. I would never ask for passwords. Nor, would I ever share mine.

kthnxbye Joined Fri 05/14/10 Posts: 112	Wed 01/07/15 05:36 PM
Being that it is tied into my job , that would be a negative.

GRX Joined Mon 05/19/14 Posts: 70	Wed 01/07/15 05:43 PM
I'd be surprised if she asked for my passwords.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Wed 01/07/15 05:44 PM
the passwords to ALL of your social media outlets? Only if she were my wife.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Thu 01/08/15 12:32 AM
Agreed! Yet, some ppl feel like they are entitled to it. Those people don't understand trust. You weed those people out....lol Exactly.

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Thu 01/08/15 01:22 AM
Why should I need to know his passwords or he mine? It wouldn�t even come to my mind to ask for it neither to give it. Unless there would be some emergency, objectiv reason for him to give me his password or I would need him to know mine. If he trusts me enough to give it by himself to show me his trust I would respect that. But would never ask for it. More if either of the two want the other one�s passwords without very good reason there is question: why? To control? To change something? To cheat? Can�t find any good reason for that.

Baldhead1VA Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 27	Thu 01/08/15 04:16 AM
Some will argue: "well you MUST have something to hide by NOT being willing to give them all access." What do you say to that? Or What if you're married; is your spouse entitled?

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Thu 01/08/15 06:42 AM
Some will argue: "well you MUST have something to hide by NOT being willing to give them all access." What do you say to that? Or What if you're married; is your spouse entitled? That�s just a manipulation. And I would say that loud. Maybe it�s because I can�t stand any pressure. But I�ve found out that most people who complain about something they do the same thing they complain about. For example cheaters can be very, very jaelous, more then normal, because they assume that others do the same what they do. Such questioning would make me suspicious about their good intentions. I can always show what�s on my social sites, what�s on my bank account etc. isn�t that enough, why giving passwords? Don�t like secrets and don�t want to have them before my partner. But if I would assume I can really trust him and there would be reason, I would give it myself. And if I were married, I guess it could happen only if I would truly trust my partner. Then there is no reason why he shouldn�t know it.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 01/08/15 07:20 AM
Agreed! Yet, some ppl feel like they are entitled to it. Those people don't understand trust. You weed those people out....lol Yes and after you do, you need to look to yourself and figure out what YOU are doing wrong and fix it... Hiya Basha!

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 01/08/15 09:27 AM
Agreed! Yet, some ppl feel like they are entitled to it. Those people don't understand trust. You weed those people out....lol Yes and after you do, you need to look to yourself and figure out what YOU are doing wrong and fix it... Hiya Basha! and WE,,,,,,,WE need to look to OURSELVES, figure out what WE are doing wrong and fix it...

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Thu 01/08/15 09:41 AM
Agreed! Yet, some ppl feel like they are entitled to it. Those people don't understand trust. You weed those people out....lol Yes and after you do, you need to look to yourself and figure out what YOU are doing wrong and fix it... Hiya Basha! and WE,,,,,,,WE need to look to OURSELVES, figure out what WE are doing wrong and fix it... But...but...Leigh, you and I never do anything wrong. LOL...... Don't you love being perfect?....

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Thu 01/08/15 09:50 AM
Agreed! Yet, some ppl feel like they are entitled to it. Those people don't understand trust. You weed those people out....lol Yes and after you do, you need to look to yourself and figure out what YOU are doing wrong and fix it... Hiya Basha! and WE,,,,,,,WE need to look to OURSELVES, figure out what WE are doing wrong and fix it... But...but...Leigh, you and I never do anything wrong. LOL...... Don't you love being perfect?.... It's a huge burden ....but great for the waistline....