Topic: why can't a decent guy with morals find a decent girl with m
DerekAce's photo
Fri 01/09/15 08:20 PM
I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 01/09/15 08:30 PM

I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??


Perhaps you should start by defining "morals".

mightymoe's photo
Fri 01/09/15 08:38 PM
Edited by mightymoe on Fri 01/09/15 08:38 PM

I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??


your 23... you have years ahead of you to get used to it...women don't even know what women want...noway

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Fri 01/09/15 08:46 PM

I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??





the decent ones have all switched over to the dark side of life oops

bastet126's photo
Fri 01/09/15 08:47 PM


I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??


your 23... you have years ahead of you to get used to it...women don't even know what women want...noway


that's not true moe, we want ALL your social media passwords!!! laugh

DavidCommaGeek's photo
Fri 01/09/15 08:48 PM
Edited by DavidCommaGeek on Fri 01/09/15 08:49 PM
It's true.
The Dark Side has cookies.

mightymoe's photo
Fri 01/09/15 08:51 PM



I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??


your 23... you have years ahead of you to get used to it...women don't even know what women want...noway


that's not true moe, we want ALL your social media passwords!!! laugh


ok, its giantdong10.5...oh wait, thats my username...

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Fri 01/09/15 08:56 PM
so the assumption here is, apparently, that there is such a thing as a loyal decent guy...or not,,,as the guys they are finding lie and cheat...:tongue:

is that all there is guys?

inquiring minds want to know.flowerforyou

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Fri 01/09/15 08:57 PM



I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??


your 23... you have years ahead of you to get used to it...women don't even know what women want...noway


that's not true moe, we want ALL your social media passwords!!! laugh


lol

navygirl's photo
Fri 01/09/15 09:47 PM

I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??


Just throwing this out there but it could be because you are a single dad. Single parents do seem to have a much harder time meeting someone. Also; I personally found the particularly nice guys are indeed not so nice. I found them to be pushy, bossy, possessive, manipulative, and a bit on the psycho side.

DavidCommaGeek's photo
Fri 01/09/15 11:22 PM
I think most people in the world think of themselves as "decent". That's just your basic psychological bouyancy. Most people probably are, in fact, pretty decent. But I'm kind of with navygirl's attitude that calling yourself nice and decent doesn't make it so.
My advice would be to simply ACT nice and decent according to your natural instincts, and let others slap the adjectives on you. Actions speak louder than word, after all.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 01/09/15 11:32 PM

I think most people in the world think of themselves as "decent".


Including the dude in the movie The Goodbye Girl.



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Sat 01/10/15 12:14 AM


I'M 23 a single dad. And can't find a decent girl whos honest. Loyal.and who wants 1 man for 1 real honest to goodness long term relationship. I don't think I'M a perfect guy but I'M surely real and not ugly. But I do not get it. Girls my age do not seem to want a man who treats them like a lady. And maybe someone may be able to tell me why? Why girls complain Oh I can't find a good looking. Honest guy who treats me great and loyal but they find one n will cheat. Lie..flirt with other guys and I'M confused??


Just throwing this out there but it could be because you are a single dad. Single parents do seem to have a much harder time meeting someone. Also; I personally found the particularly nice guys are indeed not so nice. I found them to be pushy, bossy, possessive, manipulative, and a bit on the psycho side.

Yes I tend to agree. I find anyone who feels the need to call themselves nice is anything but, in most cases anyway.

zzzippy56's photo
Sat 01/10/15 12:21 AM
Edited by zzzippy56 on Sat 01/10/15 12:25 AM
Hey...... Just be yourself and let them decide.....

Hi Frankie does that go the other way around?
If they CALL themselves mean they might be nice......
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mightymoe's photo
Sat 01/10/15 12:06 PM

Hey...... Just be yourself and let them decide.....

Hi Frankie does that go the other way around?
If they CALL themselves mean they might be nice......
.


franky has a balance between the two, but shes always cool